i lost my only grandmother 5 month 2 weeks ago. Now My dad is dead ! What th hell do i do!
2006-11-20 18:04:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hello sorry to hear of your losses...yes it is very hard too loose someone u love very much...It takes time and yes it does hurt very much ...but as time goes bye you will be able to except they are gone and really no way in the world you can bring them back...so what you got to do is just think of all the nice times you shared with that person and count them as being a good thing something that you were able to experience and only you and them had that very special moments...get involved with others ...go to a support group where others that are dealing with loses...I myself lost my boyfriend of 6 yrs and it hurt so much believe me I thought the sadness I had was never gonna leave
2006-11-20 18:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by blugeanie923 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grief never really goes away...time only dulls the pain, heartache, and emptiness. The only way I dealt with it was to just live my life, and enjoy it... afterall, loved ones who have passed away only want the best for you, and want you to be happy. There are times in my life where i felt i really needed them, so I just talk to them as if they were physically there. Some how I always feel that they are close by, even though I don't see them. They will always be in my heart, and their memories just a dream away. Take comfort that they are in a better place, watching and guiding you...where ever you are, and with whatever you do... Keep Strong:)
2006-11-20 18:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by wherenai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, this is a very tough time indeed for you. I feel very sorry for you, but don't worry, there's light at the end of the tunnel. I hope you have family, maybe husband and children? If they are supportive you'll feel much better in no time. The wound never heals completely but it won't stay painful very long. When I was grieving I felt that walking in the sunshine and fresh air made me feel better. Don't let grieving turn into a depression, fight it. Your grandma and your dad are praying for you, talk to them and ask them for strength. Good luck, God Bless!
2006-11-20 18:20:42 · answer #3 · answered by jondavesnowy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take from someone who has been to so many funerals:
I have lost my dad, all my grandparents, close uncles, aunts, and friends. I know grief! But as much as it hurts, there are people around you who care about you and are probably sharing your grief. Do not isolate yourself. Be with the people who care about you. Im not saying to ignore the pain but there are people willing to share the pain with you. As much as it hurts, you have to go on with your life. Your dad would not want you to be miserable. I still grief about it but I think about all the happy memories and how lucky and blessed I am for what I do have like people who do care about me
2006-11-20 18:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by cutsybitsy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear about your lost. Everyone grief differently. If it helps talk to friends and family members. Time will help you heal your pain.
2006-11-20 18:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by uniqaznmeg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep living. I lost my brother,he was only 24 at the time. it never stops hurting, so I just have to keep going. It is not easy, it has been the hardest thing have ever had to do.
2006-11-20 18:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by dancinintherain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Center of all existence
help me find the way
to that sacred sanctuary
within myself,
to that precious center of my existence.
Help me discover
my place in the World--
that space where I truly belong,
that space which belongs
unconditionaly to me
Dear God,
I've wandered for so very long,
Help me find my way
home.
2006-11-20 18:10:36 · answer #7 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just grive until the nessary time 2 stopgriving ,and learn 2 move on, i feel tereble about that i hope things work out .
2006-11-20 18:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow im sorry to hear that really..it brings a tear to my eye. I didnt think this question was this serious, even tho i dont kno u i'll pray for u..but when im sad i listen to happy music but man this is bad...im sorry that i dont kno what to say : (
2006-11-20 18:23:26 · answer #9 · answered by Sweetheart88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i work, because it focuses my mind on things i can control and it keeps me busy.
they say you need some time to grieve. talk to a counselor if you have to.
each person deals with it differently. i'm sorry.
2006-11-20 18:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by dt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋