(He Acts like he likes you but but 2 yrs go by and nothing But Games
2006-11-20 18:01:25 · 16 answers · asked by Tasha B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Friends with benefits never work out. Emotions always end up getting in the way.
2006-11-20 18:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by devil's advocate 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well that's a big no no!!!!
If you decide to even have a friends with benefits you already knew from the beginning that there was going to be nothing but benefits, NOT emotions too. So now you have one of Three options. (1) You can leave this friendship and say goodbye. Because your just going to hurt your self if you continue. (2) You can continue the friendship and just ignore your own feelings. That would mean never telling him. (3) You can go to him and express your feelings to him as if you had no care in the world but him and expect a fairytale ending. But that would make your relationship under a title so be sure he's really willing to commit. Good luck.
2006-11-21 02:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by Mary Jane 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tasha, I guess it is not right to kae a relationship by taking for granted from Him. Sounds like negative one. But in your cases seems like this relationship has no direction at all. The Boy still wanna having just fun, with no intention to be serious, shown in past 2 years.
If You really wanna make this relation goin for deeper, and talk to Him, ask for real where this goin to. And when you already have the answer,you can make decision, wheter wanna keep this one or has to let it go. Good luck
2006-11-21 02:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by didi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even with the games, he is just not into you as you are into him. so walk away and give up any romantic feelings you have for him. don't contact him until you can see him only as a friend with no benefit. if not, then you may have to say bye bye bye and go find someone else who wants the same things as you want. good luck!
2006-11-21 02:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by llanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats so Hot! I fell in love with a hoe before. It didn't last long because i had to move but if i never moved i would still be with that even to this day. P.s. never ask a guy what he wants cuase he doesn't know just try and make the best of it
2006-11-21 02:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by secretsofthe end 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sit down with him and have a heart to heart. If the feeling isn't mutual then find a new man. Keep this one as a friend. Good luck!
2006-11-21 02:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by middleagedcowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are falling for him. I would say try to get out of it cos he doesnt feel the same for you. Would you like to be in a destructive relationship like that? Just stay friends & stop sleeping with him.. Youre giving him the upper hand!
2006-11-21 02:05:40 · answer #7 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That happened to me years ago. My best advice is quit the benefits all of them. If you can't try to stay away from him. If he loves you he will try to be with you in a real relationship. if he doesn't that mean he is just using you for his own satisfaction. Don't hurt yourself in those kind of relationships.
2006-11-21 02:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by speedy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what friends with benifits mean, no commitment.
2006-11-21 02:05:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he might be using you. take a good look at it all. maybe take some time off and see what happens. you need to be treated better. make sure you don't settle
2006-11-21 02:06:06 · answer #10 · answered by dt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋