Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

How would you react if you were kind of shy and always sat alone in the back on a class and one day a girl in the class just comes to sit next to you? (She's 4ish years younger than you 5'4'' blue eyes reddish brown hair, skinny, cute, nice, intelligent. You've worked her before. for basically more details (my other questions asking something slightly different: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuconxCRW.922MNfPEkn1RPzy6IX?qid=20061117234650AAHGCWJ

2006-11-17 19:33:29 · 5 answers · asked by :) 3 in Singles & Dating

She is 50 years old.She has been smoking for 25 years.She smoke (average) half a packet daily.I have tried almost everything but I didn't convince her at all...

2006-11-17 19:32:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Any guys here got any tips on how to act,treat or behave around a woman so that you are constantly on her mind?

2006-11-17 19:32:43 · 14 answers · asked by Nobigdeal 1 in Singles & Dating

I like a girl who really like books. I absolutly hate them. I just need to know a good book and aouther so i can talk to her about them. Plz give me something.

2006-11-17 19:28:54 · 17 answers · asked by help plz!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 19:28:04 · 16 answers · asked by preeti a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

About a year ago, my fiancee passed away. Since then ive been griving and mourning her loss. We never even had our first fight heh. I've tried to go out on dates and get over the loss. But, all i end up having is meaningless sexual encounters. Nothing feels right, sometimes the climax is so hollow its completly lost before anything. I feel almost guilty of making love with someone i dont love or charish in anyway. Understand that im not bringing home countless women into my bed, I've only had intercourse twice since my fiancee passed away. But still, i ended two relationship just because i couldnt share their feelings in or outside of bed. My question is, Is it just too early to try dating, and have physical relationships? Or do you think i should keep trying to move on with my life? Thanks everyone for replying in advance.

2006-11-17 19:27:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 19:25:26 · 13 answers · asked by ill shoot an arow thru ur heart! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 19:25:03 · 3 answers · asked by lucky 1 in Singles & Dating

Long story short. I absolutely love this girl. It is not some HS romance, this is the real deal. Things have gotten weird lately but through no real fault of either of us. Just circumstances (anyone who wants more detail can read any or all of my Q's). I am going to write something for her, a letter but may read it in person, not going to rush it b/c I want to make sure it includes everything I have to say. My question is (and I am very serious, this means that much) anyone willing to proof read a very rough draft and make suggestions? I am not very good at this relationship stuff, and honestly she's not great at it either, but I don't think many people get an opportunity at this like we have and if I'm going down, I'm going down SWINGING!

2006-11-17 19:22:45 · 6 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 19:20:56 · 18 answers · asked by Erica Joyce 2 in Singles & Dating

i've been in a long distance relationship for 9 months now and all we have to keep our relationship going are long chats in the weekend and some texts and short calls during the week.last week my bf got a second job which took our chats away cos he has to work then.btw he took the 2nd job for me.anyway,i feel like he is slipping through my fingers.i feel an emotional distance.he used to send me a text everyday and now he doesnt.actually i have had no text from him since tuesday.he sent me one on thursday but thats after i sent him one.i dont know if i am being paranoid but i have never felt this way before.i feel threatened and insecure.i love my bf to tatters.what do i do? please tell me what to do.please.

2006-11-17 19:20:48 · 12 answers · asked by niambie 1 in Singles & Dating

Can a Catholic chaplain (a lay person, not a priest or deacon) conduct a wedding? If so, would it have to be a Catholic ceremony?

2006-11-17 19:20:29 · 5 answers · asked by Pook 4 in Weddings

okay, I was out with my friends last night and i met this guy who's a friend of someone that I know. anyway, we were seriously flirting, and i thought that he was really sweet (the whole combination- smart, funny, kind, cute...). Small problem. My friend claims that he's got a girlfriend, but I don't really know if she's jealous or being honest here, because he wasn't paying any attention to her. Please help me! what should I do next time I see him? Only serious answers please.

2006-11-17 19:20:11 · 6 answers · asked by jemm4president 3 in Singles & Dating

If a guy you dont really know but have made an effort to chat up tries to get your attention sometimes by calling out "hey" when you walk by, even if you obviously didnt see him, does that mean he is attracted to you? Cuz I try to say hi and smile when I see him and I'm pretty sure he knows I like him.

2006-11-17 19:18:18 · 10 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 19:16:05 · 3 answers · asked by JOSEPH J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I wanted to see if there were any on here that has had experience with committing an Adult into forced treatment by appealing to a judge.

My sister is 43 years old. I know she can not stop drinking on her own. She feels she doesn't have a problem. She has 4 kids 18 yr old(moved due to this), 16 year old(is staying with a friend and wants to live there), 14 year old and a 3 year old. She is living with her bf/husband. I say that because they aren't legally married. Been together 8 years (3 yr old his).

My dad is an alcoholic who stopped drinking 4 yrs ago about. He drank for 35 years. Truly is a vicious cycle that my family is in. We have to do something because I know how much pain and anger those kids are holding. I was that kid. My entire family is in agreement to this. This makes me cry even typing this, however I'm not sure what else we can do. We have tried speaking with her and she won't hear of it.

Any responses that hopefully are helpful are welcome.

2006-11-17 19:15:39 · 4 answers · asked by Pam 5 in Family

he watches me and undress s me and i 16 but i grew up with that. it hurts and he hold me down. and when i get tears in my eyes he laughs and enjoys it wat can i do. i tried running away and leaving but he never stops watching me.

2006-11-17 19:14:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy, but sometimes I feel he acts awkward around me or does not know what to say to me. I wish he wasn't like that, and sometimes I get a bad vibe. Like he always acts serious..

2006-11-17 19:12:34 · 8 answers · asked by 1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 19:09:12 · 1 answers · asked by Sandy J 1 in Family

My friend has asked a question.... It is as follows....
"" today's temp is 0 degree. it is reported that tomorrow will be twice as cold as today. what will be the temperature tomorrow.?""
I need ur help to answer.....
PLLLLLLEEEEAAAAASEEE HELP ME

2006-11-17 19:09:09 · 12 answers · asked by D-Generation x 1 in Friends

I lost my virginity at 17 and only done it with the same guy a couple of times. I'm 21 now and have not had sex for over 3 years. Does my vagina tighten up? My now boyfriend thinks I'm a virgin and if I have sex again is he able to notice that I'm not a virgin if I don't tell him?

2006-11-17 19:06:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this girl in one of my classes keeps repeating my answers in class. her friend told me that the girl likes a person to be ken and also told me that I should try harder in class. Her friend also keeps telling people my friends that I got rejected by the girl, who I still like after she rejected me a month ago but it was a wussy way to ask her out. I knew she liked me a long couple months ago but I've tried moving on but that has not worked out. so what should I do?

2006-11-17 19:03:49 · 5 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Singles & Dating

Ok so my mom does foster care (which i think is great) and my sister just had a baby. But when i go out in public with my mom and her 6 kids (all 7 and under) and brand new grand baby...EVERYONE stares at me like their mine and gives me these almost rediculous looks. My mom tells me just to deal with it but its easier sad then done. Its almost rediculous what people think of these days. I understand there are young people out there with babys but that doesnt mean we all have one. I just want to know if anyone has any advice on how to deal with it other then ignoring it? theres not much more to do then wear a shirt that says "their not mine" haha i feel like i almost have to, to quit getting the looks i get...any help?

2006-11-17 19:01:14 · 5 answers · asked by Alli B 1 in Family

Theres a girl that i really like. We are both 15. Its not like me to be childish and not talk to a girl or get nervous around one. All my friends come to me for adivse on girls. But I cant talk to this one girl. I dont know why but I just cant. So can someone PLEASE let me know what to say or questions i could ask??

2006-11-17 18:57:52 · 12 answers · asked by help plz!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I'v been talking to his boy that I met since I was about 12 or 13 and I found out that I really like him. He tells me alot of things and one day he told me he was looking for this girl that moved away when he was little. He told me he just relized that he loves her. Like a good friend, I told him it was cool that he found someone he loved and I'd help him find her. That was a year ago and we havent talked about that since. I've kind of gotten over it, but is it ok that im still heartbroken?

2006-11-17 18:57:41 · 6 answers · asked by De DE 2 in Singles & Dating

my grand ma is not well
u can help me by parying for her
please do help

2006-11-17 18:57:03 · 10 answers · asked by silent rain 2 in Family

.. how do i tell to my parents that i have falling grades?..
we had an agreements that if i will have falling grades specialy in major subjects. i will not join the extra co-collicular activities in school..
im hesitate to tell them,, bacause the dance contest is coming.. i want to join the contest.. coz,,that is my dream, to join a dance contest in sch. its not just a little contest..
.. pls help me.. how could i tell them?..
i promise that i will improve my grades in nxt quarter..

2006-11-17 18:56:51 · 13 answers · asked by paula 1 in Family

Ok, i found out about 5 months ago that my ex bf cheated on me and now hes engaged and when we talk it feels like he doesnt care about me at all anymore and I used to think he was my best friend and it really hurts to go from loving him as much as I did and him being my only and best friend to finding out that he cheated and now I cant even trust him as a friend. My question is, how long is this gonna hurt? Its been so long, I thought the pain would've been gone by now but its not. So if you can tell me any way of getting rid of the pain would really be appreciated. And I've seen people say that finding somebody else will make it feel better, but I'm Very shy with guys so finding somebody else isnt really that easy for me.

2006-11-17 18:56:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

k i have a friend that fifteen and she has never had a boyfriend
and its so weird because she is not ugly at all !!!!
shes really pretty !!!!!
what should she do or wat do you think is wrong with her!!!!

2006-11-17 18:55:31 · 21 answers · asked by put a smile on =) 1 in Singles & Dating

I thought that this would be cute do get to know some of you i'm fixing to go to sleep and in the morning i'll check them. I just want to see if i can get tons of them it doesnt matter what you write but you can be sure the best one gets more points

2006-11-17 18:55:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating