Family & Relationships - 7 November 2006

My mum suffered a brain hemorage earlier this year, which in turn cost her her job. Her financial status is bad! She started a new job, but has been on the sick now for 2 weeks, and i worry about how long she'll keep this up for. I moved back home earlier this year after leaving my soon to be ex husband and to start a new life. I have a full time job. My mum gets £300/month from me. She now is saying yet again that she cant afford the rent, gas, elec, water, coucil tax, car fuel and insurance, food. I have flatly refused to get us a phone line (she cant due to her credit rating) to which she didnt like. We all have mobiles to make emergency calls. She is constantly depressed and is always nagging me for more money. I need help, before this gets too much for me. I feel the money she gets from me is adequate. She is saying she's not ready for work and feels she rushed into it. Where/Who can help us get financial help? Who should we contact? I have no idea and feel im lossing the plot!

2006-11-07 23:59:56 · 8 answers · asked by Need_to_know 5 in Family

Why would a man who says that he was broken hearted when his marriage ended after 10 years and two kids later. Turn around now that he is divorced and have his own affair with a married woman with children of her own? He said he would never do it but is now in fact having an affair of his own?

2006-11-07 23:59:28 · 16 answers · asked by Jane Smith 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a student and my parents no more want me to play basketball and concentrate on my studies ! I love basketball and I wish to take it as a profession infact .What shall I do? - obey my parents or my own soul.

2006-11-07 23:59:10 · 11 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Family

2006-11-07 23:58:50 · 6 answers · asked by ilove2partty 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey,
Been broken up for 2 months..Ex had a drub problem, but
also was a good guy. But point it, he is avoiding the closure
conversation...I don't want to hold onto this hate..by doing this
I am still giving him control, but he won't face up to forgiving
and hearing what i have to say. Would it be wrong to just say
what i need to on a machine and make that my closure? You can't
make someone hear what they don't want to hear...

HELP!

2006-11-07 23:58:17 · 7 answers · asked by wicktjw 1 in Singles & Dating

i work with a guy i used to date... hurt his feelings because of a stalker... all i wanted to do was to protect him and make sure nothings gonna happen to him since my stalker said that he'll hurt the guy i was dating... i reported it to the cops... now, the guy i used to date thinks im a psycho coz he got mad when the cops called him for an investigation... was it a big mistake? now i cant work around him anymore, i cant function well around him, thats why i decided to just move somewhere far... i know its not a good idea, but am i gonna do the right thing?

2006-11-07 23:57:51 · 9 answers · asked by "sehz" 1 in Singles & Dating

Please try not to be judgemental. I have fallen in love with a muslim man who is married with two kids. I have known him 6 years now and have been sleeping with him for three of these years...... there are times when I get confused.... because he mumbled a little prayer before the first time consummation occurred and he as asked me many of the questions it's good to ask when you're considering marrying someone, including how much money do I require to live each month... these things make me think he wants something more......

then out of nowhere he suddenly does not want me to call him..... he does not come over as often...... he is going to move his family to another country for a year or two...... his wife is suddenly upset when my name is mentioned.. or I talk to him. I feel as though he is cutting me out of his life......he says he does not want to hurt either of us and he will explain it all at a later date?
What do you think about this situation?

2006-11-07 23:57:31 · 11 answers · asked by who me? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

tring to find a family member please help me everytime i try i have to pay so much money to get into there database

2006-11-07 23:56:38 · 2 answers · asked by free2dream68 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ASL first please.

2006-11-07 23:56:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 23:56:02 · 9 answers · asked by ilove2partty 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance is coming home from an overseas trip with the military after 6 months away. I'd like to get him something nice since he got me a whopping lovely ring when we had a holiday half way through. Everytime I ask him what he wants though, he can't think of anything and after 7 years, I'm running low on ideas. Any suggestions?

2006-11-07 23:54:53 · 12 answers · asked by Adamina 2 in Weddings

.....and if you are here would you please make yourself known cos i am bored of waiting for you...... or if i havent met you yet would you hurry up and cross my path...

how long have you all been in your relationships and how long were you single before you started this one?

2006-11-07 23:54:27 · 10 answers · asked by kt_sub2000 4 in Singles & Dating

have you watched it, it is brilliant would you and your family ever consider it...what rules would you have...what sort of family would you not like to go to...how would your hubby or wife cope do u think?

2006-11-07 23:53:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How old were you when you first started partying?

2006-11-07 23:52:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my boyfriend and i have been together 6 years, his family have never taken to me and treated me as part of the family the way my family treat him.

his sis got married abroad and we went. he was best man his other sis was bridesmaid, it was a small do and i was left out completely. it was all about 'family' and 'the bridal party' and i felt completely alone and worthless.

the reception is coming up and im dreading it. my friends are coming but im worried i will end up crying in the loo again because they make me feel so unworthy of them.

to get this clear i know i am more than worthy, im a pretty girl, i was the prettiest one at the wedding, my boyfreind and i are strong i just hate the way they try and make me feel like an outsider all the time especially at big functions like that.

they have tried to split us up before and trun him against me. what should i do?

2006-11-07 23:52:38 · 24 answers · asked by kiki_dees 3 in Weddings

i've just been on my 1st date with this girl last night, we had a great night n it ended with a kiss.
It's strange how we know each other,i used to work with this girls mum n got on really well with her, when i left she told me to keep in touch and took my mobi number, a few months later we arranged to meet up with some other old collegues to catch up, anyway she brought her 2 daughters with her one of them bein the 17yr old, i liked her straight away but decided to do nothin, then i decided i was goin to ring her mum at work and say is it ok with u if i ask ur daughter to the pictures n she said it's no problem she dont mind at all, so i did she said yes we went out n had a great nite but everyone is tellin me she's too young

2006-11-07 23:51:47 · 35 answers · asked by KIPPAX 2 in Singles & Dating

In order of preference:

2006-11-07 23:51:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife starts her course next year and would be nice to get her something original that has a link to midwifery. Any idea or links greatly appreciated.

2006-11-07 23:51:24 · 15 answers · asked by dididave 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-07 23:50:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 23:49:29 · 7 answers · asked by Kalvin J 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend to our friends for a drink we argued as usual he went outside til things calmed down with with a bottle and one of them(girl) we were all hammered but while they were outside i had sex in the kitchen with our other mate(guy) i didnt remember doing it but did when i woke up the next day i had bite marks all over me i still dont know all the details but there coming for tea on friday how can i face them should i tell her i slept with her boyfriend ? should i tell my boyfriend ? my friend (guy) tried calling me but i cant anwser the phone he wants to do it again please help i know i will go to hell

2006-11-07 23:47:54 · 40 answers · asked by dawn300873 2 in Friends

2006-11-07 23:47:46 · 9 answers · asked by arun 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 23:47:10 · 12 answers · asked by x 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 23:46:19 · 32 answers · asked by dougdahead 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm going to buy her a bouquet of flowers, I am lucky to have her.
How about you, the mother of your life, surprise bouquet today???

2006-11-07 23:46:08 · 6 answers · asked by lee f 5 in Family

Do you believe you can fall in love with someone after having mind blowing sex one time?

2006-11-07 23:45:43 · 9 answers · asked by Pardon Moi? 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 23:45:27 · 7 answers · asked by skayy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

one time, my dad came into the front room, sat down too fast on the sofa and hit his head on the wall behind the sofa....it was hilarious to me. fortunately he saw the funny side too otherwise i would of got an a.ss whoopin....still makes me laugh when i think about it now.

2006-11-07 23:44:24 · 9 answers · asked by arrrthelifeofapirate 3 in Family

How would you get even with a guy who is playing you?

2006-11-07 23:44:06 · 11 answers · asked by torn 3 in Singles & Dating

So far, going after the ones with lower back tattoo's has been working.

2006-11-07 23:43:09 · 9 answers · asked by True Casanova 1 in Singles & Dating