I can't help it. I'm attracted to my step father. I'm 19 and my step father is 53. He works at a gym and is a personal trainer. should I tell my mom....I feel so horrible......
2006-11-14 15:16:14 · 15 answers · asked by gerbilllinad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ummm Yes tell her, then she will leave him and you two can work things out, you and your mother that is...You are very wrong for what you did and to your own mother, im shaking my head....
2006-11-14 15:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you thinking? You totally need to get control of yourself, and grow up! Your MOTHER married this man, and probably LOVES him! Don't tell her, but out of pure respect for your mom, stay away!! Do you have any ideal how much you would hurt your mom? Think about it! What if your mom went that low, and did that to you? How would you feel? Shame on you! You'll only have one mother in this whole world, so .........If your step father kissed you back, and he's 53, he has issues!!!! Nice body or not!!
2006-11-14 23:25:37 · answer #2 · answered by sue d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what kind of kiss, If you made out with your step father you should not tell your mom, and you shouldn't do it again, My suggestion is find your own guy, that kind of thing is more trouble than it is worth. Find a guy that you don't have to share with your mom. You are probably alot better looking than you mom, so I would think he would be much more interested in you, so you shouldn't tempt him. Bad things would happen.
2006-11-14 23:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by savage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly. Holy crap that would be super awkward and secondly unless you want to live with that thought in the back of your mind for life whenver you see him walk by living with your mom. Tell your mom despite what your Step Dad thinks. Be completly truthful the truth does not hurt, a lie would screw up the situation even more, I hope all works out for the best.
2006-11-14 23:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your mom needs to know. I know it will be really hard to talk to her about this, but you are not going to feel any better about the situation until you let her know what happened. Make sure you also talk to your step father and let him know what you two did was wrong and it should have never happened. Make sure it is clear to him and your mom that nothing like this will ever happen again. Your mom may not know how to react at first, but in time I'm sure she will forgive you. Please do the right thing and let her know.
Good luck
2006-11-14 23:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by r_finewood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell your mom, but definitely stear clear of your step father. You are old enough for it to not be sexual abuse on his part, but you should be smart enough to know that nothing good will come of this. If you suspect your step father is doing this with other girls, you may consider hinting that to your mom. She doesn't need to find out later on that he is sleeping with the chicks he is training.
2006-11-14 23:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by toothfairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You surely don't want to hurt your Mom, but you should stay away from your Step Father. Your Mom would be crushed if you two hooked up. And it would cause unrepairable damage to your relationship.Plus if he's coming on to you he's probably coming on to other girls. If you were much younger he'd be considered a pedophile. Sorry but that's really sick.
2006-11-15 01:48:46 · answer #7 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its ok because he is not really related to you. Make sure you use birth control in case it goes farther. He probably would prefer to be with you then your mom. Its ok as long as you dont get pregnant.
2006-11-14 23:28:27 · answer #8 · answered by sub_bob4u 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well its not a fault to get attractive,i am a 39 yr old woman and my son finds me attractive.
but it doesn't mean we give out things and get out of control.
well i wwould recommend you to not to tell this to anyone and make sure u don't do anything stupid!!
2006-11-16 00:04:35 · answer #9 · answered by terri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better just keep that secret to your self unless you want to break up your mothers happy home....dam going after your mamma's hubby is pretty low down dont ya think
2006-11-15 00:10:01 · answer #10 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋