Family & Relationships - 14 November 2006

So my fiancee with whom I live with has been working at a factory for like 3 days now, and everyday he comes home and totally ignores me. I make him dinner every night when he gets home. It is always sitting on the table. Before he started this job he was unemployed for about 2 months. I worked at a factory everyday for 4 months and before that, I worked all the time also. He worked at subway as an asstiant manager, and only got 5.50 a hour. I don't understand I did this for a long time, and he never had supper ready for me or anything. Tell me what do you think is going on??

2006-11-14 16:48:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I think my gf has a mental problem of some sort. And I'm being very serious. I don't judge her, and I try not to take things too personally b/c she can be very aloof and distant w/ me when I think I've been a great guy for her. I am not talking about anything like schizo/bipolar/etc, but something behavioral. Can I tell her what I think? I know she has seen a counsellor in her past (and never stuck w/ it) and am starting to hear about some heavy issues from her past. This girl is great, but I am at a loss as to keeping myself involved w/ her.

2006-11-14 16:48:29 · 6 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 16:47:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He broke it off months ago, but yet speaks to me everyday, and he never said he didnt want a relationship ever, but just kept saying its a possibility..well hes been saying that for nine months now! Now I am just confused he calls and I still think theres a chance...is this some type of sick game?

2006-11-14 16:47:09 · 10 answers · asked by Layla 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee & i have been having problems for about 3 weeks now (on & off for over a year but really bad this time) and i dont think he wants to marry me anymore. I love him and dont want to be with anyone else. We have a 3 month old son together and have been together for 2 and a half years. Being with him makes me so happy and i love any time i get to spend with him. lately he has been spending less and less time with me. he doesnt kiss me when he leaves or when we go to sleep. He used to do these things all he time for no reason at all. We rarely have sex anymore and we used to do it about 5 times a week. If anyone has any suggestions about how to remedy my situation, i would greatly appreciate it. thanks

2006-11-14 16:47:01 · 15 answers · asked by Aprylle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was really mean to this guy and told him I could never love him and said mean things and my friends did too but he gave me a message that he could never be mad at me..why..most guys would have told me to F off really...I treated him like ****! He wrote Hi I am X I never agry at you ok....you go to Italy so I miss you and I hope we can meet somewhere and I don't forget you..Why even after I was really bad to him he can say this...I don't understand

2006-11-14 16:45:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 16:45:27 · 12 answers · asked by lalunaestaaqui 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-14 16:45:23 · 5 answers · asked by ron d 2 in Singles & Dating

what does that mean? how does one get good "motion of the ocean" and is it really true?

2006-11-14 16:45:00 · 18 answers · asked by WOW 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 16:43:53 · 18 answers · asked by ftz 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i kno how u make out but idk im not sure if i'll do it right

2006-11-14 16:43:35 · 11 answers · asked by Blonde Babe 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing this guy for a little while and I care for him a lot. Okay, i'm totally in love with him. And I'm quite sure he cares for me just as much. However, we haven't told each other "I love you" yet. So, with that in mind, how do I sign his birthday card? I feel Love, J would be too much and Sincerely, J would just seem stupid. And just signing my name with nothing else seems too impersonal. Any suggestions?

2006-11-14 16:43:00 · 20 answers · asked by secondopinion 2 in Singles & Dating

very important if u are about to go out with a lady and u ask her out and she says yes and you want to kiss but u ve never kissed before and u dont know how. what would do just throw your lips in there or what

2006-11-14 16:42:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend just short of a year. We have known each other about five years and met again through a mutual friend last year in January and started dating. We have only been exclusively dating since March 2006. We have grown very close and to be honest I think I knew when we met again that he was "the one". Recently we talked about moving in together, which we decided not to do because of our families and our spiritual beliefs. The conversation brought up the fact that he has been thinking about marriage. We decided that we would be engaged and married by the time we moved in together and chose a wedding date in June because it fit our time line to plan the wedding and for him to actually propose. We started to plan - looked at rings, sites and making guest lists. Then out of the blue he told me last weekend on Saturday (which also happened to be our 11 month anniversary) that he felt like we were moving too quickly and we had not been together a year.

2006-11-14 16:42:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My brother is 27, lives with his parents and isn't married. I was also wondering if anyone knew the average age a person is in the USA to marry?

2006-11-14 16:42:10 · 8 answers · asked by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 in Weddings

can someone please telll me how to ask this girl out i mean i dont even know how to kiss her yet.

2006-11-14 16:41:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK...about a month ago, my wife and I fulfilled a long time fantasy and we had a black guy spend the night with her here in our house.
She enjoyed things "during"...i did things I never thought i would...and the guy (who we knew) was just perfect in his attitude and how he was with us.
The next day - my wife kept saying how great it was - that we would do it again....it was incredible sex...etc...
Recently now - she refuses to talk about it - or even consider it.
If it was so good that night...and she was happy the next day...why does she say "no" now???
We are still very much in love - we are adults so please dont bash us in your repsonse.
I have just been wondering - why she wont consider doing it again now - after she said it was "so wonderful" that very next day?

2006-11-14 16:39:41 · 20 answers · asked by Steve and Sue D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

would you go out with a guy that is not allowed to have a girlfriend because of his religious but likes you and wants to go out behind his parents back and if you did where would you hang out and what will ya be doing

2006-11-14 16:39:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked her out to dinner on campus last week and it fell through. i honestly believe she wasn't Avoiding me. I want to ask for her number before thanksgiving break. but i kinda want to go slow and ask after the break. what should i do?

2006-11-14 16:38:51 · 4 answers · asked by mikerob08 1 in Singles & Dating

My family is throwing her a Sweet Sixteen Party and I want to express how proud I am of her. I'm not good at writing about things. Thank You

2006-11-14 16:38:33 · 6 answers · asked by missjohnnie1 1 in Family

So I'm a senior in highschool, and kindof dating a few guys just for fun nothing serious. but one more than the others. And I let them all know that I didn't want anything serious. So the one that I've been dating more than others I guess thought we were boyfriend/girlfriend and freaked out when he found out I'd been hanging out with other guys. and I explained that I just wanted to hang out with lots of people but I wanted to hang out with him and he said that was weird, and that me and him couldn't hang out anymore. Will somone please explain?? I just want to have fun my senior year. Am I in the wrong?

2006-11-14 16:37:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 16:36:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

explain this. if they are gay, they shouldn't get married in the first place.

2006-11-14 16:36:20 · 14 answers · asked by bubbalicious 1 in Marriage & Divorce

CRUHING ON HIM ALOT

2006-11-14 16:35:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Maybe men really want a 1950's type of wife, but they won't admit it out loud. I am just trying to understand more clearly what a man really wants in a wife.

2006-11-14 16:34:43 · 13 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have not seen payment on child support . can the court take visitation right away ,until he makes, payment or it does not matter if he pays or not he can continue to see his kid without the responsabilily. what can i do? please help

2006-11-14 16:31:52 · 26 answers · asked by Juan 1 in Family

2006-11-14 16:31:43 · 1 answers · asked by FAD 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im pretty sure she likes me, shes pretty attractive, especially the last 2 days, her friends tell me to ask her out (ive considered it, but idk if the choice is right), others have warned me shes a bit of a tease( which makes me like her some days and creeps me out on others) i also hear she is unloyal and unfaithful,i do like to have fun but i also think trust is an important aspect of a relationship, i think we'd make a good couple but i dont want to make a mistake, and also to top it off she says she is prude and she doesn know why and she doesnt have any intentions to not be. WHAT DO I DO? WHAT IS THE RIGHT CHOICE? IM MAJORLY CONFUSED!

2006-11-14 16:30:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for a couple months now. I really like him, and he says he really likes me a lot. I want him to be my boyfriend.
He just got out of a relationship right about the time we meet. Now he wants to wait a while to get his emotions together before we get serious.
Should I wait on him?

2006-11-14 16:30:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have had some arguments of late. We nearlly broke up but then after having a cry together, we decided that some time apart might do us good. He suggested the break but was agreed by both of us that is was just a break, and not a break up and that a week or so should be enough time. Also to give him more time to think about things as lately he feels a bit unsure of what he wants. He is staying with his parents who live 5 minutes drive away. He only took his work clothes and some sporting gear and toiletries. He also said that our arguments of late has affected him concentrating at work. In our arguments he says things like he's unsure if he loves me or not, but after we cool down, he says that he does love me... just gets angry when we fight.
Is it really just some time apart or leading up to a break-up ?

2006-11-14 16:29:32 · 18 answers · asked by Sweet G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships