Family & Relationships - 20 November 2006

is that wrong if i kiss my frend on her lips? i always kiss her on her lips, hand, neck and i hug her lovingly...! is that wrong? why these people all talking non-sence about this? why they think that me and my frend r lesbian? gals cant kiss gals? gals only can kiss guys?

2006-11-20 18:43:11 · 15 answers · asked by trish_maya99 1 in Friends

It's weird i know ,, she used the other number to sms me abt her death. She was pretending to be her aunt .. the msg was like .. m sorry ur friend killed herself coz she was robbed. i don't know what this mean ..pls help

2006-11-20 18:43:04 · 13 answers · asked by mommy2be 3 in Friends

So my problem is probably as old as time itself. Met a man and fell heads over heels in love. There was definitely a connection from the first (possibly imagined on my part). He has no feelings for me other than friendship and carries around more baggage than the Titanic could handle (ex girlfriend being his soul mate and he's been trying to get her back for the last year and a half etc). I really need to know how to let go of the pain of feeling for someone who doesn't feel for you. How not to expect anything. Making matters worse is that we work together so see each other every day. I know in my head it's all wrong but my heart doesn't want to see it that way. It's a crazy place to be because I can't be me and become this highly sensitive, not very nice person when he's around. Any advice on how to let go of this hurt and move on would be most welcome. How do I look at him as just the friend he wants to be without my heart breaking?

2006-11-20 18:42:14 · 5 answers · asked by happy.2bme 1 in Singles & Dating

He doesn't know.He's a decent, hardworking man,a bit introverted and very proud.He raised us by himself,and never remarried.I don't know what's going on.I can't ask.What should I do?What would you do in this situation?

2006-11-20 18:40:22 · 22 answers · asked by Shauna O 1 in Family

I am going to get married in one week but I don't know if it is alright to have sex with the girl after I marry.

Because they say if either the husband or wife or both are married then it will be adultery.

So if I have sex with my wife it will be adultery.

Can anyone help? Is it okay to have sex with my wife?

2006-11-20 18:35:26 · 30 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Family

Would you give one of your kidneys to save your child's life?

2006-11-20 18:34:20 · 8 answers · asked by uberkultur 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Like arms around waist
Arms around mid back
Arms around shoulder
Arms outside females arms

You tell me where arms are for friends, a crush, a girlfriend, etc.
Are hugs face to face or are they side to side hugs?

2006-11-20 18:33:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 18:32:57 · 10 answers · asked by JYOTI 1 in Family

2006-11-20 18:31:10 · 9 answers · asked by Ricky 5 in Singles & Dating

I am a teenager, I cannot drive yet and I am wondering where to ask this girl out to. I was thinking a movie but there might be some better suggestions from you guys. Just wondering.

2006-11-20 18:29:39 · 9 answers · asked by aao p 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend she's a housewife, graduate n very creative.till now she was busy with her kids, now they grownup,10 to 2 shes free n wanna to do something n earn .Is there any course which will help her.shes 31.pls advise.

2006-11-20 18:29:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-20 18:28:35 · 11 answers · asked by chinnu 1 in Friends

i have this special friend of mine who wants to talk to me on the phone. can you give any topic to have a huge conversation.? im a quiet person, so its hard for me to talk to her.. pls reply asap... ty. Godbless

2006-11-20 18:27:59 · 7 answers · asked by Nothin 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 19, she is 23. I am a driver, she is a waitress.

She is almost done with school, I am almost done with school. She plans to leave the job after school and so do I (Which will be Summer of 2007).

She is staying in-state.

Ive heard how dating co-workers can be bad...but in the case that we know that we neither will be here in under a year, is it bad to ask and see what happens?

We get along pretty great, we have never hung out outside of work yet (I've been there for 1.5 months). I think she may be interested...or maybe she just flirts with everyone.

Is age an issue?

Any other advice on this situation is appreciated!

2006-11-20 18:27:49 · 5 answers · asked by jay_k 3 in Singles & Dating

i've been married for 6yrs and have been fighting with my husband about this woman who is married and just entered my life a year ago for i felt that she is not quite honest but my husband insisted she is and even would refused to kick her out of our life even though i beged him to do so and i threatened him with divorce,he would always claim that they have nothing between them but friendship this has been going for1yr,couple months ago i found out that it was more then friendship and he admited and for having me back he asked her to get out of his life,he was the one who told me that he only hugged her twice and kissed her once on the lips and that he regret it we even went to church and he promised me there that he will never cheat on me ever again,since then he is praying every day without being embarsed which he never dd.still can't get over it even though i have to say that he was the perfect husband and the best father for our daughter,but my mind still can't explain or accept it

2006-11-20 18:25:00 · 20 answers · asked by maya7103 1 in Marriage & Divorce

met this guy at a club 3 years ago we live an hour apart. We made it clear we were not lookin for a relationship. I began to catch strong feelings for him over the years; but i have my pride. It is hard to show emotion to him. Ok so in july he told me we had to stop seeing eachother b/c he had descided to make it official with this chick near him, it hurt me bad. after that i texted him that he was the only guy i ever loved;i told him for my benefit i need to know what our relationship was about he avoided the ques and basically told me that i didn't understand that him going out with her was to do with his friends; and i never showed him signs of love. so i bowed out and said okay i care about you whatever makes you happy, 3 months go by then he messages me saying 'I want to chill with you" he kept asking we for 3 weeks i eventually went. ok so now me and him are having a relationship again even though he has a girl. what is going on?

2006-11-20 18:24:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well we've both been crushing on each other for 2 weeks now. She was going to winter formal with her friend who is also a girl. So I was going to go with friends too without a date. And ask her for a slow dance. Then give her a note telling her my feelings for her after the dance was over...

Well problem is another guy just entered the picture. Isn't that nice? I believe in the quote "All is fair, love is war" but now I'm wondering. Is she slowly getting over me? She's just started waving at me down the halls again and smiling at me at school. But I mean... ****... She's also given this guy her number and they started talking so what the hell. What do I do? Man...

I've talked to her at school so far but not over the phone. I think it's apparent that he's winning this right now. Should I try a little harder and make more communication or do girls not get over a crush in a matter of 2 weeks?

I don't know, like today she sent me a message saying " I didn't see you today "

2006-11-20 18:24:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

26 years old, single.
Living in Indonesia, likes to traveling (UK is the most favourite place that i want to visit)
Available only for ladies. Men are only available to give advice....

2006-11-20 18:22:45 · 10 answers · asked by Rockzmaniac 1 in Singles & Dating

of course not Sadie, cause

she's saving herself
(good for her yeeey!!)

but the other ones????

AND WHO DO YOU THINK HE'S GONNA PICK?

2006-11-20 18:21:51 · 9 answers · asked by chapped lips 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 18:20:32 · 20 answers · asked by fm_aqua 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I need some help and I need it ASAP! My best friend/roommate/boyfriend's birthday is Wednesday. He's turning 30. I need a gift idea.
We live in Southern California. He actually just moved here from Texas about 6 months ago - he's a newbie.
He's BIG into sports (Loves Texas football)- cooking - fishing/outdoor stuff. He likes traveling and visiting new places and seeing new things.
He was in the military and enjoys books/movies that have to with military/history/documentary stuff.

I want to get him a gift that he'll really like and it will mean something.

Any ideas?

2006-11-20 18:16:57 · 7 answers · asked by spiritsocean 2 in Friends

2006-11-20 18:16:26 · 4 answers · asked by ghetto fabolous 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I miss my boyfriend so much! We are in a LDR and only see each other about every week and a half. And we haven't dated that long but we were friends before. I think about him all the time and I want to call him and email him but I don't want to look desperate. We haven't really gotten into a pattern of calling and stuff. It seems like he's busy because he doesn't email me very often or call, yet I know he has feelings for me. I don't know if he's trying to play it cool or if he is just busy or what. Will I look desperate if I call to chat and email him? I don't want to look desperate but I miss him so much!!

2006-11-20 18:16:21 · 10 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't get it. I mean I know women who won't like it when their men check out women on the street or lust after other women, yet let their men goto strip clubs? Why?? it makes no sense! How is watching a naked women dance around you and give you a lapdance any different than askin any chick you know to take off her clothes and dance for you behind your chicks back?? (Most women would have a problem with that and consider that somewat cheating). So if they have a problem with any random chick doing it, why do they let their men goto strip clubs and have strippers entertain them knowing they are lusting after them and using them for eyecandy and not thinking of their women at home and by that putting their relationship at risk for cheating??

2006-11-20 18:15:52 · 20 answers · asked by SmartyPants82 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you feel offended if your (supposed) best friend spent $300 dollars on somebody for their birthday, but then got you nothing at all. After 8 years of friendship, when you usually spend around $100-200 on them?

2006-11-20 18:14:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

After a few encounters I realise that her girlfriend seems to be more appealing to me. She plays violin and I blow saxaphone. I've been looking for a girl with something in common, with such a musical talent whole my life. But will that just show my insincerity?

2006-11-20 18:14:21 · 4 answers · asked by Fleeting 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 18:13:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going to get married in one week but I don't know if it is alright to sex with the girl after I marry.

Because they say if either the husband or wife or both are married then it will be adultery.

So if I have sex with my wife it will be adultery.

Can anyone help? Is it okay to have sex with my wife?

2006-11-20 18:13:07 · 12 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Singles & Dating

to be more specific, i don't want to talk about things that make her feel too old, or make me look too young. i know its a little broad, but what are topics would interest an outgoing mid-thirties woman?

2006-11-20 18:12:42 · 11 answers · asked by mr E 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 18:12:06 · 14 answers · asked by fm_aqua 1 in Singles & Dating