Family & Relationships - 14 November 2006

a very close friend of mine needs a help from me. she and her bf wants to attend the marriage of her bf's friend at chennai.we are from hyderabad. so she wants me to lie to her parents saying that am taking her along with me to my cousins marriage for a week.her parents trust me a lot.but her boy friend is also trustworthy guy. ..am in a dilema...unable to say "NO" to her. i can take risk on my life but not on my friends life...wat do i do?plz help

2006-11-14 23:59:10 · 16 answers · asked by amithaa 3 in Friends

I was seeing a guy for a few months and he went away to nigeria to work on the oil rigs, he came back to great britian for a training course and we met up. we got on great and it was if we had never been apart. i really would like to make a go of this and wait for him, does anyone have any similar experiences, he might be away again for 6 months, do you honestly think he wants the same as he drove 3 hrs just to meet me?

2006-11-14 23:56:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for about 6 mos. She has been distant for about 3. I know what most people would say, she's got someone else, she's still looking, etc., but I am really convinced that it's more a situation where she is really torn about what she wants and she doesn't know. But she doesn't seem to be doing anything about it. I have resigned myself to backing off for a few days, maybe a week. Ladies esp., how long should I expect to wait until she has taken a realistic, objective look at what she has and could have vs what she would have if she goes on alone? I am certainly not perfect, but I treat her well, and she treats me wonderfully. She just doesn't come around nearly often enough for my liking.

2006-11-14 23:55:46 · 6 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 23:52:30 · 9 answers · asked by inquisitive 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi my name is Trevor and I am 24 years old. Before I ask my question I just want to say I have had a lot of horrible reply's to some of the questions I have been asking can you please stop doing this. Any way back to my question.

The guys I work with have found out that I am a virgin. And have already keep pestering me in going out and getting laid. How can I stop them from pestering me because I don't agree with one night stands and I would like to find a girlfriend when I am ready. I have tried telling them no and they just don't listen. Also has a similar experience happened to you. The only reason I am asking is because I want to know if I am worrying over nothing.

2006-11-14 23:50:56 · 47 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay my ex dumped me a two months ago. She has been in therapy for her father passing away and her low self esteem. When she broke up with me, she said she needed time to figure her own life out before she could be in a relationship with anybody. She apologized and asked me not to hate her because she thought we had good potential, but the timing of us sucked because of her she said. So we still keep in touch every now and than, but I think she keeps in touch just to let me down easy here. I don't know though. She emailed me last week and asked me how I was doing and said she hoped everything with me was going well and to drop her a line whenever. So I replied in an email and said hello and small chat... a few days later. I get in an accident three days ago and I txt her cause she was the closest person I knew to the accident. She does not reply at all. SO I am thinking that she doesn't really care? And I am thinking of not really talking to her nemore cause we both moved on?

2006-11-14 23:48:56 · 16 answers · asked by cds1666 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So me and this Chick I met were talking in this parking lot. We decided we were gonna go get something to eat. She had to get something out of her car, I walked with her. Now, a golden rule for a stud is always look for signs of kids. I looked at the car for anything that would indicate that, car seat, bottles, dipers, toys. I saw a booster seat, and that was it, I turned around and walked off. She chased me down and tried to talk to me, I told her, Sorry Babe, no time for other peoples brats.

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2006-11-14 23:48:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Letting them back in her life?

2006-11-14 23:47:26 · 15 answers · asked by murmic05 3 in Singles & Dating

Everything i try never seems to be good enough for her i dont want to lose her I have never been this happy before. The fact iv neva been in a serious relationship before may have something to do with why i cant do it please help thank you

2006-11-14 23:46:57 · 14 answers · asked by Neil L 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 23:45:07 · 10 answers · asked by fastandfurious 1 in Family

i am seeing a guy who is 30 years old. i am 23... we have excellent communication & great understanding.. we get along really well... but we both belong to different cultures, i belong to indian culture and he belongs to the western... this bothers him allot... is this the right reason to go our seperate ways ???

2006-11-14 23:42:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 23:40:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-14 23:39:39 · 2 answers · asked by kitten30fl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

your relationship with your partner is not doing good for you but he thinks it is. you dont want to hurt him thats why your trying to stay in the relationship that you think is not working for you anymore. when you had a chance you cheated and you think your falling inlove with him and same as him but worse, your both married with kids and both afraid to hurt your partner. but you both want to keep each other and go home pretend that everything's ok and live your life with guilt.

2006-11-14 23:38:34 · 14 answers · asked by jhennie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please help, I'm 16 and I have been secretly seeing my mums ex who is 46.
We went out for a drink just to catch up and talk about a job and we ended up having sex. We have since met up twice and I have stayed over at his house.
He has daughters older than me which is a problem as we never got on.
He didn't mean to sleep with me and I didn't mean to fall for him but it just happened.
It isn't illegal in this country as I am at the age of consent. I know you are probably all thinking he is a pervert and I am just some niave kid but please believe me it isn't like that.
Me and my mum have never been very close she walked out on me when I was 4, and no this is not revenge on her my point is she has never considered me so i dont see why i should cnsider her.
I'm in love with the guy, I would do anything for him, and I don't know what to do as I only see him about once a week. Please help.

2006-11-14 23:36:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 23:36:36 · 8 answers · asked by mai s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 23:36:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 23:35:43 · 18 answers · asked by akila m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i love my guy and he loves me but i seem to be the only one who does or says anything romantic how can i get him to pay a bit more attention and suprise me once in a while?

2006-11-14 23:33:05 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 23:32:20 · 7 answers · asked by breeze 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 23:31:58 · 9 answers · asked by metallixan 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 23:31:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 23:29:41 · 17 answers · asked by ade 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How can i get talking to her without:

a) Coming across as a pervert?

b) Coming across as a rapist?

c) Coming across as a weirdo?

d) Coming across as cheesy?

Also, how can i be sure she doesn't have an Arnold Schwarzenegger boyfriend working out in the backroom? Should i ask before working my magic?

And is it safe to get talking when i'm panting like a c*nt on the treadmill?

Thanks.

2006-11-14 23:28:42 · 16 answers · asked by bobby t 3 in Singles & Dating

wat it is my boyfriends mate stired up things between me and my boyfriend and i told my boyfriend wat his mate told him isn't true and cause my boyfriend talks to my best mate and when my boyfriend was arguing wid me cause of wat his mate told him i got really p*****off cause the fact his mate was lying and wouldnt believe wat i was telling him and decided to believe his mate.i called up my best mate an i told her dat im gona go out wiv someone else but i didnt mean it and my best mate told my boyfriend knowing dat i didnt mean it and now everytime i try 2 talk 2 my boyfriend he keeps bringing it up and he dont trust me or even believe a word i say.

2006-11-14 23:28:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you had to pick between a blonde and brunette which one would you pick? (They both have great personalities)

2006-11-14 23:27:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we've been together for about just under a year now. i love and care for her alot but she keeps to her self alot and doesn't provide much fun. when i try to suggest fun things to do she will often reject them and would rather stay indoors and do nothing. i'm not much of a party animal but don't mind going places for a bit of fun. i'd like her to be herself and go crazy sometimes and wild... but she tries too hard to please by being 'miss goody two shoes'.

2006-11-14 23:26:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Been with this guy for a year and been having major problems lately. We have been doing long distnace (and this is like across the world long distance), for over 2 months now but even before I left, things were beginning to get rocky. We love eachother a lot and although most couples have trust issues long distance, ours is communication. I totally know I am at fault most of the time, because he really is a great bf. But whenever I get angry, I take it out on him and then realize it and apologize and its become a trend, set by comfort. However, this last month apart has gotten really bad and now he doesn't want to keep trying although I now know I will back with him in 2 months. Unfortunately till then, I don't want us to not talk but don't know how 2 make him understand.Seems he has convinced himself it will never work out, although now,I finally understand my mistakes but cannot show it to him if he doesn't let me. I have said sorry a dozen times and tried everything, what now?

2006-11-14 23:25:01 · 7 answers · asked by EMMA218 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my friends, we had the biggest group in the school. even the principal said so. But then we started to break up into little groups. We would never admit that our group had broken up, but i know thats what happened. But now, a particular branch wont talk to the rest of us. Everyone else feels left out but they said its cos they arent involved with us anymore. They said they didnt want to break up into little groups and we forced them too since we broke away. there are about 4 groups now, and the three other groups, icluding my own, are upset. Are we wrong for breaking away, or are they wrong for blaming us?

2006-11-14 23:23:47 · 8 answers · asked by Pennexx 2 in Family

what you look for most in a girl? do you prefer them to be more lady like than loud and wild. more of a listener than a talker? anything?!

2006-11-14 23:21:08 · 16 answers · asked by lulu x 1 in Singles & Dating