my girlfriend broke up with me....?

Question

she said she didnt want to tie me down and deprive me from my life..[its a long distance relationship..] she told me that she didnt want to ruin all the fun i could have with other girls.... so she said we should take a break.. and she said she'd still be waiting when i decided to come back to her... i really dont wnat to do anything with anyone else.. i really love her.. what should i do?

Answer 1

i think she's being honest with you and that she really doesn't want to tie you down...but on the other hand if you had already told her that you'd only want her then i think i will not let you go anymore...i just did what i had to do that is to let you know that i am open to possibilities that you might want to see someone else...but in your case, you are not wanting that...so,

i think....maybe, just maybe...she just want to be out coz there is someone...but then why wait for you if there was someone else? maybe she just want to sort things out...let her have her space then...if she comes back and you find it in your heart that you still want her then go for it...

if you don't want this option then talk to her and tell her that you still want to continue...if she said, no...then, you have to let go...nothing you can do here.

Answer 2

How far apart are you? Do you have the opportunity to move closer?
I did this when I moved away from my ex. Said basically the same thing (Except the "I'll be here in the future" part) And it was because I had moved on and found someone better. (He was a loser, I don't know about you) It was a good way to let him go without really hurting his feelings. If you really love this girl you will do what it takes to keep her. If she has moved on, there is nothing you can do but hope (not sabbotage) the new relationship doesn't work out. There are plenty of fish in the sea, you just have to go out and find them.

Answer 3

i have been in a long distance relationship for two years and at first i feel the same way as she does, but i always know that i am not ready to give up. but from the way ur gf is saying, it seems like maybe she doesn't know that you are ready to do this (this whole longdistance relatioinship)... let her know this is how you feel... and keep in mind that maybe she isn't ready, it doesn't mean she doesnt love you but long distance relationship is work that is harder than regular relationship. you really should tell her how you feel and see how she feels... if she is ready to wait for you then let her know you don't want to wait bc u are already next to her in your heart ... good luck

Answer 4

be honest with her and tell her how you feel. ask her what made her feel that she's tying you down or whether if she has somebody else in her life already.

if she doesn't and still love you, and since you love her too, why let go of the relationship??? trust me, if both parties try to work it out, you wouldn't be tying anybody and long distance relationship wouldn't be a problem at all!!

Answer 5

Well she said she'll be waiting 4 u..rite...so just tell her how you really feel..make your words....so romantic..and loving that she wont even think about you life problems.!!! just...make her feel special....extra special...
A gal can never say no to that....im sure....well i experienced it...
i told ma guy that he would be better without me and well...one day he just blew me off...not in a bad way.. in a romantic way and he told me that the only reason he's living happily is because of me...he used to be gangster and now bcoz of me he's changed well and someother things..which r confidential...hehehe...it just lifted me away and well i said sorry to him..and now where back 2 gether....

TRY IT!!! im sure she'll accept...well i did....dont forget abt that problem and move on...then ur a sucker.!!!!! dont forget ur love..

Hope this helps!!!

Answer 6

Yeah, you'r girlfriend broke up with you. She wants some space. Let her have it...remember to include the age old most perfect line: "Your Loss!" She'll be sorry she doesn't have you, she probably has someone on the backburner and wants to have a clean shot at them. Let her...they all come back!

Answer 7

r u mean she really wanna break up wif u OR there's all her opinions...???
i would talk like tat to my boi fren if he's away... just to make sure tat i still in yr heart... u still got a little place for me to stand...so, tats measure...
just tell her tat u don wanna break up.. both of u can continue the love...even tat's a long distance relationship...
wat's she needs is the commitment from u...

Answer 8

she wants security knowing that you want to be with her no matter what the distance is.

she wants you to see what a "normal" relationship is, to make sure that youre willing to deal with your long distance one is.

i suggest you either a) (if you are unsure) to listen to her and see other people
(b) (if you are sure you love her and are willing to deal with the difficulties of a L.D. Relationship) to let her know she is the ONE and that you will try to be next to her asap.

good luck
meeowf

Answer 9

She's probably just being nice and thats probably how she feels that she feels that she is being tied down. i was in this situation, she probably just doesnt want to hurt you and that why she said what she feels, I know your gonna want answers but she might not be willing to tell you whats really going on... I was there man just be strong and let things work themselves out dont put to much pressure on yourself..

Answer 10

One of you should move, or you should forget her. What good is a relationship if you are not together? She's right. Either do something or get on with your life.