Like... maybe twice a week or so? Everything is more exciting in my past relationships when we saw each other only a couple of times a week instead of more often. So what happens when you get married???
2006-11-14 15:29:17 · 22 answers · asked by ftz 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every relationship is different. Some couples feel the need to see each other day and others are not ready for that.... it all depends at what level the relationship is at.
Even married couples can be different from other couples. For myself, my husband and I have been married for 20 years and we do most everything together. And my sister and her husband have been married for 19 years and they don't spend as much time together as we do. But they seem just as happy as we are... So, every couple is different...
2006-11-14 15:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by Couple of Cents 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Twice a week? I don't know. It depends on the relationship and where the two people are at in their lives. If someone is very used to being along or independent - seeing your loved one EVERYDAY, or even 4 or 5 times a week might be a bit too much. But I think the longer you stay with someone - the more you learn about them and the more you grow to enjoy their company. And even then, everyone still needs SOME alone time...some people need more than others - but I think that it is, like a lot of other things, a delicate balancing act!
2006-11-14 15:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by The Rainmaker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tom, in relationships the first year or two generally is exciting and invigorating.However as each person settles into the safe zone things tend to be less exciting.The love generally grows stronger at this time,It is unrealalistic to think that each day will be a ball of fire.As everyone knows we all have good/bad days.If your only looking for excitement than acommited relationship may not be the answer for you.However in the long run we grow old and we change so does our bodies .So perhaps you should be looking for the person who can thrill you not only physically but mentally.
2006-11-14 15:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you marry someone who wants to stay with you 24-7, Hell!
I've been married 12 years my husbands works off, so when we see each other we are very happy, we also communicate by phone, there has to be trust, of course. But we look at it this way if we wanted someone else we would just divorce. So we do love and trust one another. Being together to much, is smothering, everybody needs space.
2006-11-14 15:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by dancinintherain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if you two really love each other. More likely yes the relationship would kind of improve because of missing that person for a long time...but there are times that you two have less communications and that makes it not work..but just sometime. Make sure that you communicate well with that person.
2006-11-14 15:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) When you're dating, it's good to have lives outside of each other. If you see each other every day, all day, you're going to tire of each other quicker. When you spend less time together in the week and more on the weekends, it makes those times together just THAT much more special.
2) When you're married, it's simliar but different. You CHOOSE to spend your day with them, although you aren't required to do anything. There are days when my husband sits and watches TV and I plant something in the garden. OR I'll watch TV while he makes dinner. Some days we'll do things together, while other's it's fine to just be in the same room together. We each are our own person, and sometimes we each need some time out on our own. That's when I am sent to the mall and I send my husband to his favorite sports bar.
2006-11-14 15:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been married two years, you just get used to eachother all the time. I do love my alone time though. Not seeing eachother all the time gives you something to look forward to, but it can also strain a relationship if the other person is out living a separate life.
2006-11-14 15:31:42 · answer #7 · answered by reeba202 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be together and share space every day then it's not a good idea to get married in the first place.
Marriage is not for everyone....sometimes it's just better to continue just seeing each other. There's nothing wrong with that.
2006-11-14 15:33:30 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, am I with you on this one! I think that it's so true that absence makes the heart grow fonder.
People have a tendency to smother each other and then suffocate the relationship.
Even in marriage, there needs to be some "alone time". If there's trust in the relationship, it's a healthy thing.
2006-11-14 15:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by Amy N 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm all i can say is... just invest more trusty to each other. be patient and understanding. hmm i have my girl too shes so busy in her work as a nurse in a private hospital here. hmm weve seen each other twice a month hmm maybe often sometimes. caoz i have my work too as a computer administrator here at my own shop. its a big problem for us as we think of it. but its just need an understanding mind to face or solve this kind of problem.
so when your get married its not too big for you of two to encounter or faced that problem.
talk each other carefully then make some day to make some private occasion for you of two. thats an good idea as think. hmmm thats makes your relationship last forever. good luck!
2006-11-14 15:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by retopricher s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋