I am 54 well settled family, business and wealth, but from bigining i am not satisfied with my marriage life. From last 6 months, I have been getting pleasure from my secretary (36-Married). I only gets oral from her. She is very good at dirty oral and i am enjoying it. Pls tell whether she is doing for money or other else? I am also feeling bad abt my wife if she will come to know. Pls advise
2006-11-20 19:44:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Firstly, you shouldn't have involved with a married woman.. 2ndly, she is your secretary and you should have draw the line between superior and subordinates.
Now, you are being pleasure by serving from your sec who is also playing with fire. Have you ever thought if your wife is also acting such scam to other guy who turns to be her lover or superior, do you feel good on it or you would wack the shamless couple?
You are someone I believe is reputated background and you had a lovely family (no doubt you may lack of love & caring from your wife), however, you shouldn't marry her if you do not love your wife at all. Think it over how your wife go through thick and think wtih you before you become successful.. I don't know who you are but you are mature enough to reflect whether you did wrong or not.
2006-11-20 20:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by Adorable Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sense you are an adultrizing rascal you are now in the leagues of such big shots a s "martin luther king, Oral Bill Clinton, Edward kennedy, princess diana.
Why don't you give her head and make her happy also.
What do you think? that she cares for you? Get real give her a raise or make her a partner.
Actualy your wife might be happier than you think , just not with you. I think I've met her on Adult friend finder.
Do you think you are the only one who can play at that game.
Your wife was at the lawyers office earlier in the week andit wasn't about pancakes.
I bet yuor secretary is going to be surprise doptfind your wife will own the business.
2006-11-20 19:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course she's doing it for money you silly old fool. She's hoping you'll divorce your wife so that she can divorce her husband ... and then her life status will be elevated from secretary to a life of financial bliss. What ? You've never heard of this happening before?
As for your wife ... I feel for her. You say you haven't been happy with her since the beginning of your marriage, yet that didn't stop you from letting her breed a family for you.
I hope your wife does find out. It may hurt her like hell initially, but once she's over the pain of it, she'll have a chance at finding someone who really loves and appreciates her.
2006-11-20 19:55:23 · answer #3 · answered by mutt_buffer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, trust me I wasnt in the same situation but I am in the middle of a big divorce. You should seek a little help if you wanna keep your marriage. You are 54, not a teenager, and I am suspecting shes doing it for the money. And heaven forbid if this ever came out in a divorce case, youd be in a great deal of trouble. I say get some counseling.
2006-11-20 19:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by Falcon163 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know if you want to be with somebody else the least you can do for your wife is divorce her first. Not run around behind her back, that's even worse. It makes you a coward. I hope she does find out and divorces you first. She doesn't deserve what you are doing to her. And your secretary should be ashamed of herself, she must be looking for a raise or a promotion. Keep that in mind the next time you cheat on your wife.
2006-11-20 19:48:57 · answer #5 · answered by DepthsOfMyEyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww, what a sweet problem to have! Don't let your imagination run away with you. Focus on the here and now, which is your studies, paying school bills, etc. Try to study with friends to make it harder for your attention to wander. Join a school club or student government if you have a lot of energy to spare. Also please remember fantasy is not reality - every couple quarrels sometimes, and upset each other over trivial or crucial things - this is a part of life too. It won't be beauty and romance 100% of the time, just as no road is perfectly straight all the extent of its length.Let your imagination sober up with that.
2016-03-29 03:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's illegal, and why your secretary is doing it is something that you have to find out for yourself. Without knowing the entire situation I couldn't tell you why she's doing it.
If you are feeling self concious about it then the obvious solution would be to stop doing it.
If you aren't satisfied with your marriage, then divorce may be a good option.
2006-11-20 19:48:09 · answer #7 · answered by Simba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have got to be kidding ... if you are 54 you should know better. I'm 22 and even see how silly this is. If you are unhappy you should have talked about this a long time ago and the fact that you use your other "head" to think at this age still is ridiculous.. come on... HAS EVERYONE OUT THERE LOST THE IDEA OF COMMITMENT if it doesn't work at least be committed to TALK ABOUT IT before acting foolishly ?!?
2006-11-20 19:51:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't man enough to tell your wife that she is boring you, then at least be man enough to leave. You should feel bad. Consider what you are doing behind your wife's back. Fire the secretary.
2006-11-20 20:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by oregongreen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should feel bad. Your wife is probably unsuspecting and trusting of you. If your not happy, try therapy. But it sounds to me like your just using happiness as an excuse to get off without feeling guilty.
2006-11-20 19:49:45 · answer #10 · answered by Nickie N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋