He said that a good guy will encourage you to have kids!? He said to me deep down inside you know you want them. Does that sound like a whole heap of bull and does that sound manipulating on a women that says that she is not sure on having them?
2006-11-14 16:28:41 · 7 answers · asked by Leigh J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No it just sounds like a guy who wants a family and can not understand why a woman woudnt want kids.
2006-11-14 16:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good guy will encourage you to have kids? This doesn't make any sense to me. A good guy will support you no matter what you want (or DON'T want). If you are dead set on not having kids and he's dead set on having kids, maybe he needs to move on. Of course, if you are young, you might change your mind someday. Who knows? You might not want to make that decision at this point in your life anyway. Just don't give into his pressure because children are the biggest change in life if you ask me. It's not to be taken lightly.
2006-11-15 00:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by LIl One 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its rude, and manipulative. Some people just can't wrap their little minds around the fact that some women don't want children. I know my mind, thank you very much. I have never wanted children, ever.
And a "Good guy" will respect your feelings and thoughts, not pressure you into anything (children or other things).
2006-11-15 00:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I good guy would not enslave his mate as a baby factory, and will love her as a person, whom he can spend quality time with. Getting a woman pregnant is repressing her. I don’t understand why any self respecting woman would want that.
2006-11-15 14:09:05 · answer #4 · answered by Marvin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not get married or have children until after age 25. You will be more mature and know what you want. You will be a more complete person... and IF you decide you want kids then, you will be better suited to handle it.
2006-11-15 00:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by bigwheeler19 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I hate kids! Never wanted them and am proud of it.
(Although I do love my son)
(Accidents happen)
2006-11-15 00:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by Queen Burn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you do, you do, if you don't then you don't. Your biological clock will let you know in time.
2006-11-15 00:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋