I usually get online in the morning and chat a little with my boyfriend when he's at work. Our Internet was down until close to 5:00. My boyfriend usually has friends over on Tuesday nights after work. When the Internet finally was up and running again, he wasn't online, which is normal because he usually doesn't have messenger going when they're over. My sister and I were finishing up this PC game he bought me. I looked while ago and he was online, so I said "Hi." He didn't respond for about 30 minutes. Then he finally responded and said he was going to bed. He didn't even talk to me. I asked him if something was wrong, and he said no, that he was just distracted. Then he said good night and "I love you." and went to bed. He said he was sleepy.
I have an uneasy feeling about this. I tried talking to him about it, but he didn't respond. I'm scared. :( I don't understand why he would be more tired than usual. I hope he's not sick or anything, but I'm paranoid I did something wrong.
2006-11-14 15:11:27 · 15 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-14 15:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by don 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't over react. he had friends over maybe he logged on to see if you had sent him a message and you didn't so he went back to his friends and it was 1/2 hour later when he saw your message.
not knowing your age maybe he had a few beers and was tired.
tomorrow morning just go back to normal an chat in the am and if he is still "strange" ask if he is feeling ok and make sure he knows you missed talking to him tuesday morning but your computer was down, so he knows you weren't ignoring him
2006-11-14 15:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by G L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't panic give him the benefit of the doubt i can see why you may worry feeling a little insecure and he not being his normal lovey dovey self. but it could be like you said his friends were over and someone else could be on the computer I know when my neice comes over she goes on msn to talk to her friends yet people will think im on there when im not. so maybe one of his friends were on there and he came on later to tell you goodnight and he loves you. and being a bit distanct some men have problem showing affection in front of there male conterparts thinking its a sign of weakness some men have no problem with it depends how secure they are with themselves. so maybe he felt a bit shy to act all mushy with you in front of the boys.
I wouldn't worry to much my dear. I know you care for him so natural you want everything to be sound and safe. but let this one be. he hasn't shown you any other time he's aloof has he. or distnant im sure he was busy with the boys as i said.
2006-11-14 17:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be possible he is really tired from job. Or perhaps something happened wrong b/w u both that's why he loves u but also ignore u. So This is the first reason.
2nd reason may be possible that he has any problem to talk to u.
So don't call him forcefully if he don't want. go to him or meet him any where & discuss him about this situation
Don't worry
2006-11-14 15:20:28 · answer #4 · answered by care 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We women are so sensitive to every little nuance. It really must drive men up the wall. I wouldn't worry. If he said he is tired, take him at his word. If "excuses" continue over a period of time start worrying THEN.
Good luck.
Peace.
2006-11-14 15:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to read anything into it. There could be numerous reasons why he didn't respond. It is sensless to worry. If you are worried about this, then you might have issues to address about the relationship. Relax and good luck!
2006-11-14 15:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by Jim W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you always chat to him, the guy would that you're too sansitive.I think it's time to think what you have done to him .aleast you got a clue to your next plan .Trust what you feel.if you aren't comfortable with this guy ,you may consider to end the relationship
2006-11-14 15:31:45 · answer #7 · answered by ®ÔµM ¸showboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax dont think more about it and ignore this incident and let your relation sail ahead in the oceans dont think of a pebble in the ocean
2006-11-14 15:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by Mimoh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just tired, or has another girl sleeping over
2006-11-14 15:13:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax
you caught him on one of the seven days we are legitimately distracted from our girls. be sweet to him, get his attention with something sexy, and move on.
2006-11-14 15:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by savgbst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's been chatting and webcamming with other women.
2006-11-14 15:14:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋