Family & Relationships - 14 November 2006

It's a really weird situation, my friend and I got drunk and high last week and hooked up. He's one of my best friends, and I don't like him like a boyfriend or whatever. I'm really worried that its going to be awkward between us now. What should I say to him to make sure he knows that I don't like him like that, and that I want things to be normal with us?

2006-11-14 15:37:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a guy, im not old (just turned 18) and I am a virgin. I worry that I wont last long enough in bed. What can I do to feel more confident when my first time comes around?

2006-11-14 15:37:20 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Mom found my porn in my room and on the computer and she told me dad.....oh god. I'm 21 and I live with my parents. They are telling me to move out or get rid of the porn- are they using the porn as an excuse to kick me out?

2006-11-14 15:37:13 · 16 answers · asked by whoeversaidlovewasfake 1 in Family

Far away in the tropical waters of the Caribbean, two prawns were swimming around in the sea - one called Justin and the other called Christian.

The prawns were constantly being harassed and threatened by sharks that patrolled the area.

Finally one day Justin said to Christian, "I'm bored and frustrated at being a prawn, I wish I was a shark, then I wouldn't have any worries about being eaten"

As Justin had his mind firmly on becoming a predator, a mysterious cod appears and says, "Your wish is granted" and lo and behold Justin turned into a shark.

Horrified, Christian immediately swam away, afraid of being eaten by his old mate.

Time went on and Justin found himself becoming bored and lonely as a shark. All his old mates simply swam away whenever he came close to them. Justin didn't realize that his new menacing appearance was the cause of his sad plight.

While out swimming alone one day he sees the mysterious cod again and can't believe his luck. Justin figured that the fish could change him back into a prawn. He begs the cod to change him back, so lo and behold, he is turned back into a prawn.

With tears of joy in his tiny little eyes, Justin swam back to his friends and bought them all a cocktail. (The punch line does not involve a prawn cocktail - it's much worse).

Looking around the gathering at the reef, he searched for his old pal. "Where's Christian?" he asked.

"He's at home distraught that his best friend changed sides to the enemy and became a shark", came the reply.

Eager to put things right again and end the mutual pain the torture, he set off to Christian's house. As he opened the coral gate the memories came flooding back. He banged on the door and shouted, "It's me, Justin, your old friend, come out and see me again."

Christian replied "No way man, you'll eat me. You're a shark, the enemy and I'll not be tricked."

Justin cried back "No, I'm not. That was the old me. I've changed. I've found Cod, I'm a prawn again Christian."

2006-11-14 15:36:08 · 23 answers · asked by toietmoi 6 in Friends

she said she didnt want to tie me down and deprive me from my life..[its a long distance relationship..] she told me that she didnt want to ruin all the fun i could have with other girls.... so she said we should take a break.. and she said she'd still be waiting when i decided to come back to her... i really dont wnat to do anything with anyone else.. i really love her.. what should i do?

2006-11-14 15:33:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

boy always on computer or tv or busy, yet will not come home until 7am w/others

2006-11-14 15:33:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This will be the 2nd one now. Don"t wanna spend to much cause her birthday is in December two so I was thinking birthday present and Christmas present.

2006-11-14 15:33:13 · 20 answers · asked by DoingItRight! 2 in Weddings

David introduced himself to me my first day of college and introduced me to a lot of people, because he is a nice,popular,guy.
We only party together and have never gone on a real date. There is no emotional relationship between us besides great sex. Is this wrong to carry on with? Should I end this relationship before it hurts my reputation?

2006-11-14 15:33:01 · 14 answers · asked by Texas 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean they will be like my own parents when I married her and I should at least show them good respect isn't it?

2006-11-14 15:33:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I called my husband's ex-wife homephone number because I found out that her and my husband is still communicating when my husband is at work. I know because I check on our bill statement account and view it via internet all the incoming and outgoing calls are being updated there every minute so I know whom my husband is calling. Me and my husband argue about still communicating with his ex-wife. Few months ago, when I try to dial my husband's ex wife the phone message says that "The number you dial IS CHECKING FOR TROUBLE please try your call later. I always try to call her number many times I think almost 3 months it says that the phone number is checking for trouble what do you mean by that" if it's disconnected the message would be "The number you dial is permanently disconnected but it's not. What do you think the reason why the number is CHECKING FOR TROUBLE

2006-11-14 15:32:18 · 12 answers · asked by pinaysapinas2004 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-14 15:32:09 · 20 answers · asked by darkling 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Weird love triangle.

Have not known either of the guys for more than, say, about 5 months.
Both are charming, intelligent, involved in the community, good looking and fit, talented in different ways, and have many things in common with me, so I can relate really well to them both. I also am at work with them. They are friends.

I liked one, but he was serious with someone else. I just recently got over it. And now I have moved onto other guy, who I guess has liked me for some time. But I still really like the first one, and I guess he now likes me.

Confused?

2006-11-14 15:31:58 · 6 answers · asked by Norah 6 in Singles & Dating

i have been dating this guy for about a week and its still pretty awkward when we hang out, so how do i get things going?

2006-11-14 15:31:34 · 4 answers · asked by Katie 4 in Singles & Dating

Well so im goin 2 go 2 da moviez wit sum friends , and chick and i wanna kiss this gurl but i never kissed before in my life and im kinda nervous on how should i do it? im just scared if i kiss her then she wont like it and spread to everybody that i cant kiss good

2006-11-14 15:31:16 · 11 answers · asked by CarloZ12345 1 in Singles & Dating

She was really crying and i felt bad, i think i left her a black eye..i feel so bad

2006-11-14 15:30:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like... maybe twice a week or so? Everything is more exciting in my past relationships when we saw each other only a couple of times a week instead of more often. So what happens when you get married???

2006-11-14 15:29:17 · 22 answers · asked by ftz 6 in Singles & Dating

Like... maybe twice a week or so? Everything is more exciting in my past relationships when we saw each other only a couple of times a week instead of more often. So what happens when you get married???

2006-11-14 15:28:59 · 12 answers · asked by ftz 6 in Marriage & Divorce

reply i was out quit job at prision,leaving no income no benifits and opted out for settlement of 32000 which he had to pay25,ooo in debt accured himself during unemployment buying s new 20000 truck and a 5000 lawn mower .I cant even remember the last time we kissed or the desire to,Im tired of the game.I told him this just cant go on.he wants to know why if he finds some kind of work why this wint magically fix thins,frankly i dont believe it fairy magic dust,there has been to many promises made broken of course ,just today he stayed in bed until i left to take my child to school upon returning hes gone for 5 hoursThe trust issue is out the window and today i actually felt fear and worried trying to avoid him.I think five words were spoken today and he just doesnt want to see the problem.I m tired of repeating myself,I just dont see us going the same road anymore,He wants to do what he wants when he wants say whatever even if its the most foul things to anyone and everyone,now what?

2006-11-14 15:27:29 · 5 answers · asked by resigned 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

how does a boy make it obvious that he likes you? what kinds of things should i look for??

2006-11-14 15:27:12 · 9 answers · asked by Alicia B 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it so hard for a guy to just be honest? Why do they have to lie so much, even about the little things??

2006-11-14 15:27:00 · 16 answers · asked by jesssmuse 1 in Singles & Dating

is it normal to be in love with someone that you have a crush on???????? i cant help it, she is so nice and kind and the most beutifulest thing in the world

2006-11-14 15:26:55 · 18 answers · asked by jvjxp 1 in Singles & Dating

Not to mention plan for a birthday. Q. Will it ever get to time where I won't have to do any. Like just stay home. Even traveling on that holiday is more expensive and crowded everywhere. Someone please give me an "out". How can I do this without sounding...how can I say...ummmm....like a biotch?

2006-11-14 15:26:38 · 7 answers · asked by louloutee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-14 15:26:29 · 8 answers · asked by besttowman28 1 in Family

I sort of like one of my friends brother & am not sure if I should tell her or what? I mean my friend & I live a long distance apart.

2006-11-14 15:26:22 · 10 answers · asked by Tennis_Ace 1 in Friends

And how do I make his mother feel better also?

2006-11-14 15:25:18 · 17 answers · asked by crystalc419 3 in Family

I cheated on her last year. Is this revenge or something else? What should I do?

2006-11-14 15:25:15 · 21 answers · asked by Iamaman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So a few weeks ago, I danced with my secret crush that I've known for about a year at a party and hung out with him for about an hour that night. Now I was a little drunk and I know he was drunk but is it possible he only danced/hung out with me cause he was drunk? .. because I really didnt see him drink THAT much.

2006-11-14 15:24:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if they do not like the mother for no particular reason.

2006-11-14 15:23:50 · 5 answers · asked by stocksrcoolin2005 2 in Family

ok soo i was like in love with this one guy and we would always like text at night and tell eachother we loved eachother and wen ever we hugged ang kisses it was sooo naturall and i had liked him sooo much then...for a couple of days he wasnt talking to me as much at school...then he just dumped me ....i asked him why and he said he "just wanted to " and that he wanted to go out with me l8er and we will be friends. now we dont even talk and it hurts me everytime i see him. I love him soo much wat should i do

2006-11-14 15:23:47 · 23 answers · asked by tinkerbelle2000@verizon.net 1 in Singles & Dating

sHOULD I KEEP CALLIN HIM? BECAUSE I STOPED FOR A WHILE but it kinda make me feel stalkerish even though he likes me n told me. Should i ask him y he doesnt call me? well... its not like he doesnt like talkin ta me cuz when i call, he talks ta me like he really wanted ta talk ta me. * its been a week* ( guys i dont want him out of my life) ...hes juss too fyne lol...ladies u can relate..right? HELLPPPP

2006-11-14 15:23:22 · 8 answers · asked by Ta 1 in Singles & Dating