Family & Relationships - 14 November 2006

Heres the basic story.Ok so i met this girl & asked her to go to the movie or something but she said we should go with a group of people because its "more fun" that way so i assumed she didnt like me .next week we hung out one day & she wanted me to cook some food but i didnt have time.We watched a movie,to feel things out and test her i put my hand down and she put her hand pretty close to mine.She then came over later that night when I came back from a school related activitiy to finish the movie & she actually slept in my bed and when I woke up in the middle of the night she was literally next to me, like turned facing me. shes has started to call me bry & babe a few times & when I went out one night she said "have fun.be safe!. I asked her to hang out like a week later and shes like idk about this week.Ill see how things shake out.She broke up with a guy of like 2 yrs a few months ago i think. Im just wondering if she really likes me, or really friendly, a rebound thing or what?

2006-11-14 17:51:38 · 1 answers · asked by BER 1 in Singles & Dating

My life's at a crossroad right now. I don't know which way to choose. The worst part is that I have to drag my wife into this as well, she trusts me completely. Don't worry it's nothing illegal, it's just something that would change both our lives.

Although if you fail it doesn't make a big difference, but would you rather regret doing something or not doing it?

2006-11-14 17:43:51 · 3 answers · asked by Dookie 3 in Family

How can i solve my problem?

2006-11-14 17:42:06 · 10 answers · asked by jpekk 1 in Family

my girlfriend kisses her friend (wich is a chick) just to teas me she thinks its pretty funny, but i want to ask her if we can get her friend to join when were having sex. first do you think it would be ok to ask her and secound what do u think shill say

2006-11-14 17:38:20 · 1 answers · asked by leo 1 in Singles & Dating

I think about him everyday and he refuses to talk to me. We have broken up a few times throughout the relationship but always would get back together but the last time he found someone else and never spoke to me again. I have gone to therapy for this but it hasn't helped. I can't fall in love with anyone. I am only 23 and have decided to live a life without a guy in hopes he will someday come back to me.

2006-11-14 17:38:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do guys look at a girl like a rabbit in the headlights for negative reasons? Like if you hit on a guy and he wasnt interested or something, would he look at you like that all the time or would he just go about his life without feeling uncomfortable around you? Cuz this guy doesnt like move any of his face other than the wide eyes when he sees me walking by now. He stares, but with the wide eyes. Sometimes he approaches me, other times he sort of tries to act busy, and when I approach him, he seems a little uncomfortable. People tell me I'm very attractive and I certainly think he's very attractive, but lonerish sorta. Anyone know what he's thinking? Guys?

2006-11-14 17:37:22 · 1 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 17:33:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm in a new long distance relationship... and i miss him terribly. He lived in a different country, so its not easy to just pick up the phone and call...there's time difference and cost to call to think about and among other things.

So my question is, particularly to those who have had experience in long distance relationships or are in one, What are the things you do to keep from driving yourself completely crazy from missing someone you love? any tips? suggestions?

Thanks.

2006-11-14 17:30:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have found recipts were he has paid in cash a buisness card from a bank that we dont use, and on top of it all we really need the money we have 3 kids and the last one has all kinds of medical bills we still need to pay off and cant afford.

2006-11-14 17:27:47 · 5 answers · asked by Heather83860 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-14 17:26:22 · 3 answers · asked by sumeet s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my dad is confusing is thias abuse well he said i can were this one lipstick the next day i wear it he gets mad says im going to bording school im grounded and hes never leting me see my skanky mom agin is this abuse he moved me 2 a place with him and his new wife wen i was 6 then said how shannon was my real mom and wen i give him a hug he kinda spanks me it dosnt hurt pls i need help

2006-11-14 17:23:25 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I think of lot's of good memories, and I wish I could go back in time to those days and just stay there forever. But which one do I choose?

WHY WHY WHY is life so strange?

2006-11-14 17:23:22 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-14 17:23:09 · 55 answers · asked by oannna 1 in Family

I'm a loner and never had any friends but I have had some acquaintances. Right now in school the teacher assigned my table a group project. We are procrastinators so we left the project until the last two days. My group plans to meet up for lunch and finish the project. Problem is, I am a loner so I have spent all my lunch time in the library ever since school started. Recently (just like today), I met this guy in the library and he's been helping me with my homework. He says I should go to the library tomorrow so he can help me some more. What should I do?

Please, please help. I need answers real bad. This is the internet so I can't express it but I will have MUCH gratitude for someone who gives me a good answer. Thanks in advance to anyone who helps.

Notes:
I'm a guy
The guy I met is unaware of my group meeting
I agreed to meeting the guy tomorrow
The project is worth 3/5 of our grades

Please consider:
If I tell my group to work in the library and they say no

2006-11-14 17:21:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Theres this boy i lyk at skool and i only found out that he is going out with my best friend...
I was hitting on him for two days till i found out he had a gf
how do i tell him i lyke him??
please help me

2006-11-14 17:17:39 · 10 answers · asked by Kimmy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i don't know what to do because i don't know i she will like me back or not i really wish i knew. we have been best friends for about 6 years please help me!!

2006-11-14 17:16:26 · 14 answers · asked by valin l 1 in Friends

My life is crazy!

2006-11-14 17:15:23 · 39 answers · asked by monikp5836 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-14 17:15:16 · 6 answers · asked by daniel k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For the sake of argument, if he was awarded joint custody, could he receive child support (even if he is denied spousal support or alimony per terms the prenuptual agreement)?

2006-11-14 17:15:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife had an affair 11 months ago and now we have a baby. She told me when she was pregnant that our baby may not be mine because she had an affair. I was furious in the beginning and went through all of the emotions and even contemplated divorce but I have learned to forgive and forget which was very difficult. Since I love my wife, we went through counseling and it seemed to help. I found out through a paternity test recently that my baby is not mine but I will still take care of the baby and be the father of this child because I love my wife and because I take my marriage vows seriously "for better or for worse".

Now the problem is, how do I tell my family and friends that my baby is not mine? What's the best way to tell them? Or should I keep it a secret like it's none of their business?
My wife has not told her family or friends yet that the baby isn't mine.

2006-11-14 17:14:39 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My three friends and I have been trying to get a record deal ever since we were 15 and 16 (we're in our early 20s now).....we started out with four of us, but one girl got in sime trouble and is now in jail (true story).......so then it was just three of us for four years...performing at talent shows and whatnot... until last year when my friend died in a car accident....so then it was two (me and the other girl) and we brought in a new girl to make it a trio again and continue with trying to get signed.....

The thing is, this new girl who replaced our friend who died seems to be concentrating on getting her own deal...she'll write songs by herself and contact agents and production companies by herself...sometimes she'll book shows and perform by herself at bars and carnivals and be like, "Oh I was just practicing by myself."

Me and my other friend have been talking, but we're not sure what to do...she and I wanted to get a signed as a group with the other two girls...but one's in jail and the other's in Heaven....everything's so different now...and this new girl doesn't seem to want to even be in a trio...what should we do??

2006-11-14 17:13:30 · 21 answers · asked by NUBIA 1 in Friends

Hello I am a single parent of 3 and have been out of work for a little over 2 months. I got fired cause I called in to let them know that my daughter was sick. They told me that I did have to come back to work. Now I am having a big problem cause I am behind $461.00 and I can not afford to pay my light bill and right now .They put one of those notices on my door so my lights will be turned off any day now. I am in need for some help and do not know where to go. I have called around to try to get help but I had no luck. if anyone out there know a quick way that I can help please let me know because I hav been crying for the past 2 days .. I just do not want my kids to suffer for something there mother should have been able to take care of..

2006-11-14 17:12:32 · 10 answers · asked by virgoatx 1 in Family

I was dating a girl named brandi. we dated for 16 months. I seen her eveyday. I became part of her family. she said things to me like" i want to be with your forever honstly" im only 17 and shes 16 soo it was hard to belive her. I had never said i love you to a girl before, becuse i wanted to say it to the girl i realy truly hounstly ment it too. i feel like a moron becuse i said it i a dumb way. i mumbeld it to her and made her gusse what i was saying. after a few months of I love you's she started telling her parents she was ganna merry me. (we went and got a enganment ring). Her parents wear ok with it and eveything. I finaly relized i wanted to stay with her,and honstly wanted to just see her smile and laugh. we got into a argument cuz i lost my job (but was alredy getting another one) she said it was over...='(. i called her that night . she said give it day or two and she still loved me . She promised me she would stay with me. 1 day later she is with another man. what do i do

2006-11-14 17:11:48 · 17 answers · asked by lovesucksforeal 1 in Singles & Dating

ok the guy who he lives in new Mexico i am getting counciling and my councelor told me that we have true love even tho it is a long distance relationship..its hard but he tells me n i still tell him that our feelings havnt changed and that they never will..i just love him..do u think it will work out??

2006-11-14 17:11:36 · 15 answers · asked by Lover Duckii Angel 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 17:11:23 · 15 answers · asked by feeling hopeless 1 in Friends

should we register or not? Is it tacky or ok? I have no idea!!!

2006-11-14 17:09:03 · 23 answers · asked by mda 1 in Weddings

chicago area i knew her in 79 80 mark mclain looking for her friends.

2006-11-14 17:08:36 · 4 answers · asked by littebut 1 in Friends

My brother just go married 7 months ago. I only go over to their home when I am invited, but every time I go it is dirty. The carpet has stains, food is out from the night before, kitchen floor is all sticky with black stains and crumbs, trash smells, toilets are green and black inside the bowl etc.......Last time I got on my hands and knees and cleaned the kitchen floor with pine sol. There was no mop. His wife said it was dirty because she baby sits, but how many day cares are so dirty? I don't want to hurt my brothers feelings by putting his wife down. Plus they just had a baby a months ago. Still my baby is 7 months and my house has never been so filthy.

2006-11-14 17:08:33 · 13 answers · asked by Lori Pie 2 in Family

2006-11-14 17:08:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and i have been separated for over a year now and i still love him so much. He beat the crap out of me and left me for someone fatter a uglierthan me, they had a baby, and i still cant let him go. None of my relationships work out because there not the same as if it were with him. I try, but i just cant get over him.

2006-11-14 17:08:09 · 13 answers · asked by amy f 1 in Marriage & Divorce