im not shy im very confident in my self im not ugly i don't have the nicest body but i look good anyways my problems is why on myspace everytime i send a note to a girl saying nice things to them but they reject me
2006-11-11 18:12:04 · 20 answers · asked by x_x_andre_x_x 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are what you really are as you have mentioned... why bother looking for a girl? Let them see "YOU" in their own naked eye. If you do have "the quality".... "the feed will come itself to the chicken."
2006-11-11 18:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there is something in your note that turns them off.
I don't go to myspace. I am assuming it's more superficial than the real world since they don't know you, they are only looking at your pic, so perhaps if you looked like a covermodel from Men's Health magazine you would get more replies.
Perhaps you will have more success in the real world and let people get to know you instead of judging you by your pic only.
2006-11-12 02:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by funandsun20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you saying? Is it the generic "Hey you have a hot pic?" or "You are beautiful, add me?"
If that is the case you need to stand out more. These same girls probably get tons of emails from guys saying similar things. It makes the guy seem like a myspace perv who sends these messages to everyone.
Don't worry about complimenting them. Be different, ask them about their interests. Don't just tell them that you think they are beautiful and expect a response. Tell them that their profile is interesting and she sounds like a fun person.
Or maybe they just aren't interested, maybe they saw your profile and didn't think your personalities would click. If you don't get a response - don't sweat it. There is a whole world out there.
2006-11-12 02:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I for one get really creeped out by guys coming on to me on myspace (especially because I make it clear that I have a boyfriend). Most of the guys on myspace come off as creepy, so that probably isn't the best place for you to find someone, try talking with women offline.
2006-11-12 02:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the problem!!! its MYSPACE!! honestly...i have guys do the same thing..an its not that they're not nice or cute..its just kinda weird..we can't always trust that a guy is what they say they are on a website..for all we know that doesn't have to be you...you should only send messages like that to people you know so that you would actually get an answer back..because if you sent me a message..i'd block you!!! don't tak it personal..people are just trying to stay safe!
2006-11-12 02:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by gabby' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ma man.i noe u want an advice from a lady...but i hope that tis can help u.......
u send them nice notes through myspace...that sucks...y dont u try it in ur real life...with a direct aproach.....im sure ull b happy.....rather then interested with a girl through the digital world...i gave u my advice its up 2 u 2 take it or not
2006-11-12 02:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by prime-G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because women not always care for looks..thats important but thats not the exact reason to answer you...maybe you'd better to stop messaging ppl on myspace and find someone in real life ..
2006-11-12 02:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny, they probably think you're some trick or a perv. But we all know that you're not!
Try coming from a different approach. Like try meeting women IN real life. Then try being a bit cocky and masculine. Get a bit agrresive with a woman. We like that. :]]]]]]]]]]]
2006-11-12 02:15:55 · answer #8 · answered by curlyfries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people are overwhelmed with messages on here. sometimes people are only looking for certain things in a person. my advise to you is dont give up. if these girls have ignored you, that means there is someone better out there. good luck
2006-11-12 02:16:02 · answer #9 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont know the person and u get note it can be weird maybe next time say something like i know we dont know each other but i stumbled across urpic and had to at least say hi maybr they will like u too
2006-11-12 02:16:05 · answer #10 · answered by tiffanyh2323 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋