Theres this guy who I heard who liked me and we never spoke and one day on the train he started talking to me he even walked me home and wanted to meet up with me on the weekend then i saw him again the next day he was like trying to avoid me acting like his scared of me I dont understand y his so mad about he said he was happy being with me have any of use experienced this, Im starting to think he told his friends about me and they might have made a comment about me being black but not sure.
2006-11-14 15:12:51 · 9 answers · asked by Ashanti 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
boys are wired differently from girls. we are often not as in tune with our own emotions as you girls are. and we're not as well equipped as you are to deal with powerful emotions, ours or others'.
right off the top of my head, the word that comes closest to describing boys faced with powerful emotions, love being the most pleasantly powerful, is "confounded".
so, to answer your question directly: we boys are often confused when faced with overpowering emotions; our first and easiest line of defense is "denial" and "escape". is it such a wonder you girls often find us emotionally confusing?
your friend might be going thru an emotional turmoil, making sense of his emotions in fits and starts, separated by commas, ending in ellipses or question marks.
why don't you help him sort thru and get a better grip on his emotions; impatience won't do the trick. help him formulate them in a language he himself would understand and accept, in a language that, hopefully, would sound magical to your ears. hopefully, too, those emotions end either in an exclamation point or a period. that should make him more readable to both of you...and make better sense, too, wouldn't he?
2006-11-14 15:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by saberlingo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely i do not recognize why boys act the way they do. i wager that is going to proceed to be a secret! Lol, i could not be confident if he loved you or not yet there's a 50, 50 danger that he des. i imagine you should computer screen his movements or watch what he says to you. seek for little tricks which could recommend that he likes you. i desire I helped. best of success! Arie
2016-11-29 03:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They may have, Guys can be unbelievably insensitive. I would say confront him, then walk away. Because if he's that shallow then he's not worth your time anyways. But you know we always need that closure on the subject.
2006-11-14 15:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by dixie.doll84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe things moved too fast and he just got scared. you need to try to get him to tell you whats wrong. Dont ever give up.
2006-11-14 15:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by cschultz66701 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try putting some periods in that looooooong sentence!
and that is the way teen guys are....we all gotta put up with it. maybe they will get maturer.
2006-11-14 15:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably insecure or shy.. either that, or maybe he is confused himself about what he wants...
2006-11-14 15:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with miss woozy
2006-11-14 15:16:59 · answer #7 · answered by Juicybre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u have to kno. guys are dumb lol idk whats going thru their heads ever....its just the way they were made
2006-11-14 15:17:11 · answer #8 · answered by none 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes shy......i dunno we are confuseing arnt we?
2006-11-14 15:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by SwordDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋