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ok....i had an LDR with my bf for about 4 months....and then we met up again for a one week trip to mexico for vacation.....we were both virgins before and we lost our virginity during the trip...lol..... then i went back home...and so did he...and we spent another 2 months far apart b4 we actually moved in 2gether.....when we did....i found out that during those 2 months of seperation he had slept with someone else supposedly cuz he got somewhat "addicted" to sex....now i kno that its different for guys than it is for girls and they "need" sex more often but if he truly loved me wouldnt he have resisted the urge and just masturbated or something? guys....would u let in to temptation like that even if u loved ur gf....or is he just using it as an excuse....?? id like to hear responses from guys perferably....thnx

2006-11-14 15:18:45 · 9 answers · asked by alina C 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

LDR = long distance relationship

2006-11-14 15:21:30 · update #1

9 answers

it is somewhat true that after you havent had sex in a while and you do, it makes you wnat it more. however this does not give you boyfriend and excuse to cheat on you. he should want you more, want to have sex with you more

2006-11-14 15:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0 0

he shouldn't be addicted to sex.. he should be addicted to you, if he loves you.. seems he's more interested in sex than he is interested in you.. i don't think there is any excuse for what he did. it was cheating and he was in the wrong.. i feel really badly that this has happened to you.

when it comes to sexual urge and hormones, guys are no different than girls. .society just seems to tolerate it more from guys. bottom line, if he really loved you, then he would not want to be with any other girl..

2006-11-14 15:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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2016-10-03 23:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by kuhlmann 4 · 0 0

you lost me when you said >i kno that its different for guys than it is for girls and they "need" sex more often < ?? whoever told you that?
4 months of (i'm assuming) an online relationship does not make a lasting relationship.
i'm sorry that you lost your virginity to him (and i don't know how you could know he was a virgin as well) but anyway, you seem ok with it.
i suppose you can take it as a learning experience..not to give yourself too quickly to someone you don't know well or can't trust.

2006-11-14 15:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by annenymous 2 · 0 0

Its hard for guys to resist temptaion, when something like this is put before them, its hard to say no. This girl may have been really putting the moves on him, trying to lure him in, yes, if he loved you he would do everything he possibly could to stop himself, but it can be very difficult at times.

2006-11-14 15:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by lonerforever14 2 · 0 0

I know from experiece that a man would never cheat on someone if he truly loved you. They would just masterbate to get rid of their urges

2006-11-14 15:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by froggy_dimebag 3 · 0 0

okay.. if you love someone.. you dont cheat... if you kinda care.. but not really.. you use a stupid excuse like the one he did.. if he was really addicted to sex he'd have told you.. and it wouldnt have been just one.. it would have been dozens.. so he just did cuz he got horny and couldn't wait it out...

2006-11-14 15:22:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

What's and LDR????

2006-11-14 15:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by isitdaytimeyet 1 · 0 0

try counseling

2006-11-14 15:21:19 · answer #9 · answered by HAPPY <3 2 · 0 0

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