Family & Relationships - 14 November 2006

i got enagged about 4 1/2 years ago and never really talked about getting married. i always say things to my b.friend how marriage is a waste of time and whats the point - but really i would like him to ask me ??? any ideas - and i dont want to ask him

2006-11-14 18:57:22 · 34 answers · asked by Pebbles 2 in Weddings

was seeing ths guy and one day I text messaged him about my earrings, and then left him a voicemail explaining that i needed to know if they were at his house,because i was wearing them to go out, he text messaged me five minutes later and told me not to call him anymore, because he did not like me and that he would tell my sorority sisters about our relationship...and he would tell other people as well, and that I should know that he has a girlfriend and she is a member of my sorority(keep in mind that i did not know he had a girl,so the next day I get a call(from his best friend) who is also one of my sorority sisters calls me and invites me to an event that he was hosting? And I 'm like this is weird, because she has never called me..So What do you think was the cause of his/her behavior? do you think she knows something, or maybe he told her something,?Or was it a coincidence that she calls me asks me to go out with her after I ahdn't heard from her in over eight months

2006-11-14 18:55:50 · 4 answers · asked by Sweetladi 1 in Friends

What is future of my love relation?
hi, i am capricon 19jan1981 india i want to know the future of my love relation as my love got married with someone else 5months ago & i want my love back as from last 5months i am deing every single second without my love. my heart & mind d't allow anyother gal to enter in my life ,so plz help me,let me know what will i do,what is my future of my love

2006-11-14 18:55:45 · 3 answers · asked by tot 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she has managed to hang on fairly well untill latley she seems to always be in pain getting sick, etc. She has also started to be very mean to mean and my other siblings. Calling me on my birthday to tell me how she hates me and how she wishes I could feel what she feels. She even attacked my 8 year old so because he was crying and called him an asshole. My brother currently pays for everything for her rent, food etc. and she is so mean to him. Anyhow I was wondering is normal the way she is acting and how should I deal with this all ? She is constatly blaming her cancer on me and my brothers and saying were killing her etc.

2006-11-14 18:53:22 · 15 answers · asked by Crazydays 2 in Family

i had a very good bst frnd in my life and he fell in love wit me but i never loved him i just wanted him as my bst buddy but just to see him happy i told yes..and recently we had a big argument and i just told him everything and now im repenting i never wanted him to know the truth..i know i hav done wrong but i wanted him to be happy..wat must i do..im seriously dying..im feeling bad and low..did i do wrong..im i so bad...plz help me out..plz plz..u can mail me too roshini_shiv@yahoo.co.in

2006-11-14 18:53:05 · 13 answers · asked by roshini_shiv 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to be a babysitter but i dont want my friends to know! There is a place reunion where everybody sees stuff, but I dont want to put the "Babysitters" thing because my friends will find out and will want to join me!
Do you have any tips?

2006-11-14 18:51:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

GUYS: how can you tell when a girl is having an orgasm? Is it hard to tell? Do you know for sure? What are the signs..what does she do during the orgasm? How long does it last?

2006-11-14 18:49:52 · 16 answers · asked by Tina S 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife feels our Child is ugly,and she can't stand looking at him,I don't understand why she can't feel anything for my child. She can't even tolerate him in the house any more,for the past two weeks she set up a tent in our back yard and made him think he was camping,she set out water and food for him,what should i do ? she thinks he costs money with all his facial reconstructive surgery ...she is thinking of enrolling him in a circus to help pay the medical bills? or try to pass him off to a family member?what should i do with them? Divorce?

2006-11-14 18:49:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-14 18:46:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-14 18:44:10 · 24 answers · asked by steve l 1 in Weddings

My mother is like a spoilt child and my younger sister and I are sick of her manipulation and selfish behaviour.She has got worse since our beloved Nana died, my Mother has never once asked how we are doing or our children are coping with their loss- all she does is think about herself and what she is going to spend all our nanas money on ( none of us got left anything, as our mother even manipulated our nana into leaving her everything, which wasnt our nanas intentions at all, our mother knows this is wrong, but justifys it all by telling us it says everyting is left to her in the will- she omits the fact my nana was very frail, deaf and blind and under the threat of going into a nursing home when she wrote the will ) I have on many occassions not spoken to my mother for many years due to her unacceptable behaviour towards my nana, however we feel she has gone too far this time and morally wrong as Nana would never have left nothing to all the grandchildren-it wasnt her wishes at all

2006-11-14 18:43:11 · 11 answers · asked by scotlandnanayellow 1 in Family

The girl I am going out this friday to my classmate (a girl) house for dinner is really horny. Yesterday she sat real near me, laughed, kept touching my arm, and wore low cut and mini skirt. She also talked to me about strawberry flavoured condoms.I just felt like doing it with her! But another girl which I like for a long time is also meeting me. Both are joining me for dinner. I told the horney girl to pretend to be my girlfriend but I know that will make the girl I like jealous. The girl I like will be brining me to a party and I am dragiing along horney girl too. I dont know what's gonna happen? What should I do? The girl I like doesnt know anything about this!

2006-11-14 18:42:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 18:36:19 · 16 answers · asked by mike b 2 in Singles & Dating

He was my college sweetheart, actually my first true love. It's been more than ten years since we broke up and we had no communication at all since the last 9 years. Am just wondering why I often dreamt of him and even his family members. I admit, I sometimes think of him, but what matters most is that we have our own family already. I miss his mom & dad, his brothers & sisters & nephews & nieces. I felt like I really belong, it's just that destiny made him fell in love with a young lady who bore his first child. I had no way of communicating with him but I really want to know how's life is going on, just for old time sake.

Right now I am happily married and a mother of three children though I cant help but think of him everytime I dreamt of him.

2006-11-14 18:35:40 · 11 answers · asked by rocel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Who is head of this department. I live in Georgia and it is obvious they could care less about the welfare of children. My granddaughter is in foster care and has finally been placed with the paternal aunt. She is now in a loving, caring, stable home. Now DFACS is considering returning her to her mother even though she has not been able to do anything they required of her. She is so irresponsible...she is my daugher and I know that she will not care for this child. It is so obvious, she only visits about every 7-8 weeks. But she lives near-by....her excuse is that she is so tired. Before she was in the aunts care she was in foster care for 7 months. DFACS has lost all record of the 6 foster homes she stayed at. Advocacy has examined her and is convinced there was abuse. This poor baby is only 2 years old. I have got to talk to someone with a little sense...she just can't be yanked out of this home...she is finally stable.

2006-11-14 18:33:45 · 5 answers · asked by rcpaden 5 in Family

was seeing ths guy and one day I text messaged him about my earrings, and then left him a voicemail explaining that i needed to know if they were at his house,because i was wearing them to go out, he text messaged me five minutes later and told me not to call him anymore, because he did not like me and that he would tell my sorority sisters about our relationship...and he would tell other people as well, and that I should know that he has a girlfriend and she is a member of my sorority(keep in mind that i did not know he had a girl,so the next day I get a call(from his best friend) who is also one of my sorority sisters calls me and invites me to an event that he was hosting? And I 'm like this is weird, because she has never called me..So What do you think was the cause of his/her behavior? do you think she knows something, or maybe he told her something,?Or was it a coincidence that she calls me asks me to go out with her after I ahdn't heard from her in over eight months

2006-11-14 18:33:45 · 9 answers · asked by Sweetladi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

its okay to amit you have we all make mistakes

2006-11-14 18:28:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this gurl really likes me,and i like her heaps too, but she always trying to find ways to make me jeolous. Like saying that my mate is real hot, and things like that.....it gets to me though, cause shell always have to add him into convo, like is my mate going to come etc.....do girls do this to tease you, and is it a sign shes getting inpatient. We have been going out to lunches all the time, been to several movies, and shes always hanging with me, and trying to do things with me all the time, she likes to always touch me too. Shes seems a little angrier now though after 3 weeks of me not making the move, like shes getting annoyed with me?i dont wnt to lose her, but it makes me angry that she keeps trying to get me jeolous!, i hold it in, but know shes doing it to hurt me....why do girls like to play with out mind. what should i do. for what its worth, she knows my mate quite well, but never has had lunch or anything with him etc....i think shes trying to get to me,....it working g

2006-11-14 18:27:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is a couple years older than I am (but I am 18, so no worries.), and him and I are so much into each other. Recently at a party, a couple of his friends thought it was pretty kool at how mature I acted, but said I looked a bit young.
So, good to know I've got the mature part down (comes with years of having to do a lot of things by myself), but I am wondering -
is there any way I can 'appear' to look older? Such as dressing in certain types of clothing or hairstyles?
Don't get me wrong, my boyfriend loves how I am, but I would like to appear not exactly like I just got out of highschool when we go to his buddies houses' and they're 25.

2006-11-14 18:27:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 18:24:45 · 15 answers · asked by Rose 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what if i went to the mall and made a bear at the "make a bear store" along with that got her some gift certificets to some her fav. clothing stores? we have been together for 6 months and it will be 8 by christmas and we are both 19 years old. is this an appropriate gift?

2006-11-14 18:24:01 · 20 answers · asked by Just call me T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have insomnia and I'm incredibly bored. So tell me about yourself. Where do you live, are you married/seeing anyone. Any kids? What do you do for a living? Are you happy in your life? How did you get where you are today?

I'm just bored and I like meeting new people. I'm not crazy, I promise. Well, I'm not like dangerous crazy, just regular crazy, lol.

2006-11-14 18:23:59 · 19 answers · asked by Kallie 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I would like to convey to my wife what I like and what not in her, something more like a "wishlist". What would be the best way to do it? Would somebody have a template that I could use? I would like this to be non-offensive and honest.... :)

2006-11-14 18:23:47 · 4 answers · asked by HRN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Specifically masturbation

2006-11-14 18:22:53 · 8 answers · asked by mike b 2 in Singles & Dating

I am little bored with monotonous work..and very boring life..looking for some excitement..is there an effective way to find a girl in india..any free sites?? or any info will do! Money is not a bar!

2006-11-14 18:22:48 · 7 answers · asked by Oxford_guy 1 in Singles & Dating

listen.
my friends neeed a plcae to stay URGENTLY. they are being physically abused by their dad ! help me,.
we are in sydney.
i neeed a freee hostel or refuge for them to stay in please please please help ! :(

im so scared for them

xx

remember im in sydney not america.

2006-11-14 18:22:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my bf and i are in a good relationship, etc. well, anyways we go to the same school and he lives off campus as in a rented apartment and me on campus and in dorms. my parents know that we are back together after we broke up a while back ago, that i went to his place and have no problem. him on the other hand did not tell his parents that we are dating again or anything and last night was spending the night at his place and he told me this morning that if his dad comes to make some stupid excuse up like i was walking him to class-one of his eyes has 20 vision and the other has 60 or more and yeah with one eye he can see but no with the other unless he has glasses on and even so it is hard because of an eye infection he had. now i feel that he is emberassed or ashamed of us dating again since he will not tell his family which when we started dating his parents sort of knew a little about me but not a lot. he does not want to tell them because why? is he afraid their reaction will be bad

2006-11-14 18:21:50 · 12 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Singles & Dating

If he was 19 and his sister's friend was 17. Do you think, if he was kind of mysterious about girls he liked, do you think he'd ever try anything

2006-11-14 18:21:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 and my gf she's 17 and has typical Asian family. They wouldn't let her have a BF until she reaches 21. When me n my gf first started going out. I tried to be honest with her parents and let them know that we'r going out, but they couldn't handel the truth. Me and my gf had dated behind her parent's back for more than a year now. Through that year we have experienced a lot of things, and none her parents know about. Now, I'm willing to talk to them again about us because I think they have the right to know. AM I DOING THE RIGHT THING BY HAVING A INTELLECTUAL CONVERSATION WITH THEM? WILL THEY LISTEN? CAN ANYONE GIVE ME ANY IDEA ON WHAT TO SAY?

2006-11-14 18:19:28 · 10 answers · asked by Blessed 1 in Friends

who just dumped me yesterday since she found her soulmate in 20 day while she forgot 4 yrs of my love.

2006-11-14 18:17:48 · 32 answers · asked by Rohan 1 in Singles & Dating