Family & Relationships - 11 November 2006

I've been engaged for over a year to this guy. He lives on the complete opposite side of the country and is constantly accusing me of wanting to be with other guys and stuff like that.. He didn't used to. He didn't start until the end of this summer right after I had come back from a 30 day backpacking trip where I had no communication with him. Ever since then he's been telling me I need space and trying to tell me how I feel and what i want, which he keeps saying is not him. I love him and want to marry him and keep telling him that. I know that part of it is that he doesn't like that i tutor this guy from my college in math. But what does he really mean when he tells me I need space?
I've asked him and he still wants to be with me. He's just always trying to tell me how i feel and what i want (which he says isn't him (not true)). He says he just wants what'll make me happy. but he makes me happy.

2006-11-11 18:19:41 · 16 answers · asked by :) 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 18:18:19 · 16 answers · asked by BOOYAH 3 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for her last name. If anyone know it

2006-11-11 18:17:35 · 1 answers · asked by goodytaz96000 1 in Friends

i have a pretty good personality, i know this cuz people tell me this but im not the greatest lookin how do i find a person who likes me but doesnt rely on looks, i really want that sumone cuz im feel really lonely

2006-11-11 18:16:53 · 4 answers · asked by X 3MO X 1 in Singles & Dating

only for kolkata's plz.

2006-11-11 18:16:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i met this gut at a wedding and we hit it off really well , as in we started making out , he was really cute and his father was an adopted brother to my step da (both in the bandidos mc) and oim a really compasinit person and really still like him and have feelings for him what shopuld i say in the lettr or should i just get a hallmark card p.s. his dad died in a motercycle accedent.

2006-11-11 18:15:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The drama is really only coming from one of the women who hates me for no reason. Other than that its the simple fact that Im not a kid person. I love his kids, theyre great, and they love me. I just dont want to be around them or any kids for that matter on a regular basis. I feel horrible and Ive told him this and that we should break up b/c he deserves to be with someone better but he just keeps saying that I dont have to wanna be around them all the time. Well what about when we get a place together and its his weekend with one of his daughters and Im not in a 'kid' mood (which is 85% of the time). What is he gonna do, bring her somewhere else for the weekend? Am I gonna leave for the weekend? I dont know what to do. Or maybe I do know what to do (break it off) but I just dont want to lose him. I suppose if I really did love him I would be more accepting of his kids. I never keep him from seeing them though, I would never. I suggest he see them more in fact.

2006-11-11 18:14:09 · 23 answers · asked by Mia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im not shy im very confident in my self im not ugly i don't have the nicest body but i look good anyways my problems is why on myspace everytime i send a note to a girl saying nice things to them but they reject me

2006-11-11 18:12:04 · 20 answers · asked by x_x_andre_x_x 3 in Singles & Dating

I dated this woman for 6 months and just found out. I find this very narrowminded that she expects for all to believe the same way she does. If she did not think anything was wrong with it, then why didn't she tell me before we became involved.

2006-11-11 18:11:53 · 12 answers · asked by Micron1900 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 18:11:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've started about three months ago at this new job. I like everything except my boss who is paying way too much attention to me. He has already tried to kiss me once. When I complain about it he threatened to get me fired. The other workers warned me that I will get nowhere in reporting him since his the big boss's son in law. Any suggestions what I should do?

2006-11-11 18:10:04 · 8 answers · asked by Leoni V 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean there is no concrete proof but I have a gut feeling. like he is always over there to spend the night. even when I am at home. I was just wondering what is the best way to confront them?

2006-11-11 18:09:13 · 38 answers · asked by Keshia K 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hi this is angel , my problem is not only this that my bf is not talking to me but we didn't have a talk since 8 months.before that we were very happy with each other........now i usually see him with a girl of my colony only ( he too is in my colony) but she is elder than her and he calls her as didi......and that girl once came to me and tried to explain me that they both are only brother -sister...............if its true then why is he not talking to me........? what should i do becoz i love him very much and can't live without him..........................pls help!

2006-11-11 18:09:04 · 22 answers · asked by angel 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 18:09:00 · 8 answers · asked by Kala H 1 in Friends

I'm currently in a long distance relationshilp. My bf and I met while we were students at AZ State. He graduated a year early and moved back home. We kept it up. Things were going ok, yet there was always some trust issue. For some reason I felt like he was never telling me the truth about what's going on in his life. Like I recently found about some girl he was seeing around the same time we got together.

I recently graduated and moved back to Phoenix. Things had gotten much worst. We're constantly fighting and I really feel like I can't trust him. He moved even further away from me, so we'll see each other less. I don't know what to do. I love him, and he's the first guy I've thought about having a future with. Yet, this trust issue is tearing us apart and I really don't want to deal with it anymore. I've tried to break up with him. but he still wants to be together. Yet, he's not planning to move closer to me

Anyone's been through a similar situation? What should I do?

2006-11-11 18:08:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I spend my weekends doing homework; sleeping and watching TV because I have no friends do something with. I don't know if it is my physical appearance or my personality that makes people feel uncomfortable around me. Whenever i sit down by myself at a college lecture class, I notice that people will usually walk past me and sit somewhere else; perhaps next to someone person that "they" don't even know. I find it hard to conversate with people. Is this abnormal, am I doing something wrong, I'm just a regular guy that wants to fit in with my classmates. Should i accept this as normal behavior of who I am? Please help...

2006-11-11 18:08:06 · 7 answers · asked by CuriosityKills 3 in Friends

What's with all this Hating going on in this world today? Why are people always hating on others? Can any one explain what a "hater" really is ? and do you know any? Friends? Relatives? Co-workers? Please share some stories about folks you thought were your friend but you found out that they were jealous of you.

2006-11-11 18:08:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is it possible to get over a girl u really like in only a week?

2006-11-11 18:06:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy poposed me ...i dont love him...i dont wanna hurt him......what shud i do now???

2006-11-11 18:05:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am talking to this guy online, and what could be some good "get to know you" questions to ask him?

2006-11-11 18:04:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom was born on july 18th in 1951. She was adpoted near the age of one from an orphange in colorado springs. She had brown hair and eyes. Or does anyone know how I can start to look for her family?

2006-11-11 18:02:15 · 1 answers · asked by alwaysthebestanswer 2 in Family

that thought she could control her man with rules could get him to come back to her after he left her alone

2006-11-11 18:01:23 · 16 answers · asked by k2u 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 17:59:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

but we never been together.everyday,i plan on telling him,it needs to be over,but when we talk,its like i cant.and we both know,what we were getting into.we knew it was a bus with no destination.still,we jumped in for a trip.and now we cant get out.he dont want to end it,i dont want to end it.but i feel,we should set each other free,so we dont hurt over this anymore.while he believes that one day,we will finally be the way we want to.we call each other,we text each other.we just find each other no matter where we are.how can i get that knot out and finally tell him im hurting and i need to stop it?that we are just having an emotional relationship.

2006-11-11 17:59:44 · 6 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

HI!!!!!!!!!!!
I M FROM AMERICA

2006-11-11 17:59:37 · 5 answers · asked by mrs.bloom411 2 in Singles & Dating

I have problem I always want to make love when I come back from work,,,I mean I want it more when i feel so tired,,, i always can't sleep when i come back from work i just wanna have sex,,,is this normal or strange?

2006-11-11 17:59:17 · 8 answers · asked by venus 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 17:58:35 · 9 answers · asked by angeleyes_3152 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-11 17:57:24 · 4 answers · asked by k2u 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 17:55:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why is it when guys act like they dont give a sh** we want them more and when a guy puts his whole self out there we lose interest?

2006-11-11 17:53:46 · 7 answers · asked by Jacqueline 3 in Singles & Dating