Family & Relationships - 20 November 2006

both of them are willing.both of them are well placed and well educated. children are also doing well in thier fields. friendship is known to the spouses. no sex is involved.

2006-11-20 18:12:00 · 19 answers · asked by andrews 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-20 18:10:15 · 13 answers · asked by fm_aqua 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Who do you love so much that you would do anything for them, unconditionally.?

2006-11-20 18:09:36 · 25 answers · asked by Dani S 1 in Singles & Dating

if the guy you live with insists in giving single coworkers ride home then has different additude towards you is there some thing wrong

2006-11-20 18:07:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am the wife of a man who plays in a band. We are not young (middle aged) He has cheated on me many many times in our 12 years of marriage, we are not living together at the moment because of this. However, we do just about everything together. Really, nothing has changed except that we have seperate houses. I will never be able to trust him, he has proven that. I know he will never be faithful. The good thing is, he helps me when things need fixing around the house, we go on vacations and he is not selfish with his finances. So, what do I do? As much as I can't stand the fact that I can't trust him at all, I am just as afraid to let him go completely. Why? I guess because I know I can count on him when I really need him. But is this any reason to accept this situation and keep doing what we're doing? Help, someone, please, what would you do if you were me?

2006-11-20 18:06:14 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-20 18:05:12 · 8 answers · asked by chinnu 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 17, just broken up with my 23 yr old bf last week.We'd known eachother for a year, were together for 4months & it was a serious long-distant relationship.I ended it cos of our age gap which would produce problems like him wanting to be married sooner than i'd like, him not seeing the need for me to go out and party since he'd been through it all already. I'm a very social person, which clashes with him because he is Extremely jealous, so I totally restricted my livliness for him which frustrated me. And yet, I thought we loved eachother..he was funny, nice etc..we could talk for hours (though mainly I guess he did the talking about stuff which I couldn't comment further on- clash of common interests, but we'd still have intelligent discussions).I'm not sure if I made the right decision to end the relationship because of all that-with the main reason being I've started to like this other guy my age.My ex now wants me back..but I'm goin out with the other guy 2moro. I feel guilty.

2006-11-20 18:05:05 · 8 answers · asked by hegimony1 1 in Singles & Dating

i lost my only grandmother 5 month 2 weeks ago. Now My dad is dead ! What th hell do i do!

2006-11-20 18:04:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-20 18:02:50 · 14 answers · asked by bonto 3 in Singles & Dating

and what I got after marriage was lies, tricks to keep me under control..., threats of killing and suicide..emotional, verbal and physical abuse, I tried to make things work out...but no use...even I wished to wait for baby for a year as I was not sure about things working out between me and my husband...but was tricked into pregnancy too.....Now I hate everybody there and have been at parents house from 3 months and want a divorce ..mutual one without any fuss...he wants me back but I cant tolerate it anymore...can you get a divorce without going to the court?

2006-11-20 18:01:52 · 22 answers · asked by curious 1 in Marriage & Divorce

(He Acts like he likes you but but 2 yrs go by and nothing But Games

2006-11-20 18:01:25 · 16 answers · asked by Tasha B 1 in Friends

2006-11-20 18:01:21 · 7 answers · asked by paige88 1 in Singles & Dating

stragest.. most daring..funnest...wildest..whateva..just lokking for some fun ideas... mine was driving during rush hour.. i was driving and she just climbed rite on top... took off her top and slid up her skirt... fun fun fun.. gotta lotsa looks... thank god it was b4 cell phones

2006-11-20 17:59:12 · 11 answers · asked by NONAME 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

A 14 year-old girl thought she had a perfect life. A perfect boyfriend, perfect grades, everything was perfect. That is... until that night: she was going for a moonlite ride with her 2 best friends and her boyfriend. Her parents didn't want her to go because her boyfriend, who was driving, seemed drunk. She begged and pleaded to go, until her parents gave in. She thanked them and they drove off. Later, The girl notice that they were at 70 mph on the hywy. She tried to get her bf's attention, but they kept going faster. the girls screamed and cried, trying to get him to stop... but they crashed. The girl woke up in the emergency room, and was told her friends were killed, along with both the people in the car they crashed into. she wanted one last request for her own dying hours, to apologize to the other familybut the nurse refused. The girl then died. The doctor asked why the nurse didn't grant her request. She said "The other people were her parents."

Now THAT'S sad...

2006-11-20 17:57:17 · 21 answers · asked by The cake that was a Lie 2 in Singles & Dating

if he really likes me like he says......i dont think he would wait that long..when he has daily internet access...im not a drama queen but im a realist and ...if hes fine without making contact for that long and im dying inside then i should forget him right?.. 2 months is too long for me...we were supposed to "keep in touch"..but hes good at keeping me wrapped around his finger...

2006-11-20 17:55:01 · 14 answers · asked by Jessie 1 in Singles & Dating

Can hypnosis be used to lower someone's inhibitions? I'm thinking of trying it on my piano teacher (who I have a crush on) She's 22 and I'm 18. She has been hypnotized before and says she is really succeptable. I've been studyign hypnosis for about 3 years and think I can get her under fast. Should I try this? I think there might be somem chemistry between us but so far she is too proffessional to do anything. If i got her under I would ask her how she felt and then make my move. Any advice?

2006-11-20 17:53:17 · 13 answers · asked by danielnastenito 1 in Singles & Dating

I am being courted by a person who was once married and had his marriage annulled. He had had several relationships after that and now he is 45 years old. I am not sure how serious he could get but for me, at this age of mine, if he is the one and is serious enough, i believe I am ready for him. But then I want to know if he is really serious about this. How would I know if he is really in love with me while professing his love thru emails, text messages, and some usual chats.

2006-11-20 17:52:44 · 6 answers · asked by Julianne Marie L 1 in Singles & Dating

anal sex, can it be stopped when married

2006-11-20 17:50:17 · 4 answers · asked by mischellebeck 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been together 4 years. 1 baby. He talks of marriage. But I don't like his porn habit. It's so sneaky (while I'm sleeping, showering, away) It's always teens, hot young models. We're both in our 30's. I've gained weight from the preg I'm now 143 lbs. at 5'4" 34 DD. but even when I was in super shape from stripping, it was always young girls on the web. In the time we've been together, we've both gained weight, and he's fatter than me. His porn habit has me feeling angry, hurt, fat, old, ugly. We've talked about it. He says it's an addiction. And I've tried the tit-for-tat game. It doesn't work. He doesn't care what I do online as long as I'm not chatting or on some date site. I can't cancel the internet, because I'm doing online schooling. But I want him to stop. Of course he won't look at porn with me, I've tried. Foreplay has long since been over. I don't even get kissed anymore, except occasional closed mouthed kisses. What do I do?

2006-11-20 17:49:52 · 12 answers · asked by manywarhoops 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-20 17:49:39 · 21 answers · asked by J3Buckets 2 in Singles & Dating

she likes me so i would just say yes normally but the catch is I hang out with my friends family a lot so im thinking it might complicate things somehow, i dont know any one else been in this situation.

2006-11-20 17:48:22 · 6 answers · asked by Ness 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 17:47:22 · 12 answers · asked by sam 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 17:46:31 · 7 answers · asked by jay 2 in Friends

this older lady... she is great in the sack and has lots of money for me to spend... i get to drive her nice cars and stay at her nice house and stuff... problem is she is married and her husband, who knows about us and is okay with it.. is now hitting on me. he says since i stay in his house and drive his cars that i gotta give it up to him.. i really like livng the lifestyle.. but doing it with a dude...i dunno... what do ya think

2006-11-20 17:46:19 · 4 answers · asked by NONAME 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-20 17:46:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-20 17:44:52 · 5 answers · asked by sam 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prostitute. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me I mesgd tht i was with my parents n was very sick n not on date with any guy but he didnt believe me n sent abusive mesgs. When next day 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me. Now he doesnt even look at me considering me to be a cheap gurl . Its been 6-7 days he stopped contacting me. DO U THINK HE WILL MESG OR CONTACT ME AGAIN ???

2006-11-20 17:44:42 · 17 answers · asked by saikiena 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a belief that my mother in law teaching her daughter who is my wife. Me and my wife have two kids and seperated. I was asking my wife about her intentions in the future and her mother was also there. Her mother could not hold herself from stating that she(her daughter) doesn't need man anymore because she had what she needed from man. I was stunned by it. Why does mother tell this to her daughter? She doesn't want her daughter to commit to any relationship or what is going on. My wife lives with my mother in law. Somebody told me about her belief about 4 years ago and I did not believe the person who told me this. But now i have heard it myself so i cannot say that i did not hear it. Please tell me what is going on and what is best option for me. Also it is me who is trying to reconciliate with my wife for last 2 years.

2006-11-20 17:44:41 · 9 answers · asked by mrPablo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys, if a girl flirted with you and you kinda liked her, would you assume she liked you?

2006-11-20 17:44:22 · 9 answers · asked by your wonderwall 5 in Singles & Dating

Here's the long and short of it:

A few years ago I became great friends with one of my co-workers.
He got married, and I started hanging out with him and his wife. She had a best friend who was away at college but about to graduate. After our first meeting I really began to like her. Not so much and infatuation, but just really taken by her.
She graduated college and moved home that summer. We talked and they tried and tried to hook us up.
The only time my true feelings came out was when I got drunk but other then that I was too scared to mess up the friendship.

When she gets drunk she really seems to like me too.

I just don't get why we aren't together after months of supposedly liking eachother. I've put other potential lady friends on the back burner because of this and I feel like it's hurting my love life.

I really feel like she might be the one but it seems that she may not want to be with me but doesn't want me with anyone else.

Should I just give up? HELP!

2006-11-20 17:42:40 · 13 answers · asked by Joshua T 2 in Singles & Dating