Theres a girl that i really like. We are both 15. Its not like me to be childish and not talk to a girl or get nervous around one. All my friends come to me for adivse on girls. But I cant talk to this one girl. I dont know why but I just cant. So can someone PLEASE let me know what to say or questions i could ask??
2006-11-17 18:57:52 · 12 answers · asked by help plz!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay, you need to stop worrying about whether this girl is a potential girlfriend when you talk to her. Rather, whenever you are going to talk to her, try to think of having a potential firned, rather than a potential girlfriend. This should help with the nerves issue. As for things to say, people love to talk about themselves, so ask her about her interests and hobbies, and pay attention to what she says, so that you can enquire about that thing in a later conversation (this proves to her that you're genuinely interested in what she has to say). For example, if you ask her about her hobbies and she tells you she likes movies, then the next time you see her then you could say, "hey, have you seen (insert movie title)?" and if she has by some small miracle seen that movie, you've now got at least five minutes of conversation right there. Good Luck, try to be confident and remind yourself that you rock!!! :)
2006-11-17 19:08:30 · answer #1 · answered by jemm4president 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Help, This girl is very special to you. That's why you are having problems trying to talk to her and asking question. The best thing you can do, is the next time you see her, go up to her and tell her, she looks great today.Then she will start talking to you,and when you both are almost none talking, ash her if she would like to go out for a movie and pizza afterwards.Be a gentleman and treat her like a lady, and open all doors for her. This is hardly done anymore,and a woman likes to be treated with respect. Have fun and enjoy your time with her. A Friend.
Clowmy
2006-11-18 03:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your have a friend who knows her enough to ask her to go as your date on a double date? That is perfect. It breaks the ice. What you are feeling is so common. You are not alone. Most guys feel the same but do not admit it. We used to write notes in these situations. The boy would ask the girl if she would meet him at lunch or after school for a pop. Whatever, if you do get her, do respect her. Do not ask her to do things that are disrespectful.
2006-11-18 03:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by doglas p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar experience in college. There was this girl that was just perfect.. I mean really perfect.. Like you, I never had this problem until now...
I never did approach her and my justification was that I knew she would have me "HOOK LINE AND SINKER!!!" I would have done really stupid things for her and there really wasn't anything I could have done to stop it... (it was really weird).
If you are truly feeling like I did; I suggest you let it go.. If not, then say something like " I really find you attractive; would you like to go out some time when you're available?"
From there, do what you do now..
- good luck
2006-11-18 03:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've finally met your match. I'd say you can write her a note, (that's the mature way), at least if she declines, it will be not face to face. Also, you can muster up the courage to talk to her...unless you are intimidated! You are a guy right? So you have to do the courting, not the other way around.
2006-11-18 03:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by the BABY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. It'll be fine if you just relax and talk to her. She's a human being too. Treat her like one. Don't objectify her or put her on a pedestal. Just relax and say hi.
2006-11-18 03:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't really have to ask the right questions, if ou think about it. if the situation is set up right (it doesn't even have to be by you) then you'l get your chance. just be friendly. youu don't have to pour out all your feelings the first time you talk to her. become herr friend first; then see how it goes!
2006-11-18 03:01:31 · answer #7 · answered by {hippy}[dreamer] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're both 15, if you're in the same class start a conversation about school. start with something that you have in common and work your way up
2006-11-18 06:04:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 33 i ave same problem ,i think mostli negative so be positve&go on
2006-11-18 03:01:36 · answer #9 · answered by tariq m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say u look beautiful would u go out with me?
2006-11-18 02:59:45 · answer #10 · answered by Here to Help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋