My man wakes up drinks coffee- hauls *** to work.
Then he comes home pets his dog, eats dinner, lays down and goes to sleep.
next day is always the same.
Whats up with that?
I used to be a really fun girl. I am getting a bad attitude- there is no interaction at all. What can I do? Ive tried every thing, i think.
2006-11-14 16:24:28 · 17 answers · asked by tbaby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HOW ABOUT SAYING GOOD MORNING??
WHAT I LIKE TO DO IS WRITE CUTE LITTLE LOVE NOTES TO MY GIRL AND I KNOW SHE LOVES IT. IF SHE HAS HAD A BAD DAY, I HAVE SOMETHING THAT SHE LIKES AND LOVES. NO SEX IS NEEDED OR SPECIAL CLOTHING FROM V.S. NEEDED.
JUST DO WHAT HE LIKES NON SEXUAL. DO IT WITHOUT EXPECTING NOTHING BACK. THE REWARDS HOWEVER COULD BE SPECIAL LATER ON.
LIKE THE OTHER DAY SHE CAME TO SEE ME AND SHE WAS IRRATATED AND MY DAY WAS NOT THAT GOOD. SO I FORGOT ABOUT MY DAY, I BEGANED TO MAKE HER A SPECIAL TEA THAT SHE LIKES. WHILE THE TEA WAS BEING MADE, I SHOWERED AND GREETED HER WELL. I TOOK HER TO A COMFORTABLE SEAT HAD PILLOWS AND SAT HER DOWN WITH HER TEA.
IT'S THE SIMPLE SWEET THINGS THAT COUNT. NOT THE XXXXXX STUFF.
I WISH YOU WELL
2006-11-14 16:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by ALEX ROCKS 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what have you tired? Tell him you would like to do his favorite activity with him. Go do something with him on his day off or after work. He is apparently very busy and is forgetting to relax but more importantly forgetting to be a BF. this is insensive but common and it doesn't mean he doesn't care about you. make some plans and take him out. movie, sport, maybe dinner. something small, and not too exausting.
2006-11-15 00:30:37 · answer #2 · answered by silverwolf872005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's in a rut, break up the routine, do or plan something different and exciting for the both of you. It doesn't have to be life altering or momentous, just little things to keep it going on.
2006-11-15 00:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about stop him and talk to him about it? Do it niccely and with respect and appreciation for the effort he makes to take care of his family, but you guys used to be individuals who came together because you were so much fun. Don't let that die. Get out there and live life!
2006-11-15 00:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by bigwheeler19 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stand at the door wearing only a smile when he gets home?
Sounds like you need to have a talk.
2006-11-15 00:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by dantheman_028 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you let him get too comfortable with himself and now he doesnt feel like he has impress you or pay you as much attention as he used to. um you could try and do some things different and if he notices that bring the reason why that might work.
2006-11-15 00:28:32 · answer #6 · answered by Adrian N. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if he doesn't pay attention to you at all then he never deserved you in the first place. It's 50/50 not all you, he needs to put some effort too,
2006-11-15 00:28:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
be creative..Men like to be surprised..Sit and start a sweet conversation with him.He must be tired and need to take rest when hes at home.You just show that you care and surprise him with something like a nice dinner ,a sexy new dress etc.
2006-11-15 00:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-15 00:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by The Pizzaman 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
sorry, but maybe he is boring about the relation. You must to take a serious talk. Then take a decision.
2006-11-15 00:28:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋