My best friend is having her birthday on December 4th, which is a Monday. She is a girl, I am a guy, and we're just friends, nothing more... OK, that's the background.
I offered to take her out for dinner during the preceding weekend. She doesn't want me to do anything special, and wants it treated as just another day. I wasn't going to do anything too fancy, just a nice quiet meal somewhere. Her comment was (in a text message): I just don't want a fuss, I'm not worth it.
She's my best friend, and we've been there for each other so much recently. She's special to me, and it should be her special day. Should I force the issue, or back off completely? I feel like there may be other issues at play, so I don't want to upset her by being too pushy.
Does anyone have any constructive thoughts on how I should proceed here?
2006-11-11
19:44:54
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