How can I forget my first ever love?

Question

who just dumped me yesterday since she found her soulmate in 20 day while she forgot 4 yrs of my love.

Answer 1

Whatever it is, just get a life for yourself and lead a better future! Everyone had been through this stage and see how far we've got! Don't be too upset, it's definitely part & parcel of a growing up stage. Once it's over, you'll get to be tougher and learn to be stronger. Well, all I can say is she's tired of being with you for a total of 4yrs and she's seeking for another lover who can or maybe excite her in different ways. Don't think so much and trust me, you'll SURE get over her. And you'd probably know how great & amazing it is when you finally get her off your mind. Your heart doesn't hurt anymore and you slowly forget the images of her! Ok, what I can suggest to you is do alot of excercises, read books that makes you doze off and try to occupy your time fully, that helps to waste off your energy and makes you tired so you can sleep soundly without having to miss her in the night! Lastly, it all depends on you, if you want to forget her, you must make sure you can do it. It's always mind over body, don't forget that!!! If you've a weak mind, then I can't help much! Ultimately, you shd know what you want!

Answer 2

Break-ups are difficult, and sometimes the emotions are so strong that it's hard to sort things out and get on with your daily life. The best thing for you would be to use your "support network," your group of family, friends, coworkers, etc., who you can talk with and who will be there for you no matter what. It's important for you to have people around who know you well, and can comfort you through this period. The best thing you could do is go with your friends for a vacation. I am not saying that you will forget the whole thing but altleast you will keep your mind occupied. Take good care of yourself.

Forget your ex.... she was not ment to be with you. Let her go.

Next time, and although it doesn't feel like it at all, there will be a next time. You will enter a relationship with the wisdom of the mistakes of this one, and any time you've spent alone getting to know yourself, make sure you take care of yourself as an important person.

Good luck & God Bless

Answer 3

First love does not mean your forever love and your last love. I agree the impact of the first love is one you can never forget but what can you do if the other party no longer loves you. I think you shouldn't hang on to this. Just remember all the good times you had and cherish these memories.

"If you love someone you would let her go. If it were meant to be, she'll return to you one day"

It's true. In the meantime, remember there are better people out there. You just got to open you eyes wider and keep an open mind.

Answer 4

Don't forget. Put it behind you. Focus on other things. Sooner or later you'll be concentrating on other things/ other people so the bad times, you might just forget or put out of your mind without knowing. My first real love turned out to be an ***hole. He broke up with me by showing me a leaf that looked like a loveheart and ripping it down the centre. Sometimes, other people are ready to move on, but you're still in love with them. Just go back to how it was before. Put them out of your minds. You'll find there are other people, who you may love even more. That's all I can say. Good luck in that and stay positive. xoxo

Answer 5

Dear Rohan,

The very words first love, suggests that you are mentally prepared for a second love, a third love & so on. So why are you worried?

Instead of being worried or disappointed, learn your own drawbacks, shortcomings, weaknesses, inabilities & handicaps. Try to win over them. Anyway, one thing is sure. You have to improve your English language. It's a must.

Try to become a complete human being first, by acquiring good & sufficient knowledge. Then girls will automatically start liking you. Good luck.

Answer 6

just analyze yourself my dear friend, Where you went wrong? Every relation needs renewal in this world just like machines. Do You keep your bike without servicing for lifelong? No, you can't. Same is true with everything. you need to take care of everything happening in your life. May be you thought that after four years of loving, she is yours forever. Sorry my dear, you should have noticed the alarming signs in your relation much earlier. The change will not happen automatically. I am not saying you are 100% responsible for this, but both of you are equally responsible for what happened in your lives.

Answer 7

Well, it is difficult to forget one's first love. Since she has decided to dump for another, there is nothing you can do about it but to moving on with life and search for another that can fill the space created.

Answer 8

the best thing is to spend yr holidays by going somewhere a couple of weeks n try to make some friends in yr trip too. u hv to throw away those photos n gifts given by yr first lover.try to occupy yrself busy by reading, watching good movies n take part in social works.

Answer 9

did you know that love is just a chemical reaction, the difference between male and female is that the chemical which creates love is very low on female, in case of male it is high. this thing make male feel very happy when he falls in love and very pathetic when love fails. if you understand this you can forget her and be cool. better you consult any Doctor and clarify this if you cant believ. don't waste your life for an simple reaction. be cool man be cool.

Answer 10

I know it hurts, but don't try to forget it. Be glad you had it for four years. Spend time with your friends and focus on things that make you happy. When you're ready there will be plenty of women ready to be your second love.