This girl just got dissed by a guy she really liked, so is it wrong to pick her up on the rebound.... She knows I have the biggest crush on her.....
2006-11-14 15:17:15 · 11 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She hurts herself when she gets mad....
2006-11-14 15:25:27 · update #1
Wrong? That's for you to decide, but here's some food for thought.
She needs your friendship. If you give her friendship without going for anything more right now, it shows her respect. Then, when she is less vulnerable, if the two of you get together she will respect you more and you will be able to trust that she's with you for the right reasons and not simply out of need.
If the two of you got involved right now, it might be for the wrong reasons at the wrong time and thus set you up for failure down the road.
If you are "right" together, then it won't hurt for you to be her best friend and hold off on the other stuff for a while out of respect for her temporary vulnerability and genuine love or care for her.
Just something to consider. Good luck!
2006-11-14 15:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by majorquota 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been rather somewhat impolite to him. it particularly is as much as you to call him. inspite of each and every thing, why ought to he call you in case you're actually not likely to respond to your telephone and he's familiar with you're screening? impolite! If he and his ex broke up with the aid of fact they found that they are incompatible, which skill that they had dealt with the fact they have been breaking apart for a on a similar time as previously, for this reason it grew to become into less complicated for him to place the courting into the previous and flow on. So no, you're actually not a "rebound" So call him, make an apology for being stupid and impolite and appreciate which you have chanced on a useful individual to this element.
2016-10-03 23:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by kuhlmann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, but you can be her friend and help her take her mind off things and the past relationship. I don't think it's wrong as do you think it's wrong that you like her? I don't think so. It's just natural. However, if she doesn't like you like that then I guess be the bigger person. But I think it would be best go at it a day at a time.
2006-11-14 15:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with it at all , just hope the rebound wont rebound again(ie her using ya just to get her guy back) that would really suck 4 you that is good luck,
2006-11-14 16:15:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mm take some time..be there for her and move in for the kill..after shes alittle better..
2006-11-14 15:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by itstony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the heck do you want to be with someone like that???
2006-11-14 15:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...if she likes you and is not with you to get back at her ex-go ahead (I would ask her this question-honesty and trust go hand in hand)
2006-11-14 15:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you treat her right then its ok.
2006-11-14 15:19:29 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Chayel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its so not wrong, I dont know what she will do but its not "wrong"
2006-11-14 15:19:24 · answer #9 · answered by StarWarsFanatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if anythign it will make her feel better
2006-11-14 15:20:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋