2006-11-14 15:21:46 · 22 answers · asked by nishnoush 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Awww, that's harsh! You should tell her, "Honey, I know you aren't doing anything wrong, but when we are together do you think you could stop checking out men so much? It annoys me and sort of hurts my feelings. Its not that big of a deal, I just would prefer you not do it in my presence."
Hopefully, she will oblige, and maybe she doesn't realize it bugs you.
If she doesn't, then maybe you have a bigger problem on your hands than just a wandering eye...
2006-11-14 15:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by neverneverland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do the same thing right back. Don't let her get you down man start checking out hot girls in front of her. If that doesn't make her jealous then she probably is doing more than just looking.
2006-11-14 15:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by whyt gurl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her how it makes you feel. If the shoe was on the other foot how would she feel if your oodling some female or having your tongue hanging out. tell her to show some class when she is with you . We all look its natural. but be respectful to the one your with on the arm that night. and for you even more so she is your wife.
2006-11-14 16:45:56 · answer #3 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that it is un lady like beings how you are married and that you would appreciate it if she would not do that when you are with her. It boils down to respect. All couples have their own unique agreement, ground rules that should be followed. As long as you two agree and respect those rules it should be all good. All couples are different. Good luck to you!
2006-11-14 15:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her how it makes you feel. I am fine with my husband looking (not ogling mind you) at other women when he is out, so long as I am not there. When I am there and he does it, I find it disrespectful. However....I think it is only human for us to look at the opposite sex. I would worry about my husband if he didn't....
2006-11-14 15:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer W 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Note who she is looking at then make a complimentary remark about him, such as "he's a good looking dude." Then when a good looking young chic is coming toward you, say, " wow. Isn't she cute" That should sort it out one way or another. Good luck.
2006-11-14 15:45:37 · answer #6 · answered by Ted T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women complain about this their men looking at others...you could call her on it or try harder to keep her attention or don't care as long as she is only looking right....some say that...to me it's disrespectful to wander your eyes when your with another.
2006-11-14 15:25:06 · answer #7 · answered by lol_des 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel. it sounds elementary but lack of communication is the main cause of failed marriages/relationships. if she still doesn't get it, appeal to her emotions. set an example. "How would you feel if I blatantly checked out other women in your presence?" Don't be whiney, and don't get defensive. Keep it calm, and inviting so she can tell you whats really in her heart.
2006-11-14 15:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it. My husband looks at other women and I look at other men. It doesn't matter where you get your appetite as long as you go home to eat.
2006-11-15 01:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by Gina K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing... She is trying to play on your emotions and trying to make you jealous...When she looks at him ask her things like does he look like a hunk to you....Betcha you would love waking up to that in the morning...Turn this whole scenario around on her and when she thinks it is not bothering you anymore she will find a different means to tease you.
2006-11-14 15:24:54 · answer #10 · answered by ray b 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋