Family & Relationships - 14 November 2006

This one guy really likes me but i dont like him like a boyfriend at all... these other 2 guys like me and i like them both...the thing is one is my ex(i really like him) and he sorta likes a few other girls and the third guy likes this one girl also.... idk what to i really like the 2 ... what should i do and who should i choose?

2006-11-14 15:22:52 · 3 answers · asked by ohdarliingletgo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 15:21:46 · 22 answers · asked by nishnoush 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this man - he is from out of state, but we were together for a week. When he left, he made all sorts of promises, that he was definitely coming back, that he was going to live here, all sorts of BS. He even had me looking at property for him to buy! We talked every single day for a month, then no answer on the phone for a week. I didn't know if he ws dead or alive!
We did NOT even have an argument, so I had no clue, until he called my work and threatened to press charges. WTF? (Kind of hard to prove since we would talk for HOURS)
It would have been so much easier if he had had the balls to say he wasn't coming back after all.
I knew it was going to be nearly impossible, as he has kids and family a thousand miles away.

I give up on men!

2006-11-14 15:21:14 · 11 answers · asked by toobusytostress 2 in Singles & Dating

If you were a dating site for people over the age of 30 what would you call it????
This is a serious question -- please help!!!
Thanks

2006-11-14 15:20:33 · 6 answers · asked by ~CountryGirl~ 2 in Singles & Dating

You see a decent to hot looking Indian out there.

Your first thought is that she/he is a nerd who is becoming a doctor with strict parents...

Or you're like...dang he/she is pretty cute

???

This is just because I'm purely curious of what everyone perceives Indians to be.

2006-11-14 15:20:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anita L 1 in Singles & Dating

ok....i had an LDR with my bf for about 4 months....and then we met up again for a one week trip to mexico for vacation.....we were both virgins before and we lost our virginity during the trip...lol..... then i went back home...and so did he...and we spent another 2 months far apart b4 we actually moved in 2gether.....when we did....i found out that during those 2 months of seperation he had slept with someone else supposedly cuz he got somewhat "addicted" to sex....now i kno that its different for guys than it is for girls and they "need" sex more often but if he truly loved me wouldnt he have resisted the urge and just masturbated or something? guys....would u let in to temptation like that even if u loved ur gf....or is he just using it as an excuse....?? id like to hear responses from guys perferably....thnx

2006-11-14 15:18:45 · 9 answers · asked by alina C 1 in Singles & Dating

in their wife's life?

2006-11-14 15:18:01 · 14 answers · asked by DC 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 17 and still a virgin and I'd like to know how good it feels, thanks... I don't think I'll be having it for a really long time cuz i'm ugly and have no social skills.

2006-11-14 15:17:27 · 12 answers · asked by commie.4444@yahoo.com a 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl just got dissed by a guy she really liked, so is it wrong to pick her up on the rebound.... She knows I have the biggest crush on her.....

2006-11-14 15:17:15 · 11 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have an 18 month old son who is allergic to peanuts. How do I get our extended family to understand the severity of his allergy without hurting anyone's feelings? They all try to feed him and offer him fluids of different things w/out first having knowledge of the products ingredients, etc. We had it set that no one is to feed him but us, but at our sister's wedding everyone seemed to forget or ignore this. No one acts like they understand he could die from a reaction. Our Grandmother said she could pick noodles (w/unknown ingredients) out of a salad for him to eat. I was blown away for, I have told her many times of cross contamination. I am now terrified to ever leave him in anyone else's care. Please help

2006-11-14 15:17:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

....maybe i'm scared to tell my "friend" how I feel about him cause it just might run him off because of the "L" word! HELP!!!

2006-11-14 15:17:11 · 4 answers · asked by Kimaya R 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 15:16:49 · 17 answers · asked by das 2 in Singles & Dating

When you want to impress a guy, what are your special tricks? Tossing your hair, crossing your legs, dressing a certain way, standing a certain way, touching him or making it a point not to touch him? Don't worry, I won't tell your secret!

2006-11-14 15:16:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think my wife is cheating on me. I don't know what to do. Any advice?

2006-11-14 15:16:39 · 8 answers · asked by DC 2 in Singles & Dating

I did it to please him. But now I want out because I feel that I am compromising myself. My husband doesn't care about my feelings.He remains condescending and angry about my decision. I don't know what to do.

2006-11-14 15:16:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I can't help it. I'm attracted to my step father. I'm 19 and my step father is 53. He works at a gym and is a personal trainer. should I tell my mom....I feel so horrible......

2006-11-14 15:16:14 · 15 answers · asked by gerbilllinad 1 in Family

If you knew a married guy was having sex with other guys, would you tell his wife?

2006-11-14 15:15:42 · 19 answers · asked by J S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-14 15:15:08 · 13 answers · asked by Juan 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a date tomorrow, and im really nervous, any conversation starters?

2006-11-14 15:14:15 · 10 answers · asked by krispiemeow 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 15:13:54 · 12 answers · asked by ast5792 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i just started dating this guy n it's his bday on december 11th ... n i was just wondering ... what should i get him? i mean ... whats appropriate?

2006-11-14 15:13:45 · 7 answers · asked by starxxgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy who I heard who liked me and we never spoke and one day on the train he started talking to me he even walked me home and wanted to meet up with me on the weekend then i saw him again the next day he was like trying to avoid me acting like his scared of me I dont understand y his so mad about he said he was happy being with me have any of use experienced this, Im starting to think he told his friends about me and they might have made a comment about me being black but not sure.

2006-11-14 15:12:51 · 9 answers · asked by Ashanti 3 in Singles & Dating

Ha ve you as a parent ever just washed your hands of your children?
My mom did when I was 18 except for every once in awhile it stayed like that for over 20 years just because I moved out and took my son with me. i was over 18 and she didn't agree with me leaving. She hardly ever saw my kids until they were grown. Please never totally disown your kids they did not ask to be brought into this world. My 28 year old was a handful all her life and we had many arguments resulting in awful things said by us both but she always knew I was here for her no matter what. 11 months ago she was murdered by her BF her and I had augued the day before which sometimes resulted in our not speaking for awhile but because I knew she was upset with her BF I went to visit her and tell her I loved her around 8 hours later she was dead. I say this to spare any parent the anguish of letting the last words be angry ones. Trust me if you lose a child it is horrible no matter but if your last words were in anger well all I can say is I proably wouldn't be able to live with myself

2006-11-14 15:12:26 · 7 answers · asked by katlady927 6 in Family

Ok, I can answer everyone elses questions about relationships, I help all my friends out, in and out of school, everything I say seems to work out for everyone ELSE. But, when it comes time to deal with my own relationship, I blank. Either I have no idea, or it's not original, or its plain stupid.... or something else.

I'm a half decent guy, kinda smart, but a little on the immature side when I'm with certain friends. Sometimes I think that she's TOTALLY into me, but othertimes she's just like 'whatever.' I really can't tell if she likes me, or if she wants to know more about me, or if she's just toying with me or what? I'm desperately and utterly confused.

2006-11-14 15:12:25 · 8 answers · asked by Teh Questioner 1 in Singles & Dating

the day I told him i was divorced,he held my hand and told me i will be his g/f and wife in future.Everytime i see him,he holds my hand and kiss it.I have to pull back.Before when he didn't know i was divorced ,he never said anything in fact he was very quiet next to me, but vey nice and kind.Now a friend tells me to watch it,
because the guy i like is always looking at ladies,that he might always want to use me for sex, What do u think ? He also tells me he doesn't recommend that man to me.So, GUYS what do u think ? i need your opinions ??? PLEASE ! I'll be waiting. THANKS

2006-11-14 15:12:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm apprehensive about it, even tho we are pretty good friends. he's such a hottie!

2006-11-14 15:11:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I usually get online in the morning and chat a little with my boyfriend when he's at work. Our Internet was down until close to 5:00. My boyfriend usually has friends over on Tuesday nights after work. When the Internet finally was up and running again, he wasn't online, which is normal because he usually doesn't have messenger going when they're over. My sister and I were finishing up this PC game he bought me. I looked while ago and he was online, so I said "Hi." He didn't respond for about 30 minutes. Then he finally responded and said he was going to bed. He didn't even talk to me. I asked him if something was wrong, and he said no, that he was just distracted. Then he said good night and "I love you." and went to bed. He said he was sleepy.

I have an uneasy feeling about this. I tried talking to him about it, but he didn't respond. I'm scared. :( I don't understand why he would be more tired than usual. I hope he's not sick or anything, but I'm paranoid I did something wrong.

2006-11-14 15:11:27 · 15 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a bit of a dilemma. My cousin who is 17 (I'm 22), is like a sister to me, were really good friends. The other day me and her were at her sister's house, she came out of the bathroom; I went by the bathroom and could smell the cigarette smoke roll out. Most of the people I know smoke, including all but two of my older cousins, I have never tried it and never will, theirs a surgeon general warning on the label for a reason. So what do I do, do I tell her mother, her sister, my mom, do I ignore it all together, do I confront her about it. I'm sorta shocked but not really surprised she started smoking, her parents especially her dad, is really hard on her, I also think she has low self-esteem. Her sister smokes, and several of her friends, she's told me on several occasions in the past that she would never smoke. I love her so much; I'm really worried about her, she's been very distant and never calls or comes over. I always thought I knew her better than this. : - (

2006-11-14 15:11:22 · 4 answers · asked by uroplatis 1 in Family

Im Catholic. My fiance is Lutheran. Neither of us want to convert, yet we want blessings from both the Priest and Pastor.
Is it possible to get married in the Catholic Church, then get a blessing from the Pastor (lutheran) afterwards? and if so, what all goes into getting married in the catholic church? -- as far as classes, talking w/ priest etc...

2006-11-14 15:10:19 · 9 answers · asked by shaweet84 2 in Weddings

2006-11-14 15:09:25 · 22 answers · asked by Mel 4 in Singles & Dating