2006-11-14 15:32:09 · 20 answers · asked by darkling 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thanks to the nice people and to the mean ones..what i hit a wee nerve there did i boys..hehehe
2006-11-18 08:37:12 · update #1
yea, that sad, its usually never for a good reason...though i think maybe when you have to pee bad, and it isnt already up, its really hard to ge up... unless they just woke up, then WHOA.
2006-11-14 15:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without extra details, we can only supply general information. Reasons for loss of erection can be physical or psychological. The erection may be partially lost and regained repeatedly during an extended excitement phase. It may be lost because of anxiety or stress issues (and in particular because of the stress of realising they are 'going flat'). As mentioned, any erectile dysfunction could be the result of medication and/or a medical condition (heart conditions, obesity, blood pressure issues).
Boredom is not the only explanation, and there are certainly a LONG list of potential causes before you get to 'boredom'. (As a general rule, where the mind goes the body will follow...)
2006-11-16 17:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by keltarr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man is stressed it can have effects on his errection. I know from expirience, stress can kill a sex drive. With me, when stress effected me in that area, it also had other effects on me personally, I was depressed, because at the time, I felt that I wouldn't be able to pleasure my wife.
But thankfully I am married to a great woman who helped show me that I can pleasure her in other ways sexually.
And when the stress started going away, it was from my job at the time, things improved in bed.
2006-11-14 23:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a 45 minute session of sexual activity the average man will gain and lose his erection 3 times, its just a natural waxing and waning cycle of arousal before orgasm, its nothing personal
2006-11-15 18:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by cbj7984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the JIT (just in time) principle of production. It stands only when required. There is no point in having your most important muscles working overtime 24 hours a day.
And moreover can u even imagine thousands of men walkin around in the street wit a huge bulge infront of them. aaarrrggghhh
2006-11-14 23:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by tornjeansandguitar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be a number of things....they are intimidated and don't feel completely ready for the sex....they have health issues such as obesity or high blood pressure...they are currently taking medications that cause erectile dysfunction....etc.
2006-11-14 23:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can lose them because of a couple of reasons. One is he might have masturbated a bit before, two he got to nervous, three he might have been drinking or doing drugs, and last he might have been wearing a condom and was unable to keep it erect due to lack of feeling.
2006-11-14 23:35:15 · answer #7 · answered by montana_infantry_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, men's sex drive peaks at 19 years old. Give a break.
2006-11-14 23:34:17 · answer #8 · answered by Marissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 29 YRS TO THE SAME MAN AND HES THE ONLY ONE I HAVE EVER BEEN WITH AND I DIDNT KNOW IT COULD GO SOFT IN THE MIDDLE OF THINGS QUESS WE ARE BLESSED ARE JUST DOING SOMETHING RIGHT!!
2006-11-15 00:40:39 · answer #9 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
either they already came or their losing sensitivity. try other positions. Doggy usually gets me back up.
2006-11-14 23:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by mrcarl92807 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋