Family & Relationships - 14 November 2006

This will be the last Christmas for my 31 year old sister(if she makes it to Christmas). She has two beautiful little girls whom she cannot even pick up to hug. I love her so much and feel so terrible for what she is going thru. Considering the situation--I dont think that material objects will be of any importance for her. I want to do something special for her and her girls.

2006-11-14 16:29:13 · 14 answers · asked by nadia s 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this guy in my class and he's never really noticed me before. Now he talks to me a lot, jokes around with me and does nice things for me. He is really cute and a sweetheart but I don't know if he's dropping a hint or not. Help?

2006-11-14 16:28:45 · 13 answers · asked by lost for words 2 in Singles & Dating

He said that a good guy will encourage you to have kids!? He said to me deep down inside you know you want them. Does that sound like a whole heap of bull and does that sound manipulating on a women that says that she is not sure on having them?

2006-11-14 16:28:41 · 7 answers · asked by Leigh J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do u get so wierd when u like a guy? Why is he all u can think of? Why do u get so attached? Isnt there anything in ur life better to focus on then some guy? So why do u do it? most guys dont.

2006-11-14 16:27:59 · 8 answers · asked by Ry L 1 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to work out a timeline for me and my bridesmaid's but I'm not sure how early one can get makeup and hair done before ceremony takes place. Ceremony is 4:30-5pm and Reception from 7-11pm (with time in between for pictures w photographer). It would be great to get hair and makeup done EARLY......like10am and then relax a bit before all the commotion really starts. Plus I don't have a room to get ready in at the ceremony site (its a garden) so I have to arrive dressed and ready to go. I'd like to have h/m done early as I said, then just throw on the dress and tiara around 3-4 (the time my reception site opens up and IT has a wonderful room i can use) and then head to the ceremony (1/2 hour away).

So, basically, lots of detail there but is 10 or 11am to early for the h/m???? will the makeup "keep"? it'll be in the end of august if that makes any diff with the heat/humidity etc...........

2006-11-14 16:27:34 · 13 answers · asked by D W 2 in Weddings

i need help....i am looking for a song to describe my current situation....ok so i have a guy friend and we have gotten kinda closer now that he is away at college...well we decided that we liked each other and would really like to get closer when he comes home, well we told each other that we had liked the other.....one of a mutual friend of ours asked him if he still liked me because he has seemed a lil different....and now he doesnt like me anymore and i think that i am falling in love with him...so i was just wondering if you knew a song thatcould kinda describe my situation....thanks

2006-11-14 16:27:21 · 2 answers · asked by curious 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi,I just broke up with my girlfriend from 7 months ago. Were both really hurt especially her thought. I wanna stay friends with her. How can I help her cope with our break up, so we can stay friends

2006-11-14 16:27:11 · 6 answers · asked by lilspeedy626 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I have two cousins, the question is that one of my cousins who is 9 and male, loves to be tickled, he is always putting his socked feet up hoping for someone to tickle him, and his feet are really ticklish, he goes nuts. On the other side, another of my cousins, who is 8, also male, hates having his feet tickled, to a point where he almost cries, I tickled his feet once and got upset, of course I didnt do it again. Just was wondering is there some type of reason why this is? They are both ticklish, but both have different outcomes? Anyone maybe have an idea why, or have any similar cousins, kids, or friends like this?

2006-11-14 16:27:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Also, can you list like how to talk to them and stuff?

2006-11-14 16:26:41 · 10 answers · asked by joe_mommas_son 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for 6 years and I am now 25. He was laid off from his last job 6 mos after we started dating. He makes me laugh...smile...feel sexy....I have my own job, bought my own house and have tried to keep finances seperate until he was inedpendant(which he is fine with him...but never materializes in the idea of him being productive) ..but this living in limbo is starting to get to me.

I am 10 years younger and when I sacraficed I was unsure of what I wanted...now I am starting to know I want things that the two of us can never have....

I know his illness is legit but I can't stop wanting other things..

Am I wrong to feel this way?

Where do I go from here?

Do I go for what I think I want...or sacrafice what I think I want for what I know makes me feel good??

2006-11-14 16:26:35 · 7 answers · asked by elysialaw 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Now the love of my life has gone as she is moving on with her life to a different man who will treat her better than me. But what i don't understand that the love for her will be here for her is she wants it. But I love my ex with all my heart and soul and one day I was going to marry her to, but now she is gone for good. I guess that it is true what they say about people who finish last then, as i think that i fit in that catorgory right now. Yes I'm a very old fashion man and i do know how to treat a woman and all. But i would like to know how can i win love of my life back and be a happy man for the rest of my life?????Please response to serious answers only...Thank you

2006-11-14 16:26:33 · 8 answers · asked by smurf 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom used to get off work at 10pm after i'd gone to bed, but now she gets home at 6pm. i use make up to help cover the brusing up. but she can't know! I LOVE my boyfriend! i don't care if he hits me, he only does it because he is stressed with his alcholic father. he is trying to not hit me!!!

2006-11-14 16:25:38 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My man wakes up drinks coffee- hauls *** to work.
Then he comes home pets his dog, eats dinner, lays down and goes to sleep.
next day is always the same.
Whats up with that?
I used to be a really fun girl. I am getting a bad attitude- there is no interaction at all. What can I do? Ive tried every thing, i think.

2006-11-14 16:24:28 · 17 answers · asked by tbaby 3 in Singles & Dating

My sister's husband has been over in Iraq for a month and she is having a hard time. Wondering if anyone had a suggetion for a song I could send her. Preferably country.
Thanks

2006-11-14 16:24:17 · 9 answers · asked by brandoni1119 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Recently I found a profile for my husband on this site, www.fling.com Its a adult personal ad site. He swears he didn't create it and that he was signing up for some online game where they create your character based off what you look like... so he sent this game a picture of himself. Well during the process of signing up for this game there were all these popup ads and he must have accidentally clicked yes to one of them (the fling.com one) and they created an account for him. I want to believe him but it sounds pretty far fetched and I don't want to be that stupid girl who can't see that her husband is a cheater. Has this happened to anyone else or do you know if this is actually possible?
I checked his account with them and it said he hadn't logged on since the account was created so that's why I am wondering. He has also since emailed them and they have removed his ad, but they won't admit to creating the personal ad themselves.

2006-11-14 16:24:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-14 16:22:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my roomie and i don't talk to eachother at all. at the beginning of the semester, she called me a 'bit.ch' for sticking up for what i believed in.. so i decided i wasn't going to talk to her. I caved in and started talking to her again.. only to be disrespected another time. I haven't talked to her in about 2 months.. and she hasn't talked to me. It would seem like things would be okay, but for some reason, i feel this incredible tension.. and it's stressing me out. My classes are tough, I don't want to put up with this roommate anymore. My mom won't let me move out of the dorms and I can't very well kick my roomie out of the room.. so what do i do?

2006-11-14 16:22:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what can i do to get my husband financially out of my life, he has left us high and dry provided no financial support but yet he wants to drag out the divorce so drain my financially in legal bills and also wants half and more of all my suff

2006-11-14 16:21:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is hilarious, thought I would share-------> http://youtube.com/watch?v=dqFiZ0iL9QM

2006-11-14 16:20:57 · 5 answers · asked by bubbalicious 1 in Weddings

he has everything... EVERYTHING.. personality, intelligence, humor, LOOKS , money, security, and most of all... respect and LOVE for me... he is very faithful and well centered... i can't come up with one flaw of his....
the only thing that ruins our relationship is my insecurity, because now that i have him, im so scared of losing him... im overly jealous and paranoid that all the girls want to take him from me... i cant come up with 1 reason to which any other woman want to take him from me (there are so many sluts and golddiggers nowadays)
should i settle for someone i admire less, or someone a little less desireable? so i can be more confident... weve been going out for 2 years and he wants to get married...

2006-11-14 16:20:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

are some ppl incapable of 'no strings attached' sex?

2006-11-14 16:20:35 · 17 answers · asked by kelleygaither2000 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok...first off I've been away from my workplace for almost 6 months now b/c I went to work in a different state for the same company. About 2 months ago I came back home for a week for a vacation. My friends took me out to a bar & I met this hot chick there. She was a lot older than me (I'm 23 she was 36). She said she recently got divorced & that she justs wants some fun. It seemed like she knew all my friends but I've never seen her b4. My friends didn't say anything to me about her or why they all kinda knew her. Anyway, I ended up going home w/ her & I just had some of the best sex I've ever had w/ that chick. I told her I would be leaving soon & that I'd be gone for 2 months. Now, I'm back here to my original workplace & it turns out that this chick is my NEW BOSS!!!! What the f**k?!!!! Isn't this some crazy **** people?!! Oh yeah, it turns out her ex-husband is one of the department managers!!! What do I do? she wants to see me everyday now!!!!

2006-11-14 16:18:54 · 28 answers · asked by Koala 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 16:17:31 · 3 answers · asked by smith 2 in Weddings

A friend of mine who does DNA samples at the prisions says,
she has never seen so many cons with seven children by four
women. Ted Bundy (serial killer) was receiving over 200 letters
per week before he was executed from women who wanted to be with him. Richard Remariz (the night stalker) had to be moved to another prison because of women fighting over him. The guy with no job,alcoholic, who has been in
jail numerous times and drives an old harley , always has a woman
under his arms.

2006-11-14 16:16:15 · 25 answers · asked by CODY 2 in Singles & Dating

recently , i had the opportunity to sit and chat with the girl i like in the library. it was ironic because i did not expect to see her(although i was hoping and praying that i would). she sees me and signaled for me to come over. i did. we talked and there was a small moment of silence. so, i man up and asked her could i study with her. she said "suuure." i can remember telling her that the first time i met her she didn't seem like a freshman and that i thought she was mature grounded and level-headed. i can also remember her telling me that i make her feel excited. she excused herself because she had a phone call. she comes back and invites me to dinner with her and her friend(it was informal). on our way back to our dorms we continued to talk. but, once we got to the restaraunt she was kinda quiet. i know we were sitting and waiting for our table, but she was really quiet as if she had a lot on her mind. even at the table she didn't say much to me.

2006-11-14 16:16:06 · 9 answers · asked by mikerob08 1 in Singles & Dating

I haven't gotten any in a while, and if I have to pay,
So be it.
I deserve to on my birthday,
Anyone agree?

2006-11-14 16:15:25 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Coming from the stand-point of the awful place you've been, would you rat out a friend or relative that you knew was cheating?

2006-11-14 16:15:20 · 34 answers · asked by єЖтяα ¢яιѕρψ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend have an already good sex life, but I would like to know anything that can spice it up a bit more, so if you have any suggestions, please tell

2006-11-14 16:14:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 16:13:13 · 3 answers · asked by princesssly8 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Our 1 year anniversery is in a month. I have been working on a song to my love for aboiut 3 months. I finally finished it, it was my most scruitinized piece ever. I'm thinking after taking her to dinner when we get back home I'll set the mood and sing it to her, and give her the cd with something special(havn't thought of it yet, in the jewel case, and inside the cd. I'm going to record it in the studio soon either way, should I do this for our anniversery or wait until valentines day?

2006-11-14 16:13:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating