MY bf just dumped me what do i do??

Question

ok soo i was like in love with this one guy and we would always like text at night and tell eachother we loved eachother and wen ever we hugged ang kisses it was sooo naturall and i had liked him sooo much then...for a couple of days he wasnt talking to me as much at school...then he just dumped me ....i asked him why and he said he "just wanted to " and that he wanted to go out with me l8er and we will be friends. now we dont even talk and it hurts me everytime i see him. I love him soo much wat should i do

Answer 1

He's so immature. Find someone else. You deserve better and don't deserve to get your feelings played.

Answer 2

That person was just a guy that wanted to see how many girl notches he could put on his belt and just had a boyish crush.
I would have to also mention that you have put your heart into this person without realizing that LOVE takes time and commitment on both party.
I think that the reasons why you feel hurt everytime you see him is because you see this person as the Love Of Your Life... and you shouldn't.
If you see him... be strong and proud, don't show him that you're weak, that will only make him feel that he is in control of you and your feeling.
Turn the tables around and walk with pride and confidence show him the person you really are.
If you look at couple now days that are married, you will find that 75% of the relationship ended up in a divorce because they didn't give time, patience and commitment to make sure that they both felt the same way (not that you're going to get married).
You're young and have a lot of growing-up and experiencing to live through.
As you get more mature and wise with age, you will find what you truly want in a person.
So give yourself time to see and enjoy the many things that life has to offer... don't settle for the first, second, or even third LOVE.
Explore your options and keep your standard a little high... it will be worth the wait and the reward.

@--- Always Keep Love in Your Heart @---

Answer 3

Take some time to do things for yourself. It hurts but get out and get some exercise, go shopping, take a road trip if you can. Work off the tears. It gets easier day by day. Don't contact him, as hard as it is. Cross off the days on the calendar one by one. Make it a challenge to yourself.

You may also consider chatting with other guys online. Nice enough guys can give you some insight into the situation and might help you feel better. I hope talking with people here helps you too. Sorry, but your x-bf sounds like a p****. You deserve better. Now he's someone else's problem.

Answer 4

do not you imagine 21 is a touch too youthful to be desparate? i think badly for you and your damage-up. Getting dumped once you've been about to get married is fantastically painful. I were there and performed that. you've lots of time to rebound and discover someone new. If the guy didn't want you anymore, then why want him back? look at it this way, he did you a want through bolting earlier a criminal marriage and youthful children were in contact. the perfect project you may do for your self is to commit some time in improving your self and spend a lot less time living on the damage-up. Get obtainable and date different adult males. In time you receives over him.

Answer 5

sorry to break it to you, honey, but he is not into you anymore. there is nothing wrong in being dumped. and don't even think about that you went out with him was a mistake bc it wasn't! even though love can be a mistake, it has to be made and its worth making. all you can do now is hold your head up high and go on with your life. embrace the fact that you once had it, which is a lot better than never having it in the first place. now is the time for YOU. before you know it, you will be busy about something else and moving on. :) smile!

Answer 6

he sounds like a 10 year old. As painful as this might sound, your way better off without him. Move on. I know its really hard but with time you'll feel so much better. If this was not meant to be, then your meant for someone way better in the looks and personality department. Go out with your friends, meet new guys, keep yourself occupied. Life will get better!

Answer 7

you probably already know that the best cure is time. I'm sorry you're going through this. I know it's one of the most painful things in life.
But I'd say going out with someone else is the 2nd best cure. Find a cutie or just someone else you can spend time with and watch how quickly the other guy will fade away.

Answer 8

look i think that u should move on and try 2 not forget but just think about other ppl that may hv been there 4 u all d time may b they can help u pass through this hard stage and also u can try 2 talk 2 him just as friends and nothin more.
well, i hope u make d right choice and enjoy urslef as much as u can.
take care

Answer 9

First of all, "texting" each other to say I love you is not love. Hugging and kissing doesn't mean love.

Not to sound harsh or anything, but your entire question sounds very immature in regards to love...but very right on cue for puppy love. First "loves" are always hard to go through, but trust me...you'll KNOW real love when it happens...and you'll know it's not about sappy text messages, hugs, and kisses. Chalk this up to his stupidity and your chance to grow and find someone worthwhile.

Answer 10

All these people that are saying, GET HIM BACK.
dont listen. Because it will come back and bite you in the ***.
Try talking to him.
He may just be going through some things and he may not think you'll understand. So his way of dealing with it was dumping you.

Answer 11

I know it's hard to get over a this guy but you have to start to talk to more people especially men so that you can start going out again and that will make you forget about this guy little by little.