I have been dating this guy for a couple months now. I really like him, and he says he really likes me a lot. I want him to be my boyfriend.
He just got out of a relationship right about the time we meet. Now he wants to wait a while to get his emotions together before we get serious.
Should I wait on him?
2006-11-14 16:30:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only your heart can tell you if he is worth waiting for so go with whatever feeling that tells you.
2006-11-14 16:32:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are and all. I myself woudn't wait i mean you can start just going out having fun again and maybe then by the time he gets HIS emotions together then maybe you won't even want him back anymore which would be his loss not yours. Then on the other hand you may find the time apart made your feelings stronger . Good luck
2006-11-15 00:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to put yourself in such a confusing place. The guy is confused and chances are he is still trying to figure out if he will ever be ready for a relationship or if he wants to repair his previous one. dont wait with your heart, just tell yourself that if he comes back cool, if he doesnt oh well. what i can say to you is, that is not a healthy way to start a relationship.
2006-11-15 00:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by Patricia N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he needs time so try it out... and while tryin it out if ya get sick of waiting then don't anymore. You'll know what to do. Just give it some time. Don't be in such a rush to have all the answers. ( I'm workin on it too)
2006-11-15 00:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be okay to wait awhile, but at the same time keep your options open. If u find yourself asking this question later, and it seems like nothing has changed, maybe its time to move on.
2006-11-15 00:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by Renee G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him, wait for a while. Long enough that its fair to him so hes sure what hes really feeling, but not so long that its unfair to you. I hope that makes sense and helps you.
2006-11-15 01:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he is worth it. You don`t want to get with someone who is just getting out of a relationship.
2006-11-15 00:33:35 · answer #7 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be friends for now and give him the support and understanding he needs. He will appreciate it and will like you even more.
2006-11-15 00:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. if he knows how you feel, give him 2 weeks to a month. then move on because he hasn't and wont
2006-11-15 00:35:43 · answer #9 · answered by silverwolf872005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i Guss you can give it a little time just to see hope you don't get hurt good luck
2006-11-15 00:40:31 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋