i had a very good bst frnd in my life and he fell in love wit me but i never loved him i just wanted him as my bst buddy but just to see him happy i told yes..and recently we had a big argument and i just told him everything and now im repenting i never wanted him to know the truth..i know i hav done wrong but i wanted him to be happy..wat must i do..im seriously dying..im feeling bad and low..did i do wrong..im i so bad...plz help me out..plz plz..u can mail me too roshini_shiv@yahoo.co.in
2006-11-14 18:53:05 · 13 answers · asked by roshini_shiv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey roshini dont feel bad abt what we cant correct when he is ur such a good friend then he will definitely forgive u for it .u never wanted him 2 know the truth means that u would continue ur relationship had there been no argument right .
it seems that u also LOVE him coz u care 4 him so much.remember one thing u r not bad .if u would have been then u wont care 4 anyone so much.if u dont really love then atleast talk 2 him he will definitely understand ur feelings.
just give it a try
2006-11-14 21:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by bindaas bol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is always difficult but it's worth a thousand time more than a lie. This way or that way eventually you would have to tell him the truth that you don't love him. Yes this happened in this way as in you had to tell him the truth when you both had an argument but eventually it would anyways happen.
What you can do is just go and speak to him again. See your friend is the one who is hurt and you have to there for him since you both were bestfriends first. Try it again but this time tell him under what emotions you had told him yes. You didn't want to hurt him and now you have landed up hurting him even more and that you are sorry.
Things will take a while to settle. Your friend may or may not frogive you but atleast you keep trying from your side.
Good Luck & God Bless
2006-11-14 19:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So first u decide u want him as freind of BF now.. If only friend, then dnt worry, u did a right thing by clearing the air ,even its a bit late. If u too started loving him, then just go n hug him n telll in to his eyes, that u wnt him for longterm/life.
Dont worry, if he really likes u, he will come back to u. Just be patient. I'm sure he will call u up by this weekend.
Enjoy buddy !
2006-11-14 18:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by Ravi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you did a mistake by telling him "yes" when you did not love him.You got to be yourself.Since you said he is your best friend he would have understood even if you had said "no"
Its not late yet.Since you changed your version to "no" now he probably is upset.But since you were very good friends he will come back to you.Give him some time.You tell him frankly that to make him happy you told yes.Also, tell him that you sincerly appreciate his friendship & you want to be his friend.
The good thing is you have told him now how you feel about him.Dont worry he will comeback to you soon.
2006-11-14 19:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U didnot do any wrong. You are a true person and u wanted him to be happy. Try make him understand that its better to be always good friends than spoil ur whole life with somebody u donot luv. And I would say that friendship is equal o love.
2006-11-14 18:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP feeling Bad.
In my opinion, what you have done is correct, instead of repenting for a lifetime later. Its ALWAYS better to be open with your emotions, never try to please the other person and end up in regretful relationships. Its a mess. BTW you said he was your best friend...if that was true he would understand by now...
2006-11-14 18:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by Ravindra Kumar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess thats life, it has its ups and downs, in life never make people happy at your expense and thats exactly what you did. Now i guess your friend has got a low self esteem about you. Let me hope you learn something out of this and next time do things right.
2006-11-14 19:08:02 · answer #7 · answered by Sammo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Your friend is very very lucky.
It is good that u told him clearly that u don't love him. But i think u must change ur tone of telling.
You once again talk to him by convicing him. tell him "I have told No for love But we will be Friends Forever ."
I WILL BE VERY LUCKY IF I WOULD HAVE HELP YOU
2006-11-15 01:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 23:43:23 · answer #9 · answered by kuhlmann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how forgiving is he? just try not to worry. you will have a chance to sit down and talk to him. do you not want him as a boyfriend? if not, just be honest with him. if you do, then beg him for forgiveness, talk things out. what do YOU want, ask yourself that question. good luck
2006-11-14 19:01:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋