but we never been together.everyday,i plan on telling him,it needs to be over,but when we talk,its like i cant.and we both know,what we were getting into.we knew it was a bus with no destination.still,we jumped in for a trip.and now we cant get out.he dont want to end it,i dont want to end it.but i feel,we should set each other free,so we dont hurt over this anymore.while he believes that one day,we will finally be the way we want to.we call each other,we text each other.we just find each other no matter where we are.how can i get that knot out and finally tell him im hurting and i need to stop it?that we are just having an emotional relationship.
2006-11-11 17:59:44 · 6 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I had a dog once, a GermanShepard, I loved that dog but it just wasn't fair to keep him tied up here in town when I could let him go to my Dad's co-worker in the country and he could run free on 90+ acres but I did and after visiting him a few mo. later and seeing him run I felt good about my choice of what to do with him
2006-11-11 18:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it hurts so much because you just dont want feelings to get hurt.
Before doing any final agreements try to see a marrage theraspist or something.
Or maybe you just need time to be with yourself. Plan a single vacation for just you. or you and your friends. everyone needs a break once in a while.
To me it seems like you want to end it pretty badly. Try to talk to him about it. When you plan on telling him remind yourself that this is what you want and there is no other way to be getting it.
I wish you the best.
2006-11-12 02:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in that situation once, and this girl and I dated for so long in like you say like beng in a bus that has no destination. I blocked of my frieds just to be with her, and then one day we jst popped it out, this thing is never going to work, simple.
I wennt my way and she did hers.
I am glad I did.
You too will be glad that you did, a relationship withoiut a destiny is very draining, and you need your mnd honey. Just break it and face it and get over with it. You will be glad you did it, so glad!
2006-11-12 02:07:30 · answer #3 · answered by Trinity 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have nothing to lose just tell him you need time to yourself that you need to work on you that you have some issues that you need to deal with and you hope that he can understand that. if not just do what a guy does don't answer and don't return text until he is out of you system and god to god for guidance good luck hun
2006-11-12 02:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by k2u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does it hurt? because your giving up on a dream , giving up on a fantasy of what marriage was really all about.
2006-11-12 02:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by kierstead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell him the true.He will understand.
2006-11-12 02:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋