Family & Relationships - 14 November 2006

i had a bf for 2 yrs. and he lived with me. thru out these two yrs we had problems. sometimes he wouldnt help pay bills. then when he did i had to almost whine and complain to get him to do it at a decent time. one time he didnt buy no food and i had no money. its like he new i had to depend on him so he was controlling the situation. sometimes he would go on for days saying he was going to help. and i would have to wait and then turn around and ask him again. is this a form of abuse? im not with him anymore

2006-11-14 16:13:00 · 24 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

how can i stop the heartache

2006-11-14 16:12:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they eat lunch together every day..........

2006-11-14 16:11:59 · 15 answers · asked by loveablebearsofthewild 1 in Friends

I never see the alleged sex addict with any females ... he's always alone. I know he's not gay, but I don't see "honeys" around either. I thought he was a loner. I knew he likes one female, but they don't date. It seems like a portrait of two different people. I have seen "horn dogs" and this guy is not one. He's only mentioned sex to me once. He said he likes to do oral on females. I thought it might be a hint. Oh yeah! There was the day he said a certain female thought he was sleeping with me. We're not. What do you think he is.. a loner, an addict, or interested in me?

2006-11-14 16:11:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 16:11:12 · 5 answers · asked by Marcello 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-14 16:10:10 · 10 answers · asked by Some 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2gether 10 months ago.I really liked him but it wasn't the right time cuz I had just gotten out of a bad relationship.We just started talking/seeing each other again(if he visits my work,grocery store).His bday is Saturday(22).If I see him this week at the store should I say happy bday or should I just wait and call him that day?on 1 hand if I say it 2 his face I get 2 c his reaction,on the other if I call him I'll be more prepared on what 2 say 2 him.I was planning on asking him to hang out again.When we talk it comes naturally but I still like to have an idea of what I'm gonna say.SO what's better 4 my situation,phone or face?

2006-11-14 16:10:00 · 13 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

she is getting marred and i want to paint her somthing what should i do?

2006-11-14 16:09:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

If you are talking to someone for some time, but you've never met, and they suddeny stop talking to you and you don't know why, how long should you wait before you move on?

2006-11-14 16:09:14 · 2 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

This happens a number of times. We are both adults and have been a couple for six years. There are times when I feel disrespected, but he just doesn't understand and is not willing to change. Besides ending the relationship, what am I supposed to do?

2006-11-14 16:08:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My really good guy freind andn I talk on the phone at least 3 nights a week. He lives in another state so him and I rarely get to see each other. We are both moving to California in a year and will be near to each other then. But for now, I really like him and I want him to like me too. How do I get him to fall for me over the phone?

2006-11-14 16:08:41 · 6 answers · asked by luv4jesus87 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend broke up with me! I'm so upset. I don't know what to do. She is beautiful and lovely to look at. She yelled, "LORENZO! You are a bad Man!" When I ask her, "What is wrong?" She said that my wife called her. And now I may be getting a divorce. What should I do?

2006-11-14 16:08:31 · 6 answers · asked by lorenzo 1 in Singles & Dating

Why this young girl (25) know that I am married, but everytime purposely let lose her shirt top button whenever she comes to me. Sometimes, some more smiles with me in a seducing way.

2006-11-14 16:07:48 · 23 answers · asked by AH HA 2 in Marriage & Divorce

All i want is my ex. and i can't have him. Adviseeee?!

2006-11-14 16:05:46 · 1 answers · asked by Morgasmn! 1 in Singles & Dating

Before you answer, please realize that those three words can freak out some girl/guys if said too early.

2006-11-14 16:05:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hmm we haven't been dating for a long time... like three months but I'm sure he's the one.. And he's willing to sacrifice everything for me, even get baptised in the greek orthodox church. Is this all too good to be true?

2006-11-14 16:03:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i had a baby out of a 1 yr relationship. We were never married. we were on and off through out the pregnancy. After i had my baby he decided to leave his stable job for a job where he gets paid cash. Im not sure how much his income is now. He says its not much. I want to put him on child support to aviod all the drama but im not sure if thats a good idea. He buys the millk and diapers. clothes here and there. Everytime I need something i have to wait till he gets it. I also work and He doesnt want to pay for baby sittin. i just want to know how will they handle this, if he gets paid cash. and what will be his visitation right when his on child support. He is very aggresive and will not take no for an answer. He threatens me with joint custody. Can he get joint custody if he just asks for it. What is the procedure on that. I really need ur help. thanks!!

2006-11-14 16:01:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-14 16:00:39 · 7 answers · asked by Jamie F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The girl I like is now friends with the crazy chick who won't stop stalking me. My question is not how did this happen, but what should I do?!?

2006-11-14 16:00:34 · 5 answers · asked by flournoi 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 15:59:38 · 15 answers · asked by flock_of_birds 1 in Singles & Dating

I've had a crush on this girl for a month or so and i didnt get to talk to her for awhile...but im waiting 'til my birthday to ask her out...is it worth it?

2006-11-14 15:59:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Be honost women.
how long do u usually make men wait for sex when your dating them. and most importantly why?
in my experiance its usually around a month and/or 10 dates. i never understood why you would wnat to do something but still wait. answers?

2006-11-14 15:58:54 · 20 answers · asked by DA-LL /Male/ 3 in Singles & Dating

how do you know if a guy likes you?

2006-11-14 15:58:20 · 5 answers · asked by Jelly(: 2 in Singles & Dating

I am working out too impress this girl. I don't know what muscle to concentrate on so i can call her attention. What do you'll sugest girls.

2006-11-14 15:57:45 · 14 answers · asked by oz D 1 in Singles & Dating

I've had a girlfriend for a little more than 1 month. And i really liked her. One day, i told her i loved her, and she didn't respond. I told her that i couldnt make her say something she wouldn't really mean. About a week later passed and during school she approached me, saying what i told her during that day. And it was over. About 2 weeks passed, and i'm still not over her. Yeah, i know i have to get over her, but it's hard. i really liked her. she has these away messages. for example:

(i dont know where i stand with you ,
i don't know what i mean to you all i
know is that everytime i see you, all
i want to do is, ---»[ Be with you ]<3 )

and

he's got the smile i fell in love with & the arms i wanna be held in so i guess you could say hes a little more than just amazing *

i just want to clarify if it's meant for another guy or myself.
thanks alot guys. i hope to find out what you guys think.

2006-11-14 15:56:39 · 10 answers · asked by mmontane50 1 in Singles & Dating

This is HILARIOUS, thought I would share to you folks------> http://youtube.com/watch?v=dqFiZ0iL9QM

2006-11-14 15:56:39 · 6 answers · asked by Pedro Xavier Ramirez 2 in Marriage & Divorce

which do you prefer? virgin or non virgin? and why? ...my friends and i have a bet going, so be honest.

2006-11-14 15:56:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am almost bald, but I don't think women like guys who are bald. Plus, I have a skinny face, a big nose and a long neck. I am a virgin. I am 33 years old. Can it get any worse for me? Or should I just kill myself by driving off into a river or jumping off a bridge?

2006-11-14 15:56:13 · 8 answers · asked by NJboy 3 in Singles & Dating

He was in the hospital about 4 yrs ago and almost died. When he went in to the ER, he put my name down as person to notify, so when his condition became critical, I called his son and notified him he was in bad shape. He was in a medically induced coma for about 3 weeks and nearly dead.
His kids went crazy and locked me out of his house, and marked my name off the papers at the hospital and put their own names down. I didnt have a say in anything. I am a RN and work in a hospital. I still look at them with total disqust, because of the way they treated me. When he came home from the hospital, I drove him in my car. It was a 2 hour trip and his kids didnt even come over to check on him for weeks. I had the pleasure of breaking into his house when I brought him home because he was too weak to get us in.
I do not live with him. My house is 2 blocks away. I think the kids are out to get rid of me and are money hungry. Why doesnt he ask them to take him to the hospital?

2006-11-14 15:55:31 · 12 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm interested in the way people relate to each other sexually--and. especially how males and females differ in their sexual thinking.

So, in your opinion (girls, I'd prefer if the guys answered this one), do all guys think about every attractive(ish) girl they come in contact with, in a sexual nature?

Girls: How often do you get the sense that a guy is sexually excited when he talks to you? (I'm talking about any random guy you encounter).

Also, for the girls: what does it take to get you to fantasize about a guy?

In short, how often is sex on your minds?

2006-11-14 15:55:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating