met this guy at a club 3 years ago we live an hour apart. We made it clear we were not lookin for a relationship. I began to catch strong feelings for him over the years; but i have my pride. It is hard to show emotion to him. Ok so in july he told me we had to stop seeing eachother b/c he had descided to make it official with this chick near him, it hurt me bad. after that i texted him that he was the only guy i ever loved;i told him for my benefit i need to know what our relationship was about he avoided the ques and basically told me that i didn't understand that him going out with her was to do with his friends; and i never showed him signs of love. so i bowed out and said okay i care about you whatever makes you happy, 3 months go by then he messages me saying 'I want to chill with you" he kept asking we for 3 weeks i eventually went. ok so now me and him are having a relationship again even though he has a girl. what is going on?
2006-11-20 18:24:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i know it sounds wrong but i have been with him awhile; and i really car for him. He is the only guy i been with as well. Also he is always the first to contact me I don't instant message him first ever. when ever he is online he always ims me right when i come on line. basically he's in the situation that all his friends girlfriends are friends with eachother including his girlfriend. I think they really provoked him to go out with her from what i saw on his facebook...is it possible this guy is trapped i dunno i am prett positive i don't always assume the worst..
2006-11-20 18:32:20 · update #1
You are being used, he has a girlfriend and now you on the side! If he really cared about you he would never of hooked up with the other women. I wouldn't say that you are having a relationship as much as an affair, it may be hard to hear but true. Drop that looser and move on find someone who can treat you right!! (I hope you are being safe!!!!)
2006-11-20 20:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by Bruce d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
way way TMI lost me after seeing length of your question...did you ever ask a question or just keep rambling on and on and on
2006-11-21 03:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your the other women i hope you feel good about that silly brod
2006-11-21 02:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by auetim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing the field....I'd drop him.
2006-11-21 02:31:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a female and that's too long to read.
2006-11-21 02:26:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋