he is tellin his new girl i want him back. i left him cos he kept beatin up on me and was also mentally cruel, that was yrs ago and she recently told me he tells her i ring him etc...ALL FALSE..i told her that but he has convinced her, is there anything i can do ?
2006-11-11 19:30:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There isn't a thing you can do. You can't change them, you can only change the way you react to them .
Obviously they are both insecure and not truthful.
Don't become part of their sick game. Be above their childish behavoirl
Karma will take care of them. You just be true to yourself and you will be above reproach. They on the other hand will come across as lame.
2006-11-11 19:41:11 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should say to her, don't you think that its strange that considering he said that I left him because he was beating me up and he was also mentally cruel that I would still be calling him and that I want him back. Think about it, he's my ex because of that reason, but yet you are still with a guy that would lie and do that sort of thing to person. Believe you I would never want to be with that sort of person, I'm well rid, but you are with him. Whose in the better position!
After you have told her this it will hopefully give her something to think about. Then you need to leave them alone, if you see them just ignore them, he is your ex for a reason so you know longer need to deal with his drama
2006-11-12 04:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him totally. You should keep away from him. He gave you a tough time so just move on. Feel happy that you are not with him and no longer a victim. You have done right leaving him as he had no right to spoil your life in this manner. Feel sorry for the other girl that she is mesmerised by him at the moment. Who knows what he is doing to her!!! He is already trying to make her feel inadequate and insecure. sounds as if he is insecure and inadequate himself to behave like that.
2006-11-12 03:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by beyond paradise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is nothing at all. He is feeding offa f ucking with you. Give him nothing. Not an ounce of satisfaction. He has some feelings for you obviously. But he dont know how to use those feelings in a good way. Thats the only way he knows how is to f uck with you. Like I said, give him nothing.
2006-11-12 03:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by Cody B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prove to her that you arent!!
its the only way.
or embarrass him. i was watching emerdale the other day, sounds random but jo was threatening someone, and sed "luk babe, you can either be my best m8 or worst enemie. i know which i would want to be"
make sure he knows where he stands and if he ever does anything else, youll be onto him like mice on cheese!
hehe lol
but be more threatening than that!! u no how it goes!
gud luk
lots of love
xxx
2006-11-12 06:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by LifeLiveLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You told her, you don't need to convince her, she will find out herself.
Leave them alone and go on with your own life
2006-11-12 03:33:32 · answer #6 · answered by Starlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think how luck you are to be free from him,his new girlfriend will realise in time you have told her the truth.
2006-11-12 03:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by christine p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was years ago it's not your problem,let them get on with it. Why should you care one way or the other?
2006-11-12 05:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you get invovled the more difficult to deny his allegations. Just ignore him.
2006-11-12 04:11:26 · answer #9 · answered by B i n g o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... Ignore him and move on. Eliminate the unnecessary drama...
2006-11-12 03:34:34 · answer #10 · answered by lachocolatreine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋