i met this gut at a wedding and we hit it off really well , as in we started making out , he was really cute and his father was an adopted brother to my step da (both in the bandidos mc) and oim a really compasinit person and really still like him and have feelings for him what shopuld i say in the lettr or should i just get a hallmark card p.s. his dad died in a motercycle accedent.
2006-11-11 18:15:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just be there. That's all. Bless you both and remember in the power of love!!
2006-11-11 18:17:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call him or go see him ,tell him that he has been on your mind and that you hope he is coping as well as can be expected. just let him know that if he needs an ear to talk to a shoulder to cry on or a friend to just sit with you can be there for him . You knowing his dad makes you a close friend and a better person to be around when he is low So dont hang back you could be a very large part of his healing .After all this will be one of the hardest times of his life the loss of family is painfull and once again you might be the one that helps him greive in a healthy manner
2006-11-11 18:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by slick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just send a very simple, tasteful note card stating that you are really sorry for his loss. His mind is probably not on affairs of the heart at this very shocking and sad moment in his life. I would think he will look back on your kind thoughts at a later time and it would be up to him to make the next move. When and if he does contact you, just let him know you are there for him..be sincere and warm....that is enough at this time, I think. Best wishes.
2006-11-11 18:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by oldtrash06 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When my mum died my friends at the time tried councilling me... strange, i'm not friends with any of them anymore...
Nothing anyone says is gonna help them get over it, maybe just ease the pain. Try not to make it too much of your business as well, i mean... just remember your not family, your only a friend.
I don't mean to sound bad about what ur trying to do but maybe just watch where you tred.
2006-11-11 19:47:35 · answer #4 · answered by EcXeSSive ConSUmptiON 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is not much you can say really...
The best thing is to just let him know you are there if he needs anything and that you are thinking of him.
2006-11-11 18:18:01 · answer #5 · answered by D B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know you there for him , dont always wait for his call , call and check on him .sometimes the pain is so bad you just cant ask for help , you just need someone to do it .
2006-11-11 20:08:24 · answer #6 · answered by sindi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very sad. just be there for him,,listen to him,,a sympathy card would be nice.
LET US ALL BE AWARE THAT WE SHARE THE ROAD WITH MOTORCYCLES!!
2006-11-11 18:19:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be sincere
2006-11-11 18:18:20 · answer #8 · answered by Jaylaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋