hi this is angel , my problem is not only this that my bf is not talking to me but we didn't have a talk since 8 months.before that we were very happy with each other........now i usually see him with a girl of my colony only ( he too is in my colony) but she is elder than her and he calls her as didi......and that girl once came to me and tried to explain me that they both are only brother -sister...............if its true then why is he not talking to me........? what should i do becoz i love him very much and can't live without him..........................pls help!
2006-11-11 18:09:04 · 22 answers · asked by angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey if he is not showing interest forget him dont waist your time on someone who does not deserve it........ keep yourself involved in think you like to do...... there are many people dont restrict yourself to him.......... life is just once enjoy it to the fullest
2006-11-12 16:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by Cool gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not talking to you means he have something in his minds.
If you are not talking from 8 months - a serious issue or he trying to avoid u.
He was there with a girl - there may be some reason.
Hence you no need to worry about this.
You have to think in his way.
As he avoiding you too do the same, but he has to know that you are avoiding him purposefully, Go infront of him don't see and talk to some other. just like that u do. You have to show him without him also you feel happy.
That will make him again change.
2006-11-12 02:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by Shashikumar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem to be still in love with him, though he is not keen. she coming to you and explaining maybe guilt, or may be real, try to break the silence you have kept all this long, maybe, it can work if he has not broke up. start with normal relations and like a freind, dont overdo yourself, else he might get bored about the nices and goodies, little bitter little sweet can be a way out. and above all do this if it is really worth, maybe you might be doing just to make yourself satisfied, that it is you who ditched him. dont make it a revenge
2006-11-12 02:20:33 · answer #3 · answered by happylucky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't understand your situation too much. But how can he be your boyfriend if it's been 8 months and he doesn't speak with you? News for you girl, he broke up with you a long time ago. If not, explain your self better.
2006-11-12 02:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Di 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
angel,OK you did not talk for 8 months?strange....
i think there was no love,and your bf is no more keeping you,in his love arena.
better forget,try new one,you have your time,one thing keep in your mind,love remains,but it changes...love never dies.
he is not talking to you,may be he found different kind of love in this Didi,......so?
better forget and try to concentrate on other love may be waiting next door........wish you a grand success.....god bless.....
2006-11-12 02:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by asoke k. m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jst go and tell ur feelings 2 dat guy hurry up b4 its 22 late!!
zAnd dont worry if dey are sayin dat dey are bro n sis dey wud b try relyin on ur love coz TRUST is the 1st pillar of love and if its fallen 4 once love can never ever flourish. jst go ahead n tell him n leave d rest 2 GOD!!!!!!!!!!! BEST OF LUCK ILL PRAY 4 U AND ULL SURELY SUCCEED!! if ur love is true WHICH I HOPE IS!!
2006-11-12 02:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think maybe that girl dun love him but your bf love that girl. if he really love you no matter what he will still care and come back to you if he get to know another girl and stop talking to you then no point having him any more his heart has change, try to leave him and maybe he will know that he cannot lose you if he still love you
2006-11-12 02:18:37 · answer #7 · answered by jasontay2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go tell him that U love him if your that desperate. DiDi means elder sister. if he is elder form her than her name is didi
2006-11-12 02:14:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is hard because your a girl but start seeing other guys.
This will give you options and options equals power and you will get confidence.
2006-11-12 02:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by DVD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should go 7 clear this matter with the guy itself & if he is betraying u then say bye bye & find another guy u'll find a dozen who will lov u
2006-11-12 08:05:29 · answer #10 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋