Family & Relationships - 20 November 2006

I told my new bf a little lie. I hate my surname so much that i gave my mother marriage name instead and said that was my name. He found out anyway and he started questioning me about it. Then i started to get confused when he asked my sisters surname and i hesitated for what seemed like minutes and i didnt know what to say so i said she lied about her name aswell,and i dont know why i said that but it was so stupid and i feel so humiliated now,he's probably thinking jeez she dont even know her sisters surname and she must be hiding something(he's a cop which makes me feel more bad)i cant stop thinking about how stupid i been,how do i get over this or explain myself better?

2006-11-20 19:48:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I meet a kind man, he is an africa-american. We chat warmly online. He invites me to go out with him this weekend. Can you show me some suggestions?

Thank you!

This the site we met ^_^ http://www.emilitarycenter.com/inter

2006-11-20 19:48:14 · 6 answers · asked by Linda M 1 in Friends

2006-11-20 19:48:04 · 3 answers · asked by bigboy 1 in Family

I meet a kind man, he is an africa-american. We chat warmly online. He invites me to go out with him this weekend. Can you show me some suggestions?

Thank you!

This the site we met ^_^ http://www.emilitarycenter.com/inter

2006-11-20 19:47:48 · 6 answers · asked by Linda M 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 19:46:49 · 13 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 54 well settled family, business and wealth, but from bigining i am not satisfied with my marriage life. From last 6 months, I have been getting pleasure from my secretary (36-Married). I only gets oral from her. She is very good at dirty oral and i am enjoying it. Pls tell whether she is doing for money or other else? I am also feeling bad abt my wife if she will come to know. Pls advise

2006-11-20 19:44:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what can be the purposes from social,emotional,physical or anyother (please mention) point of view. is the marriage is only the right way or the perfact way of fullfilling the purpose as you have wriiten in the answer.

2006-11-20 19:44:02 · 7 answers · asked by KrishanRam(Jitendra k) 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so I agreed to be the maid of honor for my friend, but all of the other bridesmaids live on the otherside of the country and I don't know them at all. My friend is a bit of a diva and I know she expects a nice bridal shower and bachlorette party, but I can't afford to pay for everything by myself. Normally, the other bridesmaids would help out at least alittle, but they won't be around until a few days before the wedding. Do I hit them up for money anyway, or go into major debt just to keep the bride happy? I already have a shower planned & invites have been sent. I'll be spending about $500. Am I on the hook for a bachlorette party too??? Any cheap suggestions???

2006-11-20 19:43:30 · 13 answers · asked by sassysugarchef 3 in Weddings

I'm dating this guy, but it seems like I'm the one taking the initiative to see him and make plans. last time, I saw him he said "i'll call you, later" and laughed at me? Now, he hasnt called me in over a week. He called me however yesterday, I didnt pick up. Then he texts me 4 hours later,.. saying "goodnight"... should I sit back and let things unfold, or keep steppin'?

2006-11-20 19:42:45 · 10 answers · asked by 1212 2 in Singles & Dating

my best friend is a guy everyone says we are better togther than him & His girlfriend i do like him && sometimes i think he likes me she doesnt do anything i think he is only going out wth her for her looks what do i do i no i shouldnt like him but i dont no .. & also i still kinda liek my Ex & i think he likes me hoe do i no he still likes me ???????????? thanks xoxoxoxoxo

2006-11-20 19:40:27 · 13 answers · asked by Sexcaii 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 19:39:30 · 27 answers · asked by flavorlicious 2 in Singles & Dating

Since i was 5 or 6 years old if i'm not mistaken,i have a sudden interest in either watching tv that shows dramas or movies that has a hero performing CPR on the heroine to revive her back to life either due to drowning,asphixiation,heart attack,etc. until now.I also loves to read medical books with CPR illustrations(female as the victim) when i go to the library.Sometimes i did mouth-to-mouth resuscitation and chest compressions on my wife for fun.My wife does admit that i'm kinda weird for choosing this as a fetish but later on she does'nt mind at all.She said she love it to since she get used to it for quite a long time.I do worry if i might broke her ribs or even interupt her normal heart rythm while doing chest compressions on her but so far she's ok.Seriously i love her so much and really don't want her to get hurt just because of my weird fetish.Is this something normal for a men to have such a fetish?If it's normal/not normal,can you guys tell me what's the logic for such?

2006-11-20 19:38:47 · 10 answers · asked by georgiasnakemaroon 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-20 19:38:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really, really miss a guy I met on here a while back ago. I wish things could have been different for us. Do you feel me?

2006-11-20 19:38:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 19:36:53 · 11 answers · asked by SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-20 19:36:29 · 18 answers · asked by ibrahim m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How to judge your life partner?

2006-11-20 19:34:13 · 6 answers · asked by shikha s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have to take some money back from parent up to 15K(Indian rupees).Father has given me the check.As they are not doing well,and having some health problem,i have not deposited the check and once talking on phone to them,I told,i will deposit the check later,once they will back to there home town after getting well,so they will not fall in money crash.My wife is short tempered,and there are many occasion,when she have abused me by verbal/physical,she beats my 2.5 years old kid,when i try to oppose her.I was thinking how to say about not depositing the check to her, so she will not go in the same abusive talk.last night i was thinking how to tell to herabout this,she asked me about check,i don't wanted to tell lie in the relation so,i told her what i did. I was aware that,for this,she will be difficult and it takes me lot of time to convince her.She asked me why i have not taken her permission.I did this,to relief my parents for money related worries.She abused me,please suggest.

2006-11-20 19:33:39 · 5 answers · asked by yjph 2 in Family

We've had this issue before when I found out he was lying about another girl and he didn’t tell her about me and I logged into his name to find the truth... The only bad thing to him was my violating his privacy, "trust" but he eventually admitted he should've told the girl the truth about me... Then a year later he says something to me that’s not right about another woman and in my heart I know he is lying but he's very strict on his privacy... But doing so breaks our bond/promise even if he's breaking his... However, I know if I logged in I'd know the truth because of him lying before... I did it and my friends say they would but his co-workers/friends/ said it's an immediate termination of our relationship no matter what he did to me I should never do something like that... (I found out the truth and it broke us apart but I needed to know what more people thought about this situation).

What would you have done? Would you need to know the truth by logging in or try to trust him

2006-11-20 19:31:54 · 15 answers · asked by enchantedstellar 2 in Singles & Dating

I am female and live in Africa, additional details about me can be obtained once u agree 2 be my friend.

2006-11-20 19:30:33 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is really going on. they act like wild animals sometimes. ive been around enough men in my life not to freak out when i see one. i mean where is the self control? its a shame that men are like wild animals. its a shame. sex is important but acting like a dog in heat is just to much. its natural i know some of you will say. but in my opinon acting like a wild animal is just ridiculous.

2006-11-20 19:30:05 · 12 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

my soon to be exhusband keeps lieing to our doughter saying he will come see her than he dont show up and she takes it out on me she is only 4 and she dont understand that i did not do it

2006-11-20 19:29:02 · 5 answers · asked by tamiwalker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not telling you my opinion(but trust me, I have one)....go on....vent that spleen-in either direction!

2006-11-20 19:28:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to talk to her want to say my feelings.but shy nature and fear of rejection prevents me.sometimes i feel for suicide.im rally very crazy.plz help

2006-11-20 19:26:28 · 2 answers · asked by sexy 1 in Singles & Dating

I am currently separated from my husband, soon to be divorced. I am, a "lieing, cheating, whore" in his eyes, although he is the one that got caught by me, naked in bed with a woman who was also naked.(says they didnt have sex, so its not cheating) anyway, he writes letters and text messages me about 3 to 10 times a day stating how much he loves me, wants me, etc. I, on the other hand have a difficult time understanding how he can possibly call this love when he calls me those things I mentioned above, at the same time he claims his love for me... hmm, I think someone needs to re- define what Love is, for me. Better yet, for him!

2006-11-20 19:25:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have two best friends we all look about as different as can be but if I do say so myself we are all pretty attractive. My husband likes short girls with dark skin just like my friend *Terri her husband likes tall/ willowy girls just like my friends *Sarah and her husband likes blonde small curvey girls just like me. We are all so jealous of each other and think our husbands think the other one is prettier. It's actually ridiculous but what I am wondering is do most men tell their wives that they actually prefer other body types or haircolors? It's weird that all of ours did. We all knew each other and our husbands knew all of us. So why did they pick us if we weren't the "type" they wanted??? My husband says it is my personality .. but why didn't he "try" with my friend first if that is what he is most attracted to. Ladies do you sometimes feel jealous when your girlfriends are around your husband not that anything will happen you just want him to think you are prettier. Just curious

2006-11-20 19:24:37 · 7 answers · asked by lovealabamagirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

As i stated he is married, and i said i would be his friend throughout his deployment. I didnt say i was going to interfere with the marriage when he is back home. That is his decision not mine & I wont be the cause of any issues then. But I promised no matter what i would be his friend throughout the deployment, I do not bring up love, relationships or anything of the sort right now he has enough to worry about and handle without some emotional mess added to it. Do you think that its ok to stay friends during this time as long as i am sure to keep the emotions in check?

2006-11-20 19:23:53 · 2 answers · asked by sweetkisz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When a woman gets a cold she can still hold her own, and look after the children, cook the dinner, buy the shopping, clean the house, and still go to work....she wins hands down on every level when she is feeling under the weather.......but here's the thing right.....when a guy has a cold, he behaves like he's dying, he needs a soother, or even the nurse......why is that?.....why do guys turn into little children who need their foreheads rubbed, and looking after when they have the slightest sniffle........do they like playing this card for attention or what?...........

2006-11-20 19:20:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 19:19:31 · 13 answers · asked by dont_kknow 1 in Friends

2006-11-20 19:19:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce