Family & Relationships - 11 November 2006

a friend of mine came n proposed me on the phone. when i saw i din like his appearance.more over hes 24 n im16 . so i said no. but rite now i feel wat i did is rong . he was crazy about me.i can feel pity 4 him bt cannot force myself to love him. rite now i feel restless. i cannot speak about this to my mom or dad. i need sum ones advice. kindly help me . wat should i do

2006-11-11 23:58:35 · 12 answers · asked by natty 1 in Friends

me and my best friend, at the end of last year, started dating because we loved each other very much, we lived far apart but it was because of how we felt it lasted this long. She broke up with me a few weeks ago, for many reasons that were small and could be fixed, i know she still loves me but she said her heads really mixed up right now and she doesnt know what she wants, shes going to uni next year and i think that may be a factor in it. I get really jealous when shes talking to anyone else. I dont know what to do, do i give her time and see what happens and just be her friend, or do i just leave her alone? what would you guys do?

2006-11-11 23:57:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wrote him an email saying I miss him, he called me 5 days later apologizing for the delay as he was on a vacation and did not read his mail. He said he missed me too and he will call back. But it took me like forever last time and he did not call. So do you think he honestly misses me? Is it that he is busy so he does not call? He says "why would I call back if I did not care!". Please help.

2006-11-11 23:56:13 · 13 answers · asked by Chichou 4 in Singles & Dating

you know when i get home from work the mrs is down my throt if im late or doing something that she don't like does your mrs do that tell me by answering my quesion

2006-11-11 23:54:30 · 11 answers · asked by snoop 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 23:49:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 22 years 5'0" inches, very fit but petite. How come I always end up with guys over 6 feet tall? Are tall guys more attracted to short, petite girls? Are short petite girl attracted to tall guys? And we won't even get into proportions. Your thoughts please?

2006-11-11 23:47:55 · 8 answers · asked by Becky 5 in Singles & Dating

I love him he says he loves me we have a good relationship sex couldn't be better but he has tons of porn pictures naked girls in every pose poss on computer.I said thats disrespectful Im sitting next to you and I feel like your looking for someone else answerd (NO SILLY I LOVE YOU we are goodtogether I just like porn no big deal its not like I'm touching or emailing them )BUT he use to type comments like ooh thats so sexy or thats a very nice p***y then I confronted him told him how that hurts my feelings/just wrong We argued he no longer makes comments but still surfs 2/3 times a day . Should i not feel threaten by that? Maybe he doesn't love me? Any men out there help me from a mans veiw PLEASE.

2006-11-11 23:45:03 · 10 answers · asked by missrosie4you 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

why does men in america &nigeria always go 4 young girls,girls of d age 12to17 people who are still in secondary school.why does america girls have sex with boys when they are still young.like d age of 13,14,15,16,17. they are all too young 4 dat.i am 4rm nigeria iknow what is good 4 me i don't have a boyfriend becos i am not like u young people in america.

2006-11-11 23:43:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has had over 7 affairs all lasting over 1yr starting 16 mths within the marriage and we've been married for 7 yrs.We have almost totally stopped talking and sex is out the door.He does not want me to talk to friends,parents or even my pastor about our marriage because he thinks it is our private business but yet he is not willing to resolve anything.After I had a 6 mth emotional affair with someone after 3 yrs of being rejected,neglected and verbally abused things became worse with physical abuse and boldly cheating on me with other women.He has emotionally moved out and tells me nothing.He has told his family except parents and friends that he wants to leave the marriage and has someone else.All these people know this woman and he has even started carrying our kids there and call her aunty.
I love my husband and I do not understand how i can be so easily substituted.How is it that I can forgive his cheating and compromise he can't?
All his friends think he is so great

2006-11-11 23:42:58 · 16 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-11 23:42:28 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i m confused abt myself....i m behaving like a mad ....right?

2006-11-11 23:41:55 · 4 answers · asked by uma r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a rich young guy who wants to travel with rich young women. Mutual traveling will be the best way to describe what I want.

Not interested in escorts and paid relationships. Do you think I could finde nice people sending me emails or just freaks. fast_reading_step@yaho.***

2006-11-11 23:40:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 23:38:08 · 24 answers · asked by angel 1 in Singles & Dating

My partner has done some really nice things for me over our relationship, but a mate of mine said she can't think of anything her man has done EVER!, there has to others out there who like to look after their ladies! So i want to know what has your partner/husband done for you lately?

2006-11-11 23:35:54 · 7 answers · asked by missy 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 23:33:32 · 15 answers · asked by Violet 2 in Singles & Dating

one of my bfs is in love with me and wants me to kiss him and ....
but i dont love him how can i tell this to him without breaking his heart

2006-11-11 23:32:04 · 16 answers · asked by Maral 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 23:29:21 · 8 answers · asked by mkchal 1 in Friends

Damn... I'm so dumb. My friend tricked me by sending me an email about a site that can test the love compatibility among people. Without noticing any detail, I just wrote out my friend's names. It turned out that the list was automatically sent to his email. Now, he's telling all people at school about this. How can I be that stupid?? ;(

Does anyone know how to make revenge to this person? Does anyone know any similar, but different site, that can trick him into telling some of his deepest secret? I know this is wrong... but he is just so mean, and I don't know how to stop him.

2006-11-11 23:27:52 · 13 answers · asked by truealliance 2 in Friends

2006-11-11 23:25:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-11 23:24:40 · 2 answers · asked by Sexi B..i.t.c.h 1 in Singles & Dating

I am preparing a class on marraige. What are things that have brought you to divorce or considering it?
Was there another person involved, either physically or emotionally? (office spouse?)
Did he or she spend too much time working? Too much time with friends?
Did he or she degrade you or compare you to others?

2006-11-11 23:24:06 · 14 answers · asked by Miss Vicki 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've asked for alot of advice re: by BF of 6 yrs. He's gone to a strip bar, took up conversations w/a stripper for a year. Called her every day, conversations were short but still they were every day. He said it was just stupid talk. He also said I was pushing him away by not giving him enough hugs, and kisses. He's divorced as well as I am. There's alot of baggage on his end. He kids and ex are quite manipulating. It really gets on my nerves at times. Anyway, this last week he didn't call me at all, so I found myself getting all "desperate," and worried. Not sure why, because I wanted space, but now it appears he does to. He's been controlling in the past, wanting to know where I'm at, how long it takes me to do things, etc. Well, Friday I called him to go out, he said yes, we had dinner and a couple drinks, went back to my house, and had the greatest sex in a long time. I felt like it was our first date, was this a mistake or do I really love him and want this to work?

2006-11-11 23:23:29 · 2 answers · asked by jeep 2 in Singles & Dating

For six months this guy I like and me have been "playing hard to get" with each other. (I hate playing games, and I have since told him this, he said he hated it too!) We always end up kissing when we see each other, but nothing further. Last weekend he asked for my phone number and walked me home after a night out and on Thursday he took me out for drinks, we had a lot of fun, got on really well and he sent me a text after to say he had a good time. I did too. I thought we were getting somewhere and weren't going to play games anymore, but last night when we were out with our group of friends he was back to his old ways. Why?! He knows I like him, I know he likes me! I'm 19 and he is 23, surely he's a bit old to be playing games still?

2006-11-11 23:21:59 · 14 answers · asked by guylian_chocolate_seashell 2 in Singles & Dating

shower it is so refreshing.
when do u like to shower?

2006-11-11 23:13:14 · 25 answers · asked by jesse james 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 23:12:52 · 10 answers · asked by toysoldier 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-11 23:12:12 · 13 answers · asked by michele p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf and I typically get along great. However, there are some aspects of his personality that make it difficult to be with him. At the same time, there are some aspects of my personality that don't always make it any better. 90% of the time, we're great. We love each other deeply, and it's painful to consider that we won't be together, and we can't figure things out as to why some things reoccur. We really want to work things out, but we're afraid of causing each other pain (mostly he's afraid of causing me pain, but I think about this also). Part of me wants to give up, but another part of me doesn't - I feel like I'd be letting the love of my life slip through my fingers. We tend to communicate well, but it's mostly after the fact...we need to learn how to better communicate in the midst of a disagreement. Is my best option to just leave him alone during disagreements and wait for things to subside? I want us to start fresh - should we spend some time apart or would that be worse?

2006-11-11 23:11:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it's happened to me a couple of times and it was embarassing. how come this stuff never happens to women?

2006-11-11 23:06:47 · 21 answers · asked by Mr. Nice 2 in Singles & Dating

like whenever we go for a movie my boyfriend would prefer to put his hand on my leg than hold my hand...

2006-11-11 23:05:46 · 20 answers · asked by dawink 2 in Singles & Dating

What do most of you girls do when you like a guy, but you think he's just too perfect and he will not like you back. Do you avoid him? Do you try ways to see if he's interested (e.g. make your friend talk to him). Or are you rather upfront, and just tell it to him? I dont mean the type of deal where you like a guy and you are not sure whether he likes you back. I mean a case where you think the guy is "too good" and you are already pessimistic to start with. Need some good feedback, thank you all :)

2006-11-11 23:03:53 · 12 answers · asked by concerneddd 3 in Singles & Dating