should i just put my urges away or because i'm young, should i go for it?
2006-11-17 20:48:06 · 10 answers · asked by please help 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i guess i should clear up that i'm 19 ... and that i do love her and i've been with her for 18 months. could it be i'm subconsciencly getting bored with the relationship?
2006-11-17 20:59:41 · update #1
I mean this in the nicest possible way but....GROW some balls and make a decision. By thinking this way u are being dishonest to the girl u supposedly love. If u want to hook up with this new girl...then let go of your g/f now!...if u want your g/f...then stop thinking of this new girl....Put up...shut up and make a decision!..it's not fair to your g/f or yourself..( could u live with the guilt?) thats wat u have to ask yourself...
2006-11-17 20:53:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you keep talking to the other girl you'll end up in a real mess that you know you don't want. It's real simple- either stay with your girl and leave the other one alone or dump your girl and go after the other but don't be selfish and try and keep them both... you can't have your cake and eat it to so don't even try too.
2006-11-18 05:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave the one you claim to "love" and realize that you may not currently know what true love is. If you were in love than cheating on her would never enter your mind. Don't go cheating on her though, have some class and end it before pursuing another girl.
-NmD!
2006-11-18 04:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love one girl and have a relationship with her, and if you value that relationship, you better not take chances on messing up just for a few minutes of pleasure..
you may lose what you already have..
But you knew that , did'nt you ?
2006-11-18 04:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by Lorene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First You don't love this girl a lot cause if you did you would not be thinking of another so second go for it
2006-11-18 04:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by devora k 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet you're 14 or so. I had the same problem when I was 14. you'll grow out of it believe me.
2006-11-18 04:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know how old you are, but if you really love your girlfriend then you need to stay committed to her and put the urges aside
2006-11-18 04:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by Boop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since u r young, for GOD knows how young, keep ur options open... but words of wisdom tells, "appreciate d one who has been there wif u, coz u wont wanna regret it wen she goes n never will come back..."
2006-11-18 04:54:17 · answer #8 · answered by baby devil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as your not married go for it.
2006-11-18 04:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by miltonthe12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"The grass is no more greener on the other side".
2006-11-18 04:56:07 · answer #10 · answered by strawberrysocks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋