He broke it off months ago, but yet speaks to me everyday, and he never said he didnt want a relationship ever, but just kept saying its a possibility..well hes been saying that for nine months now! Now I am just confused he calls and I still think theres a chance...is this some type of sick game?
2006-11-14 16:47:09 · 10 answers · asked by Layla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"If he doesn't know what he wants then he doesn't want what he's got" heard that somewhere.
It sounds like he's leading you on and just wants attention. Your best bet is to find someone who wants to be with you NOW. You don't deserve to be strung along. If he decides later on that he wants to be with you then you can give it a chance but until then (and who knows how long that could be if at all) do yourself a favor and find a great guy.
2006-11-14 16:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by britt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is a sick game, stop playing along with it. Why are you so available to talk to him everyday for 9 months? Get busy with your life and if he is sincere he will make a bigger commitment than "its a possibility". It would be interesting to know what his family life is like, sounds like there are problems there.
2006-11-15 00:51:57 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be afraid of a committment, he could have been hurt in the past. He might just be looking for a friend thing, which is okay if that's all you are looking for. Just don't be available to him all the time and see if he steps it up a little. Don't let him use you in any way - pursue your own dreams and see what happens.
2006-11-15 00:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to poop or get off the pot. That's plenty of time for him to make a decision. I've been unattached for 4 years now and really have no interest in anything serious and make it clear to any woman I date. He needs to communicate better with you. Sounds like he's playing...
2006-11-15 00:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by Rich B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just likes to see that you are interested in him don't talk to him for a month, it will be hard cuz you are probably in love with him. Guys do this all the time don't fall for it!!
2006-11-15 00:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it would be helpful to think about what you want. he seems unsure and do you want someone who is unsure about you in your life? i think there are plenty of guys out there who wouldn't have to think about whether or not they wanted to be with you. i hope you find a great relationship! i think it might be wise to move on. if he gets his stuff together and is very clear that he wants to be with you, fine - but i think that you've been more than fair in giving him time. best of luck!
2006-11-15 00:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by cotopaximary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is a game... He is playing around seeing if there is something better out there for him while keeping you on the back burner just in case. Tell him to put up or shut up...
2006-11-15 00:49:44 · answer #7 · answered by nimkiw 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he dont have the balls to say that there is no future for you too. he wants to date other people but still have you as a back up. dont become his back up. you deserve more.
2006-11-15 00:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is either scared of commitment ,playing you or thinks a commitment will change things between you two .
2006-11-15 00:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by ron d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is and as long as you continue to let him get away with it it will continue. Move on sweety.
2006-11-15 00:49:56 · answer #10 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋