So my fiancee with whom I live with has been working at a factory for like 3 days now, and everyday he comes home and totally ignores me. I make him dinner every night when he gets home. It is always sitting on the table. Before he started this job he was unemployed for about 2 months. I worked at a factory everyday for 4 months and before that, I worked all the time also. He worked at subway as an asstiant manager, and only got 5.50 a hour. I don't understand I did this for a long time, and he never had supper ready for me or anything. Tell me what do you think is going on??
2006-11-14 16:48:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he hasn't had a job for a couple of months, he is probably tired as hell...it will take him a while for his body to get used to working again....give him some time to get used to it again...don't jump to any conclusions or start giving him a hard time...it won't make him stop ignoring you...that could make it worse.
2006-11-14 16:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing house uh? Well, the old story goes if the cow gives her milk away, why would anyone buy it? He's not committing because there is nothing to commit too. Either tell him to marry you now, or move-on before you wind up an unwed mother!
2006-11-15 00:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's giving you the cold shoulder because he resents having to work. Is this the person you want to marry? Maybe you need to re-evaluate the relationship.
2006-11-15 00:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's taking advantage of a good situation. Sounds like you're capable of taking care of yourself. Why do you need him?
Let him know that his vacation is over. Give him a move out date!
And be firm about it!
2006-11-15 01:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you say Laazy Bum?
2006-11-15 00:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by Queen Burn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋