Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

I'm looking for a website that has nice "In Memory Poems". My Friend lost her Boyfriend in a car accident. I want to find a nice poem to send her. This is her first christmas without him..They dated for 3 years. He was killed 3 weeks before their wedding date.I'm looking for a poem "My First Christmas Without You"

2006-11-17 23:59:21 · 1 answers · asked by Sunshine 3 in Friends

I've known this guy for about a year through friends - but kind of distanced myself from him because he's a horrible person. But about 3 months ago, I got to be better friends with him and found myself liking him aswell. He's still the same horrible person, but he's always flirting with me, always putting his arm around me and stuff, and he does this with some other people but not to the extent that he does it with me to. He's also got a reputation for "messing girls around", in the way that he leads them on until they like him, then he ignores them. He tried to do this to me once, but about 5 minutes after, he was really apologetic about it and oviously felt pretty bad. I always have "deep" discussions with him while emailing and stuff, but then whenever I see him in real life, he's always so horrible to me. He says this is because of low self-esteem, and that he's trying to make himself look better by being mean to me...
Does he like me?? What's WRONG with him???

2006-11-17 23:55:37 · 21 answers · asked by ledgebag 2 in Singles & Dating

See, my love life has been a tad dry lately, so I'm figuring that if I go down to the Chug a Lug and pick a fight with some dude that is sure to beat the crap out of me, some chick will be all sorry and s*** and take me home with her.
Or do you think she'll just go home with the other guy?

2006-11-17 23:53:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 23:50:00 · 12 answers · asked by Mayura j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I always had low self-esteem but a week ago I just decided to be positive and start meeting girls ..so I did but none of them seemed to be interested in me,people told me being really funny is the key but I don't want to be funny or make fun of myself,I'm kind of a serious guy but I can be funny at times and I'm kind,neat,romantic,smart and studying dentistry but girls care a lot about looks.
so what do you think guys..do I have to be funny ??
will I ever have a gf or should I wait till I become a dentist????

2006-11-17 23:48:43 · 29 answers · asked by James 2 in Singles & Dating

I had fall in love.

2006-11-17 23:46:53 · 14 answers · asked by bubun 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a girl in church ,luckly she is a christian and so do i.I don't know how to say that i like her ,give me some advice please.

2006-11-17 23:46:31 · 4 answers · asked by Jack 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing this guy i like about once a week for a few months now, but im very confused--We both work different shifts so the only time we see each other is after his shift (after midnight) on my day off--we watch a movie and then He crashes at my place because we are both tired--we usually go to sleep but theres usually some cuddling and kissing that goes on in the morning when we wake up--thing is when it starts to get serious (in bed that is) he cuts and runs always having some excuse and then i may not hear fom him for a week until he calls again--i would call this a booty call except for the obvious reason that there is none lol--hes said hes afraid of getting hurt again but i dont know what to think---help

2006-11-17 23:46:02 · 7 answers · asked by wonderingwhy 2 in Singles & Dating

I was walking past the local nursing home the other day when I saw a sign in the window..the sign was for a volunteer events coordinator. I thought this woud be a great idea for myself, as it would give me a chance to give back to the community and at the same time bring some joy into the lives of the elderly. I was hired for the position, and I went to work right away. The first event that we attended was an outing to our local strip club. Now look, I know what you're thinking, but these people can shuffle off this mortal coil at any second, I think they deserve a few lap dances before they go! And yes, I brought the ladies too, no sense in leaving them home on a Saturday night. I thought it was going quite well until Charlie, our oldest resident at 91 years old had a heart attack while getting a lap dance and passed on. Needless to say, this put a damper on our evening! I'm thinking next week I will take them bar-hopping..what do you think?

2006-11-17 23:45:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yeah ok i am 13 and this 16 year old in my youth group totally said he loved me and like sent me poems and all and told me i was pretty, funny, and like we like the same music and everything. so the day after he told me that he asked someone else out!! so i emailed him and told him that im not really jealous bc i think it was more of a crush thing, so i said i wouldnt let myself be treated like that and that was disrespectful towards me! then i said he may be 16 but he has the emotions of a 9 year old. and STILL the next day he flirted w/ me!! was i right to say that ans what else should i do?

2006-11-17 23:44:21 · 5 answers · asked by Kaylor 1 in Singles & Dating

"I cheated on my spouse and now I want to know if I should tell them"....I read that everyday here in Answers and just wonder why anyone would want to tell their spouse. I say cheat, enjoy, and keep your mouth shut!

2006-11-17 23:42:38 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-17 23:41:17 · 8 answers · asked by sethro722000 1 in Singles & Dating

No funny comments please i am serious and in love!

2006-11-17 23:39:09 · 13 answers · asked by dom23ipswich 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been heart broken over a guy for months now, I am not sure whether or not we'll get back together. Well I have received offers from a guy I know well and I do like, well not for anything serious, just some amusement... good time, getting a bit sennsual.. Just a bit.. you see like making out and stuff like that.. you think I should go for it? I am resisting still, but I feel that I have emotional needs and want to have fulfilled even if it were for a short time... Tell me??

2006-11-17 23:38:22 · 15 answers · asked by Chichou 4 in Singles & Dating

In my class there are 2 beautiful girls who are very close friends. However, both of them are interested in me and each of them know this as well. One wants a serious kind of relationship and the other wants fun(She knows her parents are against to love mariiage). I too am not interested in serious relationship. If I go with the second person what would happen to their relationship. Do you think to go with the 2nd person and have sex is a right thing?

2006-11-17 23:38:01 · 4 answers · asked by smash wit love 1 in Singles & Dating

I am unable to have a family, I just want a family to call my own

2006-11-17 23:37:29 · 7 answers · asked by Lisa j 1 in Family

2006-11-17 23:37:27 · 2 answers · asked by Mel 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 23:36:19 · 8 answers · asked by sethro722000 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a recovering alcoholic and an enabler. I got my son out of jail by talking to the judge and let him share my 2 bdrm. apt. with me.some days were wonderful, his gf lived in another city with my grandson and i just adored this boy. My son was using, and I was afraid most of the time and the verbal abuse was too much to bear.I would go to meetings and wonder how many times I would hear myself talk about this problem. One night I came home and told him to leave, his gf was real angry, and I told her to take him in or his father who was sober for 20 years could. anyway nobody wanted the pain and agony of dealing with him and they told me I was a rotten mother to just throw my son out. The end result was that he left, and I haven't seen my grandson or son since, we live in the same city. I thought the other grandparents would at least call me, to see what was going on, but no one callled. my heart is broken. I have stayed sober, but my life is not the same. Grandparents have no rights!

2006-11-17 23:35:52 · 13 answers · asked by cammie143216 1 in Family

Just a lil' question/dilemma/or whatever..I am in my early 20's and an asian female..Just want to know your thoughts on this..Its not that I hate being asian..in fact I do sometimes wish i was non asian..I hate hanging out in places where there's a congregation of asians..And I hate when asian people approach me thinking that because I'm asian, that we're all gonna be friends...I had heaps of asian friends at high school, in fact just about all my high school friends were asians..but now since i've lost touch with all of them I don't know any. I feel like as an asian, i have to prove myself more..'cos theres all these sterotypes and crap..ugghh..I just get pissed off. I strongly believe that the world is kinder to whites. Its like when I meet people or whatever and when they hear me speak, they're like "WOW..your english is so good"..Its like what the hell, because i'm asian i have to speak like retard..Am i making sense? maybe i'm sounding a lil' irate right now..

2006-11-17 23:35:46 · 8 answers · asked by Ria K 1 in Singles & Dating

What should i do?

My father divorced his first wife because she cheated on him on with my dads cousin. My dad remarried, from where i came from! :D

But growing up with this knowledge makes me feel insecure in that - what if it happens to me? - what if history repeats itself? I have trusted girlfriends that i have had fully, but i gues i know they werent for long term, but when i do get married, i think i might not fully trust her, i know in my heart, i would carry out the vows i take until death do us apart, but what if she doesnt? - In this day and age its so easy to stray, friend, colleague, etc etc.

Even a kiss, for example if something happened accidently after a few drinks, perhaps i worry too much, think too much, and should just go with the flow, but is that life? - going with the flow is half hearted approach.

I dont know whats the way to change my view on this, what are your views?

2006-11-17 23:33:58 · 18 answers · asked by City Guy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-17 23:33:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I spoke to my ex and I also pay support every week what is my next step?

2006-11-17 23:33:23 · 13 answers · asked by paco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the thing is that at times i think that i ve done alot for him... left my friends after a couple of weeks that we started dating.... and now he has transfered to another school... he is feeling abondonded by his freinds... but i told him that i m always there for him. i m in a way feeling rather left on my own. but i really love him and do nt want us to stop in this way. i want us to make the best out of our relationship. we have always done! i feeling rather lost... now he is even at times feeling a bit upset about me talking to our past freinds (who are males) what can i do?
thanks

2006-11-17 23:33:06 · 3 answers · asked by maya 1 in Singles & Dating

I have extremely reluctant to try to form relationships with women because I fear my fetish will eventually get in the way. The more honest your assessment, the better.

2006-11-17 23:32:59 · 1 answers · asked by Curious 1 in Singles & Dating

please help me to place my sister into a safe and warm living arrangements. she can afford very little but either way presently she is broke until the third of december.

2006-11-17 23:30:24 · 6 answers · asked by sexxysback 1 in Family

2006-11-17 23:29:50 · 2 answers · asked by Jackie M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well my problem is that whenever i like a boy nothing ever goes as i have planned eitther they already like another girl or they already have a girl friend, i think there is something wrong with me, this problem has got me really upset, should i just give up on boys, im really confused,( by the way i am 15 years old).

2006-11-17 23:25:10 · 14 answers · asked by LYDZII3 2 in Singles & Dating

about it's personality; cycology; thinking ability

2006-11-17 23:24:09 · 10 answers · asked by lavesh saini 1 in Marriage & Divorce

best answer gets best answer yay

2006-11-17 23:23:35 · 24 answers · asked by Marilyn F 1 in Other - Family & Relationships