Be honost women.
how long do u usually make men wait for sex when your dating them. and most importantly why?
in my experiance its usually around a month and/or 10 dates. i never understood why you would wnat to do something but still wait. answers?
2006-11-14 15:58:54 · 20 answers · asked by DA-LL /Male/ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1) its not a personal question for me. i said in my expriance, i ususally have to wait around 1 month. the longest i've waited is 3 months the shortest has been 2 weeks. its more of a curiosity.
2) nobody answered why really.
2006-11-14 16:06:49 · update #1
Between two weeks and one month. That seems to be the norm. Reason why we women want to wait? Not because we'll feel cheap and dirty, but because we don't want to blow it. The fact that there are so many men that just want to use and lose a woman means that we have to make them wait. All the boys who aren't interested in anything meaningful would probably be gone in a week.
2006-11-14 19:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by filia_san 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would wait until it felt like the right time. You can't say a specific #. Let's say you made him wait for # 10, but by # 7 you know you want it, Why wait? Or on the other hand what if you don't want it and he's not giving up on you. Do you give it up on date # 10? I don't know why some people do what they do, but I do what I feel like doing. I slept with someone after 3 dates, and we have been together a year now.
2006-11-15 00:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by israel'sgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't date guys anymore but I think I can rely on past experience to answer your question. Typically I would wait a month sometimes longer depending on the guy. The reason for the wait is because women are raised in a culture where if they put out too soon (or sometimes at all) that makes them a tramp. So a month seems like a respectable amount of time so the girl doesn't appear to be easy.
2006-11-15 00:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by Kymbo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I WOULD MAKE A GUY WAIT FOR AT LEAST THREE WEEKS TO KEEP IT REAL. I CANT EVEN WAIT FOR 2 OR 3 MONTHS UNLESS I'M SLEEPING WITH SOMEONE ON THE SIDE.BUT THE MAIN REASON WOMEN MAKE MEN WAIT IS DUE TO A DEMAND FOR RESPECT. THAT'S A REAL WAY TO MAKE A GUY RESPECT YOU. CAUSE IF YOU JUST JUMP IN THE BED WITH A GUY THAT YOU BARELY KNOW THEN HE'S PROBABLY GONNA LOOSE ALL RESPECT FOR YA. BUT IF YOU ARE REALLY GOOD TO A WOMAN IN A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME(LIKE A WEEK), SHE'LL BE MORE EAGER TO GIVE YOU A SHOT AT SLEEPING WITH HER THAN A GUY THAT'S NOT REALLY EXPRESSING HIMSELF OR SHOWING HER MUCH INTEREST.JUST SHOW HER THAT YOU'LL BE AROUND FOR A WHILE SO SHE'LL FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE GIVING HERSELF TO YOU.
2006-11-15 00:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by misskashmere 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I personally am waiting until I'm married. But if I wasnt, I would make a man wait at least that long so he wouldnt think I would just give it up to just anybody. Hope that helps.
2006-11-15 00:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on the girl as it has been said before.
As for me i wait till marriage.
That may be too long i know ! but its gonna be worth it !
i just don't think that i can sleep with a guy for couple of months or even years then he finds out that i am not what he is looking for or i am not THE ONE for him coz many guys do that.
but as it has been said before it dppedns on the girls some girls change guys as much as they change clothes and thay dont even care
well some do care :)
2006-11-15 00:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the intimacy...sometimes they get too close full of desires and sex happens soon ,sometimes it takes time to get close and feel like having sex..I never want to have sex with someone I dont love .But if i fall in love ,it might happen not too long after dating him.
2006-11-15 00:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had sex with my guy on the second date. REASON: I was a virgin and was tired of being one, also because I knew he was the one I was going to marry the very second I met him. He is the only man I have ever been with and we have been happily married ever since, 7.5 years now!
2006-11-15 00:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. SmartyPants 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am actually married, so I don't date anymore, but it was different with different guys....some guys a woman just knows she wants to sleep with and that's all, and some she wants to get to know and see where things go...it just really depends on the guy....with the man that I am married to, I slept with him the first night....moved in the first night, actually.... we didn't really go out on a date. I went over to his house, and he didn't want me to leave, so that weekend we went to pick up the rest of my things from my house.
2006-11-15 00:05:59 · answer #9 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends
if i think the guy might be using me for ssex ill make him wait longer to see if hellstick around even though im not giving him sex
but i think more like a year is an appropriate amount of time
2006-11-15 00:02:27 · answer #10 · answered by bionca 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋