Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

I am an average 17 year old guy. for a little over a year now I have been talking with a very attractive girl. I love her so much that it hurts sometimes when I realize that she doesnt care about me in the same way. what should I do?

2006-11-17 21:13:38 · 9 answers · asked by mrfusion_89 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 21:13:03 · 2 answers · asked by persianooo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 21:12:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok . well my boyfriend who i live with has been asked to go out for his friends birthday on a night out in a different city and stay over. my problem is i dont really want him to go. His 2 friedns who he goes out with her both single and iam scared what he will get up to - his 2 friends are always really nice to me but really are a pair of dogs and i just dont no what there like when i am not around - am i being really stupid - its starting to play on my mind thinking things and i dont want to tellmy boyfriend this coz he will just say i am being stupid.....any advice

2006-11-17 21:11:43 · 21 answers · asked by Pebbles 2 in Singles & Dating

my best friend happends to be an ex bf, but i seriously think he might be gay. he is very feminine, my bfs boyfriends friend is gay and he said he think he is (can gay guys tell if another is gay? )....it really isnt a big deal but i thought id ask, what are some sure signs that someone is gay?

2006-11-17 21:10:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a moody husband who always change his mind and never settle on one idea , that day we went to the mall and I wanted to buy some stuff and he was like `` I feel sick can we go home ?`` or `` eew don’t buy this no don’t buy that its horrible lets just go back home`` last night I told him that I am going with my friend to visit a friend in another state and he said `` yea it’s a good idea go and have fun `` its 5AM now and he wake me up just to tell me that I shouldn’t go because he don’t feel so comfortable and if I go he will not forgive me WHAT SHOULD I DO I am tired of this , he always promise me and do nothing

2006-11-17 21:08:22 · 13 answers · asked by mimi ^____^ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was just curious as to what should take place first, the Engagement Party or the Bridal Shower? My fiance and I are choosing to go with an Engagement Party rather than a stag, so my family gets a chance to sit, talk and get to know him, rather than going with a stag which is more impersonal. Here is the situation: We are getting married mid Sept 07, he is American (I Canadian) and he won't be relocating here until July 07 permanently. It's customary that an Engagement Party involve both Bride & Groom and the Bridal Shower just the Bride, so I was wondering a few things. First if late June is too early for a Bridal Shower and if it would be ok to hold that prior to the engagement party? To me it makes sense to have the engagement party first, however we also wondered if we did the Engagement Party mid July, Bridal Shower mid Aug and Wedding mid Sept, if that's too "together". Any suggestions would help, either past experiences, or just knowledge of how it should go. Thanks in advance

2006-11-17 21:03:38 · 8 answers · asked by JustpassingThrough 1 in Weddings

The mom really likes me and the sister does too,but the mom thinks the age gap is to much.Is this wrong of me, Is there to much of a age gap?

2006-11-17 21:02:16 · 30 answers · asked by cutone_911 1 in Singles & Dating

the gal looks nice & friendly during a conversation. but thats all. the conversation is always initiated by the guy.now wat can we make out of this? is the gal not interested? should the guy show some more patience or should he move on? what more can a guy do to help his matter? urgent help required.

2006-11-17 21:02:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There was a time when she was beautiful. Now she looks 80 years old, weighs 80 lbs. Friends got together, I shared the advice
from an eariler question. We talked to her. She says she smokes
$200 a day of crack. Last week one of her girl friends put her in
her car, tried to take her to rehab., she jumped out ran down in the
woods and climed up a tree. She still says she peeps out the window, scared someone is coming to get her, and gets in the closet thinking someone is coming to rape her, when she smokes crack. Nothing we say seems to work. We told her at least get
help to be their for your children, which social services has taken
away, Some say she want be alive much longer.Is it too late?

2006-11-17 21:00:35 · 13 answers · asked by CODY 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a boy in my school always follow me.he is 17yrs & i'm 15yrs. he has never talked to me.but his behavior seems to have some mistake.i'm really scared . i'm not at all having any freedom.what will be his intension? why is he so?

2006-11-17 21:00:27 · 11 answers · asked by laveena 1 in Friends

Why do people don't care when you love them and can't be without you if you don't care? And, in a relationship, how maintain the balance between those two things?

2006-11-17 20:59:13 · 10 answers · asked by Sabs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-17 20:59:02 · 13 answers · asked by taken_24 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Intimacy, not the physical kind. How do I have it in my life if I don't regularly see people for an established mutual purpose? Most of my communication consists of one time exchanges, and nothing further is needed to be exchanged leaving huge gaps of downtime which I don't enjoy. Without this intimacy, I feel friendless and insecure in the world. I guess I grew up learning to depend on verbal intimacy or bonding as a buoy for self-esteem; an indicator that I was worthy to share intimate details with. I came to depend on it as a way to feel good about myself and now I have to unlearn that and find a substitute. I've gone so far as to trade sexual intimacy in hopes of some verbal kind of intimacy which didn't happen.

I feel rejected when I don't have an outlet where I can share the intimate details of the happenings in my life no matter how irrelevant or insignificant they may be to the listener's life. By sharing, I validate my existence. Am I going overboard in some way?

2006-11-17 20:58:32 · 8 answers · asked by good luck 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was just wondering why so many girls go out with jerks. I mean what is it that attracts you to them. And also why is it that some girls even when they find out they are jerks stay with them.

2006-11-17 20:58:08 · 28 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I just wanna know what are your deepest fantasies? What do guys really want? Just curious haha...maybe even use some of the ideas myself with my guy haha anyways tell me what you really really want

2006-11-17 20:56:06 · 8 answers · asked by curious 1 in Singles & Dating

or could be if you ever met!LOL! i think george d would be my friend!.... and no, i`m not sad and lonely, yes, i do have a life, yes, i do have real friends, and yes ,i probably should get out more!

2006-11-17 20:55:52 · 14 answers · asked by ginger 6 in Friends

my commonlaw husband thinks it is ok to continueously grope me. even public when he wants to run his finger across my crotch he does. it bothers me and I feel very disrespected and violated. He says I should be happy that he wants me all the time. what do you think

2006-11-17 20:54:37 · 22 answers · asked by corinne_29_ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Usually she sends me postcards and stickers, but I don't have any of those to send her.

Can anyone suggest something fun that I can add in besides a plain letter?

Thanks in advance!

2006-11-17 20:52:33 · 10 answers · asked by vintageprincess72 4 in Friends

2006-11-17 20:51:50 · 13 answers · asked by 冰晶 1 in Friends

Are they blind or something?

2006-11-17 20:50:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 15 yrs. i'm in love with a boy. but i don't know wheather he loves me . i have never told about this to him.what should i do?

2006-11-17 20:50:30 · 14 answers · asked by laveena 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy i have recently got to know has been flirting with me alot but recently he has started flirting with my friends even though he dosnt know them at all! I know he dosnt fancy them and its really confused me. This other girl, who is totally prettier than me, fancies him and he is always flirting with her now and sometimes ignores me but then others he is really flirty! Does he fancy me? Some people have said to me that he deffo does but he is really confusing me, does he like me and he is flirting with all these other girls to make me jealous? or does he not like me at all?

2006-11-17 20:49:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just asked two serious question, explaining myself clearly and some people haven't read them properly, otherwise I wouldn't get that abuse from them.
I want honesty, not abuse.

2006-11-17 20:49:55 · 13 answers · asked by Wednesday 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I went to a bar and got totally wasted. I found a hot guy and approached him and I talked with him a bit and made out with him. I told him from the start that it wasn't gonna go any farther than that and said I could stop and leave him alone if he wanted. He didn't mind and we continued. He didn't try to touch me like that or nothin.I DID NOT GO HOME WITH HIM OR HAVE SEX! When I was going he didn't ask for my number or give me his, but he told me a couple times to come back cause he was always there cause he was in a pool league.I can't get him out of my head now. Should I go back like he asked or should I believe that he might want me to come back believing he can get me to give it up? I want to go back and talk with him without being drunk.

2006-11-17 20:48:37 · 5 answers · asked by So'sYerFace 4 in Singles & Dating

should i just put my urges away or because i'm young, should i go for it?

2006-11-17 20:48:06 · 10 answers · asked by please help 1 in Singles & Dating

how can i win her friendly then tell here about my lovei want to attract her iam 16 years in a school

2006-11-17 20:47:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-17 20:46:37 · 14 answers · asked by Alex B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i am a lil bored so i thought id ask, which do you prefer....thong, granny panties, boy shorts, g-string or what i personally do "go commando".....i dont need any of you askin why does it mater, or any of that psycho babble...im just curious and bored so i thought id ask lol

2006-11-17 20:43:42 · 8 answers · asked by curious 1 in Singles & Dating

How can you love someone and use a act of love on someone
else? Does it really make a relationship better or worse?

2006-11-17 20:43:38 · 9 answers · asked by KEN DOG 1 in Marriage & Divorce