Family & Relationships - 20 November 2006

What should i do?
there is this boy whom I suspect has got feeling for the girl I like. this girl previously told me that she just wanted to be friends. look at my previous Q. she is now shy in front of me and for some reason I feel that she looks at me more often and tries to protect me.. I do not know if it's true..

i am afraid that she might fall for that boy. what should i do? and as far as i am concerned, that boy is not a very good one.

2006-11-20 23:58:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it normal or he is an idiot???

2006-11-20 23:57:57 · 18 answers · asked by awg 2 in Singles & Dating

Her boyfriend told her she could not be friends with me anymore. Her & I have grown up together. The two of them have only been together for 6 months. She had the never to call me to tell me she can't be my friend or she will lose him. Then 30 mins. later she called back to say she would not do that to me. The point is she would make her boyfriend belive she was no longer my friend instead of stucking up for our friendship. Should I be mad at her & ignore her calls or be a hidden friend from her man?

2006-11-20 23:56:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My fiance invited a "friend" to be in our wedding. She went to dress shops with me and helped pick out a dress. She palled around with me and was going to be one of my bride's maids. Keep in mind that there are many pictures taken at weddings (she would be in a lot of them) I later found out that they had a fling b4 I came into the picture. But however when the fling took place she was not single like he was. She is a married woman and she cheated on her husband while he was having surgery! They both kept this secret from me and when I found out about it I was very angry because if I had not found out, we would have gotten married and she would be in all those wedding pictures which are not cheap. I was so upset that I called off the wedding... but however I'm still with him. What would you do if you were in a situation like this????

2006-11-20 23:55:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

What is something that someone did that clued you into you may have a stalker or bunny boiler on your hands?

Peace.

2006-11-20 23:54:42 · 5 answers · asked by -Tequila17 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 23:53:57 · 21 answers · asked by Ricardo 1 in Singles & Dating

my mum introduced me to him but when i got close to him my mum said no since he had not done anything to help in the past now i live with my step dad and i miss my dad so much but i cant get close to him he is marrried and have children but i want to be close to my dad coz i love him but am scared to destroy both families mine and my dad.please help.nimed

2006-11-20 23:53:21 · 3 answers · asked by nimed 1 in Family

Ok, I've been telling him to get out ,"Idon't want to be with you" point blank no nothing for over 2 months no kiss no hug no nada he sleeps in the same bed but that is it.Saturday I went out and he popped up and saw me w/another guy hugged up and he still is here as amatter of fact, Sunday he was cutting the grass and cleaning the yard. no kids not married together 2 yrs is he nuts or what? If it wewr me I'd be long gone.

2006-11-20 23:52:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months. We've had a bit of a whirlwind romance, he proposed to me very early on in our relationship and discussed living together etc. He couldn't bear to spend a night apart... to begin with. Now, although we still spend most evenings together I get the impression he is cooling towards me as our weekends together have become non existent - last weekend he avoided my calls and texts. So, I suggested we spend less time together - in case he feels I am taking up too much time of his - he doesn't want this! I ask him if he wants to split up - he says he loves me and doesn't want us to end. Now I'm starting to sound like the nagging girlfriend - but he's confusing me so much! I do love him to bits but I don't know where I am with him.

2006-11-20 23:52:28 · 19 answers · asked by emma j 2 in Singles & Dating

Shortest I can make it. We love each other. We know it. We've shown it. But she's afraid to move on b/c of something MAJOR in her past that is stuck between us right now. (I think I know what happened but not 100% sure) Now the more we hang out, the more...torn (?) she becomes b/c it's like she wants to get past it but she isn't ready to give up this wall she has up yet and I am the reminder it is there. So what do I do? I have seen the woman I love, and still do occasionally, but often I see this other side of her, which is fun and outgoing but unwilling to commit to anything at all in any area of her life (friends, family, me). I want to be there for her and always will be b/c we are great for each other, but how far can I go? I don't want to fall back into friend zone, I don't want a sex buddy, either, and I certainly don't want to push her away nor do I want to let her get too far away. Anyone else at a loss? Thought I'd also say she is worth every ounce of energy I have in me.

2006-11-20 23:52:13 · 8 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 23:50:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Just Motivation and inspiration.

2006-11-20 23:50:01 · 14 answers · asked by pravin 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-20 23:49:31 · 14 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

I saw the television advert shown on channel 4, friday night and I’m worried my mother who’s terribly middle class and proper will most likely ask me about it at some point in the future… she’s very into “keeping up with the joneses” and unfortunately may feel she’s missing out on something, she loved ‘cillit bang’ and may develop a similar curiosity to this ‘new’ wonder product.

Is there a tactful way to explain its uses without causing offence?

2006-11-20 23:47:58 · 22 answers · asked by muppet 4 in Singles & Dating

Would they say good things?
Could they say things about you that aren't complimentary?

2006-11-20 23:47:09 · 16 answers · asked by JoJoCieCie 5 in Friends

Iam good to my children love them give them everything they need money, support, love ,spoile them but allway take their mother side in case of problem betwene me and my wife it normal or not i don`t drink nor sm,ok, hard working man , but not lucky why?

2006-11-20 23:46:19 · 11 answers · asked by Ridha D 1 in Family

okay basic break-up advice. I have been with this guy for a one and a half years. We rent a house together. He is quite a bit older than me to. Well he really loves me but I do not. I care about him but that is about it. He wants to get married and have kids but i do not. There is a lot underlying the situation that I can't get into much detail but in the end I feel really guilty and have stayed with him the past few months because of that. We do rent a house together and have two dogs. The majority of my furniture is in the house. I want to break up with him because it is not fair for him or me when he does have a chance finding someone who will love him the way he wants. I also want to do it like right now but also do not because of the holidays just around the corner. Any advice on this situation. Thanks

2006-11-20 23:45:32 · 16 answers · asked by dmwilson91 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm married for 13 yeas and my husband always had a weird sexual fantasy: it pleases him to s*hit in my mouth when we are making love. He says the only way to get him horny is seeing me eating his s*hit. I personally think it's kinda disgusting but as he claims that's the only thing that keeps him satisfied I always end up doing what he wants. However, I know that it's not a very normal bevaiour. Should I stop accpeting that or evertything is allowed in sex?

2006-11-20 23:45:15 · 51 answers · asked by Myself 1 in Singles & Dating

its probably just some computer based nonsense...i had this question removed for 'Adult Content' yesterday.....'Whats in a kiss?'......i think they proves they dont look ...what do you think?...Come on Y! police...please come and answer your customers....;0)

2006-11-20 23:45:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

get back at her, she grabbed the hose and sprayed me and I was soaking wet, should I do something to get back at her.

2006-11-20 23:44:54 · 9 answers · asked by Abused Tampon 1 in Friends

2006-11-20 23:44:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been divorced for 5 yrs, we are still friends. He lives 4 houses down from my parents. He is at their house almost every day or every other day. When holidays come around my parents feel compelled to invite him. I guess that's fine except if I want to bring by current bf or maybe someone new. I feel sorry for him because his family is in another state so he doesn't see them much. He's sort of adopted my family. My parents arn't real fond of my current bf because of our ups and downs over the past few yrs. So they would like it if I got back w/my ex, because we do have a son together. But it gets to be a hassle everytime the holidays come along. Don't want to hurt feelings.

2006-11-20 23:44:13 · 11 answers · asked by jeep 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-20 23:41:23 · 41 answers · asked by Raj 1 in Family

what will you do if you feel that you need love ??????especially if you had already run out from a non-successful relation ship????

2006-11-20 23:41:20 · 5 answers · asked by la chica simpatica 1 in Singles & Dating

too much pea-nut butter what should i do?

2006-11-20 23:40:30 · 19 answers · asked by rchrdsn_rymnd 1 in Singles & Dating

The microcosm of a home is an ideally perfect environment for a child to grow and develop. But an image of paradise can also be a picture of a living hell for children who suffer abuse, violence and neglect from the one who are supposed to take full care of them. All abnormalities at this stage reflect later in various form in an adult life of a person. If for example someone is brought up without a father, while another without a mother would they become very different people in their adult lives, and in what way would their childhood circumstances make them to be different from other people with normal upbringing?

2006-11-20 23:40:12 · 3 answers · asked by Shahid 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had been dating this girl, 29 y.o. for about 3 weeks. We hung out about 5 times. Things went 'all the way' after the 3rd time. Things seemed to be ok between us, except we hadn't really talked about our outside dating lives much. I wasn't sure if she was seeing anyone else or not. I wasn't/ am not seeing anyone else yet. Anyway, the Sunday before last, we texted a little, and I jokingly, and with a smiley face in the text called her a player. She responded 'I'm not a player. wtf?'. I texted back and said I meant nothing by it, and told her she seemed a little sensitive. Did I possibly touch a nerve? I haven't heard from her now since last Sunday. It's been almost 10 days. I've tried to contact her several times, and have heard nothing in response. I admit, I was a little turned off when she drunkenly traded clothes with a guy friend in the bathroom the last time we hung out! I was trying to play it cool and not be upset. Was I wrong to call her a player?

2006-11-20 23:40:12 · 9 answers · asked by mu 4 in Singles & Dating

and who would you have to ask to get your answer?

2006-11-20 23:39:38 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 23:38:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just ask if he whould ever see us getting back to gether and i told him i didnt want to that it was just a question. he just said see if being polite in saying that we arnt ment for each other makes me a snob then it just proves my point.if you think im a snob i can live with it.i wrote it to let you know that writing me in such hopes of creating a realtionship is futile. what does he mean

2006-11-20 23:38:02 · 4 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating