He was in the hospital about 4 yrs ago and almost died. When he went in to the ER, he put my name down as person to notify, so when his condition became critical, I called his son and notified him he was in bad shape. He was in a medically induced coma for about 3 weeks and nearly dead.
His kids went crazy and locked me out of his house, and marked my name off the papers at the hospital and put their own names down. I didnt have a say in anything. I am a RN and work in a hospital. I still look at them with total disqust, because of the way they treated me. When he came home from the hospital, I drove him in my car. It was a 2 hour trip and his kids didnt even come over to check on him for weeks. I had the pleasure of breaking into his house when I brought him home because he was too weak to get us in.
I do not live with him. My house is 2 blocks away. I think the kids are out to get rid of me and are money hungry. Why doesnt he ask them to take him to the hospital?
2006-11-14 15:55:31 · 12 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Probably because of the way they are acting. Or maybe he just loves you and wants you to be there and be a part of his life. And it's possible it's because you are a RN and he feels safer with you doing it.
2006-11-14 16:01:24 · answer #1 · answered by dixie.doll84 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've been in a similar situation as you. But he doesn't have kids he has other friends and his family is something else. His other friends can do no wrong and his family is too much into their own lives they don't have time for him. When ever I'm with him and his other friends are around I become invisible. It's like I'm not even there. Yet when he needs money, a ride, arrested for a DUI and needs to be bailed out of jail or to go to the dr. which is about 3 hours away who does he call? ME!
**Girlfriend that is because we are the only stable person in their lives. He can brag about all his friends but in the end we, me and you are the only ones that will drop what ever we are doing to go help them. I guess thats our own fault, becasue we dont put our foot down and tell them like it is. I always tell myself, "next time he calls me I'm just gonna tell him to call his other friends." But then the situation arises and when that phone rings no matter how much I tell myself I'm not going to answer, I do, and something comes over me and maybe it's his sheepish voice like a kid that just melts my heart and there I go with a big J on my forehead that stands for Jacka**! But at the same time it makes me feel good because it shows that no matter how much he denys it he NEEDS ME! Just like your BF needs YOU! Good luck Girl and dont listen to his stuborn children. Listen to your BF!
2006-11-14 16:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by Starla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously because he realizes that they have an ulterior motive and he trusts you. I would speak to him about giving you medical power of attorney. This in no way would effect any monetary situations in the family but give you the right of decisions if and when he needs them made. The children would then have no right to have your name taken off the call list and in fact you could do the same to them. Any solicitor can org anise an enduring medical power of attorney which of course can be overridden by the person who has given the power of attorney, but it just means that in the event that they cannot make decisions you can make them and you would be entitled to do anything required at the hospital
2006-11-14 16:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 07:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not want to worry his children. He also could feel more comfortable with you taking him becuase your an RN.
Your issues with his kids aside, if you turely care for him then I would find a way to work things threw.
2006-11-14 16:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by Karen K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesnt trust them like he trusts you. Sounds like his kids are totally in it for the money and you are genuine and caring. He is lucky to have someone in his life that he can trust to be there for him. It is sad his own kids dont care for him, but at least he is lucky to have you!
2006-11-14 16:01:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question, the kids are selfish, money grubbing, good for nothing brats and only when they find it convenient do they even bother with your boyfriend and he is aware that you tbe only person he can rely on.
2006-11-14 15:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by Goodie66 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He obviously
1. doesn't trust them.
2. loves you and wants to spend this extra time with you.
3. Wants to display his affection, for his kids are not.
b.t.w. i really do not like these kids. Does ur bf know that they did all of this?
2006-11-14 15:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by qwertyuiop23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your children treated you like you didnt matter would you ask them to take you to the hospital?
2006-11-14 15:59:11 · answer #9 · answered by Jess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He would rather have you take him to the hosp- why doesn't he marry you- and your name can be on the papers legally= sounds like you two love each other- how about a lifelong committment??D
2006-11-14 15:59:13 · answer #10 · answered by Debby B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋