I don't get it. I mean I know women who won't like it when their men check out women on the street or lust after other women, yet let their men goto strip clubs? Why?? it makes no sense! How is watching a naked women dance around you and give you a lapdance any different than askin any chick you know to take off her clothes and dance for you behind your chicks back?? (Most women would have a problem with that and consider that somewat cheating). So if they have a problem with any random chick doing it, why do they let their men goto strip clubs and have strippers entertain them knowing they are lusting after them and using them for eyecandy and not thinking of their women at home and by that putting their relationship at risk for cheating??
2006-11-20 18:15:52 · 20 answers · asked by SmartyPants82 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Having some jealousy issues huh ?
2006-11-20 18:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by The Hit Man 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Actually, I do not agree. It has to be certain lines drawn when it come down to my man going to a strip club. I want to know which one it is, because I've been in a couple of them. And the one that I allow him to go to has a hands off policy. A strip club to a man is leisure. It will become a hobby if the girlfriend or wife acts like an *** over him looking at some ***. It's not that big of a deal. It all boils down to how secure a woman is and how much she can trust her man. However, I will not allow my man to go to a strip party at a house. There's a huge difference than at a strip club. Those female are scandalous and will do some strange things for some change. And it's not that I don't trust my man, I don't trust those females. But anyway, be a little more secure.
2016-05-22 04:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just more relaxed about sexuality. Maybe as long as they know their man is coming home to them they don't care what went on there. Have you ever heard this saying? "I don't care what makes my man hungry as long as he comes home to eat!" We all view sexuality differently... most women would be upset like you and other women can be right there with their guy getting aroused at the strip club... my wife is feels just about like you do and out of respect for her I have to be careful about these matters. I don't go to strip clubs, I don't stare at other women... it would hurt her feelings. At the same time I have a sister in law that let's my brother do Jell-O shots off her friends bodies as they all get plowed and party together... There is no right way or wrong way to go about these things, you just need to find a man who shares your value system. Good Luck
2006-11-20 18:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men are visually stimulated . . . women are emotionally stimulated. Thus...men going to strip clubs. Men like variety and like that a woman, even a strange stripper, sees him as interesting. Though she is not really interested...she's doing a job and wants to generate more money through tips from a man. Men get paid attention to by beautiful woman at a strip club and are visually stimulated. Still...my opinion...I wouldn't like any man of mine going to a strip club...it creates a unfair comparison to me and temptation to outside stimulation is laid on his path. Those same women at the strip clubs go home to their own guys who are 'used to them' and their guys probable go to other strip clubs for something new to see.
2006-11-20 18:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by onelight 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well most women think that the whole thing is fantasy. And when a guy gets home he is ready to bang his wife to no end. Say diferent women have different views. Then you got some wives that like the whole stripper thing, like the whole girl-girl-man thing, or just hate it because they were strippers, they couldn't be strippers, or just don't have the body of a stripper.
2006-11-20 23:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by Dirty Red 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't mind....as long as there's no lap dancing and he doesen't bring the strip club home. What I've seen a lot though is that a lot of strippers WILL have sex and therein lies the problem, they really are just glorified prostitutes.
2006-11-22 04:48:58 · answer #6 · answered by INSANE SUGARPUFF 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question alone implies that the type of men that go to strip clubs are also the submissive type that only "do" what their wives want. That in and of itself, is an oxymoron!!! The kind of men that go to the clubs, are usually fatheads that do what THEY want without the benefit of "listening" to their wives. I know because I'm married to one of these fatheads for the last 25 years. I'd never ALLOW him to go to one these places, and he knows that, so when he goes maybe once every 3 or 4 years, I only find out about it by accident. I suspect that MANY of the guys that go to these places don't tell their wives at all.
2006-11-20 18:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
It is not right to let your man go to these clubs. Problem is some man do not just watch they eventually go a step further after sleep with these strippers. Rather you strip tease him at home, than let him lose like that.
2006-11-20 18:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by Joker 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
You got issues, are you that insecure that you cannot trust your man to go and watch someone dance. It is no big deal and if you have any security in yourself it is not a big deal. It is no different when a woman goes and watches male strippers... Do you think that men sit at home and stress out about it, not even close, they don't care because his wife is going to come home hot and bothered and he is going to get some, and women think the same way believe it or not. So stop being so prudish and let it happen, and if you are so worried about it then offer to go with him and babysit him I am sure that will really make him happy :).
2006-11-20 18:27:43 · answer #9 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 2⤊ 4⤋
For one thing, the man IS king, and does what he wants, when he wants, ok. Second, going to a strip club is ok because there isn't much going on other than women dancing naked and guys watching; unless it's in Mexico where they allow touching. If my wife wanted to go to a strip club, along as the housework was done, I'd have no problem with it.
2006-11-20 18:42:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
if ur thatn insecure about ur relationship, then i suggest u go with hi to the strip club and find out for urself what they're like and what happens there. relationships are about communicating ur needs, wants and love. he's a guy and guys like to look at naked women, especially naked women they don't know but can fantasize about. go with him and enjoy it then u will reap the benefits from ur night out together.
2006-11-21 00:37:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋